Am i bi?

[shyguy76]

I love fantasizing about sucking cock and being fucked by 1 or more guys but i dont find men attractive at all,not even a little bit.....I'm confused,if i was bi,then wouldn't i find both sexes attractive?

 

[SexyLitForAll]

I love fantasizing about sucking cock and being fucked by 1 or more guys but i dont find men attractive at all,not even a little bit.....I'm confused,if i was bi,then wouldn't i find both sexes attractive?

I think most everyone has a curious side. Some are just curious and fantasize, others act on their curiosity. Best to just trust your instincts and go where you feel the most comfortable.

 

[chelseabi]

I love fantasizing about sucking cock and being fucked by 1 or more guys but i dont find men attractive at all,not even a little bit.....I'm confused,if i was bi,then wouldn't i find both sexes attractive?

You don't have to find the person attractive to be attracted to sex, not every woman you meet you consider attractive but you'd still have sex with them (and of course the other way round), so it's the act of sex with other partners, male and female that make you bi sexual not the fact that you are physically or emotionally attracted to them.

You can crave cock, doesn't mean you want a relationship with a guy, other than a sexual one, just as having sex with a female doesn't have to mean she's your girlfriend or there's wedding bells in the offing.

We are what we are, and sex is one of those things that cross boundaries, labeling or trying to put a name to it often doesn't work, where sex is concerned we all have our quirks, we all would like to do more than we actually do, constrained as we are and fearful of being accused or labeled.
Do what ever makes you comfortable and doesn't hurt anyone else, if the urge gets to strong rather than suppress it, try it, you never know the reality may not live up to the fantasy or it might be better, only one way to find out, it doesn't change you but expands experiences.

 

[Rimmer]

I feel the same mate, i love women, but thought of playing and sucking a guys cock is just so filthy gets me off, am a little bi and looking to have some more fun as only done once

 

[shyguy76]

Where are you Rimmer?

 

[Rimmer]

Am in the UK mate in Surrey near London, what about you?

 

[shyguy76]

sussex

 

[shyguy76]

also in uk ,sussex 35

 

[Rimmer]

Oh cool might have to have a chat of interested? You ever done anything with a guy? My mail address is on my profile if like to get in touch...

 

[Shyguy55]

I can toatally relate to you shyguy, ironically our names are the same lol. It be cool to talk to someone going through the same thing so if your keen private message me or reply to this

 

[shyguy76]

Of course 55,not a problem

 

[silkydave1]

We are all bi to some extent... See Kinsey scale and try the test at different times, you will get different results, I vary between hetero to almost totally gay depending on moods