Married Ladies Guide to Meeting Girls

[2wet4words]

So now that all these married gals have come out from under the laundry baskets, shopping lists, and carpool pickups to confess their hots for a little chick to chick, it's time to answer literally hundreds of emails I've received since I started my thread "Married Women who Fantasize about Girls." Every hot matron wants to know- How?
Now I'm not the expert but I have licked quite a few myself and been licked in return in the past half a year so my advice has some kick to it. And others are invited to join in.
My first thread did okay and still has a life of its own so here goes. Of course, it is sure to draw some interest at least among the online roleplay self-promoting vampires who suck the blood of other threads. At least if no one bites, I will have reasserted my claim to be the Craig's List for would-be virtual clit geeks.
So how did I go looking for poon when the spirit first moved me?
Poon Paradise Number 1- the University Campus. Now we are not talking Brigham Young, Bir Zeit, or Yeshiva University but any secular metropolitan university has a broad diversity of diverse broads. If you live near one, look for the Women's Center. The library is good too.
Poon Paradise Number 2- Book stores. If you remember how to buy a real paper book in person rather than the digital variety over the net, go there, get a couple of books, buy a latte, and wait. Make eye contact. Smile. Guess what. Girls pick up signsls a lot better than guys. Generally.

Others chime in. I'm finishing a PhD and my choices are decidedly skewed toward the academic.

Bad places to look: birth control clinics, Tea Party rallies, auto accident scenes, state executions, IRS audits.

Miscellaneous: women who munch other women come in all sizes, shapes, and dress. I'm a girly girl. I've bern with Marlon Brando type dykes for sure who dress more like Tony Soprano than Carmella but don't get hung up on Hollywood stereotypes. Lesbisn and bi- women and the millions of us who eschew any strict deginition of our identity are not encapsulated by our desire to make a clit to clit connection. We are all different. It's a good thing.

Let the munching begin!

 

[bellezpetfemcl]

met most of mine

on holiday. Both relaxed looking for adventure. Once they learn Im lesbian their interest is piqued and we have the fun we both want...x

 

[Curiouser_and_curiouser]

I hope you don't mind me asking a question. As a married woman, I'm pretty sure I've never been approached but lets say I have been missed the initial signals and have engaged in conversation with possible lover or an already established aquaintance (not close friend) is showing an interest, in general how would they talk you into bed?

I'm asking this because several years ago, a girl I now know to be bisexual and I were walking back from a nightclub, after we were both mutually dumped by our friends and being girls we didn't want to walk home alone. I was a teenager, full of self-loathing and uncomfortable in my own skin, so I indulged in a self-pity rant about how uys never fancied me and everyone prefered my best friend, "Mandy". Suddenly this girl said, that "Mandy" was "a very pretty girl but that I was beautiful", then she explained why I was "stunning" and that was an end to it. I felt a bit embarrassed and started talking aout something else. To this day I'm not sure if it was a chat up line (if it was a man I would say yes) or just another girl trying to be nice to a girl feeling bad because I've said similar stuff to girls but have never said it to talk them into bed.


I'm not stunning by the way.

 

[2wet4words]

I hope you don't mind me asking a question. As a married woman, I'm pretty sure I've never been approached but lets say I have been missed the initial signals and have engaged in conversation with possible lover or an already established aquaintance (not close friend) is showing an interest, in general how would they talk you into bed?

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No way to know for sure but, in my experience, if a girl makes a point of touching you while she's complimenting you, e.g., a finger on your arm no matter how light or seemingly casual, there is a good chance she is interested.

I sometimes say in similar situationz something like, "Guys are so hard to understand. Sometimes I wish i could find the right girl."

 

[theedebster]

Lol

I have to say my first impresion of this thread was that a man was "posing" in order to get some type of connection with women. However, the remark about looking for women at college campuses really struct a nerve with me. I use to refer to it as carpet shopping, and college campuses are great sources for mining for what pleases best. My first experience with an older woman came during my sophmore year at college and the memories associated with that relationship has served me well, over the years, as great fantasies for purposes of self-gratification.

 

[sows_ear]

I hope you don't mind me asking a question. As a married woman, I'm pretty sure I've never been approached but lets say I have been missed the initial signals and have engaged in conversation with possible lover or an already established aquaintance (not close friend) is showing an interest, in general how would they talk you into bed?

I'm asking this because several years ago, a girl I now know to be bisexual and I were walking back from a nightclub, after we were both mutually dumped by our friends and being girls we didn't want to walk home alone. I was a teenager, full of self-loathing and uncomfortable in my own skin, so I indulged in a self-pity rant about how uys never fancied me and everyone prefered my best friend, "Mandy". Suddenly this girl said, that "Mandy" was "a very pretty girl but that I was beautiful", then she explained why I was "stunning" and that was an end to it. I felt a bit embarrassed and started talking aout something else. To this day I'm not sure if it was a chat up line (if it was a man I would say yes) or just another girl trying to be nice to a girl feeling bad because I've said similar stuff to girls but have never said it to talk them into bed.


I'm not stunning by the way.

I believe you are stunning... and yes she was coming on to you.
My lead in is always with a compliment. And the strange thing is, they are always true and sincere. But it is sad that too many women can't accept a compliment.
The compliments don't get anyone into bed, but it will open the door.

As to where to find women... well I'm a college student and the campus seems to always be bustling. Also try a lesbian club, dancing, drinking, mmmm pretty fun, and everyone knows your orientation.

 

[Curiouser_and_curiouser]

I believe you are stunning... and yes she was coming on to you.


Hmm thanks- ahh if only I'd known that in my late teens could have been a very interesting time.

My lead in is always with a compliment. And the strange thing is, they are always true and sincere. But it is sad that too many women can't accept a compliment.

