lingerie question?

why do men act crazy when they see lingerie on a woman?

Well visually its nice to have things covered up but hinted at and accentuated rather then all on display to begin with. Also it can often mean that if your partner has put it on then they are feeling sexy - that's always a turn on knowing things are probably going to happen.
 
Lingerie is first and foremost a statement of willingness, of interest, and of enjoyment. (Unless we're talking about someone who's wearing it out of obligation, but I'm looking at healthy relationships here, not sadness...) It's a deliberate statement that she wants me