Possibly because we are taught, when a compliment is given, the giver wants something in return- which I agree is sad. We just don't trust people these days.

 

[blueberree]

What is your area of study?

Of course the thread was interesting in regard to meeting women, I was just curious about your area of study 2wet.

The bookstore thing is good. About 3 weeks ago I met a lovely woman while perusing some books. I didn't go there to meet anyone, but saw her looking at the sales shelves. And then I asked "See anything interesting?"

Apparently she was there to pick someone up. It was an unexpectedly delightful Sunday afternoon.

 

[kaboom3d]

Of course the thread was interesting in regard to meeting women, I was just curious about your area of study 2wet.

The bookstore thing is good. About 3 weeks ago I met a lovely woman while perusing some books. I didn't go there to meet anyone, but saw her looking at the sales shelves. And then I asked "See anything interesting?"

Apparently she was there to pick someone up. It was an unexpectedly delightful Sunday afternoon.

How delightful.... If you are out, you just never know when that girl will come along.

 

[blueberree]

How delightful.... If you are out, you just never know when that girl will come along.

It was unexpected, but then when I saw her, it was one of those rare "hey I'm pretty sure you are" sort of thing.

It was all quite fun and nice and good all at the same time

 

[kaboom3d]

It was unexpected, but then when I saw her, it was one of those rare "hey I'm pretty sure you are" sort of thing.

It was all quite fun and nice and good all at the same time

Sometimes you can just tell.
Then life just gets better

 

[2wet4words]

Of course the thread was interesting in regard to meeting women, I was just curious about your area of study 2wet.

Philosophy/Linguistics

 

[apple_pi]

It was unexpected, but then when I saw her, it was one of those rare "hey I'm pretty sure you are" sort of thing.

It was all quite fun and nice and good all at the same time

Book store , good call Blueberreee

 

[sows_ear]

Book store , good call Blueberreee

Haven't I seen you at Barnes and Noble?

 

[mrsbi]

:d

Since I am a married lady and I caught myself another married lady I thought I would share!
It was girls night out to a not to local bar, I was with a big group of ladies, most I didn't know. We were all just sitting around a table drinking and talking, I usually am the one to turn a conversation naughty and that night was no different. We talked of various hetero things and then I asked the question of have you ever kissed another girl. There were lots of no's to my disapointment, but one just smiled and nodded yes when it was her turn, I had already thought she was pretty and nice and everything else but when she said yes we made eye contact and that was enuff. After a cpl hours people left and it got down to just the two of us, we flirted like crazy, shut down the bar, ended up making out in the car like teenagers, exchanged numbers and have been hot and heavy ever since. I just love having a hot sexy older woman!!

 

[kaboom3d]

Since I am a married lady and I caught myself another married lady I thought I would share!
It was girls night out to a not to local bar, I was with a big group of ladies, most I didn't know. We were all just sitting around a table drinking and talking, I usually am the one to turn a conversation naughty and that night was no different. We talked of various hetero things and then I asked the question of have you ever kissed another girl. There were lots of no's to my disapointment, but one just smiled and nodded yes when it was her turn, I had already thought she was pretty and nice and everything else but when she said yes we made eye contact and that was enuff. After a cpl hours people left and it got down to just the two of us, we flirted like crazy, shut down the bar, ended up making out in the car like teenagers, exchanged numbers and have been hot and heavy ever since. I just love having a hot sexy older woman!!

mmmmmm... enjoy

 

[sows_ear]

I had a woman come on to me at Ralphs Market.
This woman was trying to get by me and she brushed her boobs against me. Then said sorry. I said "for what?" "Bumping in to you" she replied. "I didn't feel anything" I say.
"Your bad luck" she said, and "My bad luck, cause you are really cute"

She was giving me that look, and a wonderful smile.

 

[kaboom3d]

I had a woman come on to me at Ralphs Market.
This woman was trying to get by me and she brushed her boobs against me. Then said sorry. I said "for what?" "Bumping in to you" she replied. "I didn't feel anything" I say.
"Your bad luck" she said, and "My bad luck, cause you are really cute"

She was giving me that look, and a wonderful smile.

I wish it had been me that brushed you
mmmmm I like to think we would have had a longer chapter to this story

 

[CuriousLisa1980]

I have been out many times, and get hit on by different women but always get scared to act on it. I worried I'm reading there signals wrong, and I do live in a small town. Guess I don't want to get caught.

 

[kaboom3d]

I have been out many times, and get hit on by different women but always get scared to act on it. I worried I'm reading there signals wrong, and I do live in a small town. Guess I don't want to get caught.

or you don't want to get the girl

 

[CuriousLisa1980]

Its kinda both, what If I do get caught! I don't want to loose or embarass my family. what if I'm reading her signals wrong? What if I love it the way I think I would in my mind.
I'm very curious, but very scared at the same time.
I'm also very shy... stil can't believe i'm on lit

 

[kaboom3d]

Its kinda both, what If I do get caught! I don't want to loose or embarass my family. what if I'm reading her signals wrong? What if I love it the way I think I would in my mind.
I'm very curious, but very scared at the same time.
I'm also very shy... stil can't believe i'm on lit

Just follow the signals. Let her lead the way and see how far it goes, at some you find out if it is just flirtatious or serious.
Getting caught, not very likely. Women have women friends and they spend time together alone. Having an affair with a man draws attention. With a woman, just good friends.

 

[CuriousLisa1980]

Good point, I will see how it goes.
thanks for the advice and understanding!

 

[sows_ear]

Good point, I will see how it goes.
thanks for the advice and understanding!

We are expecting some details

 

[CNYCarol]

We are expecting some details

PERVE!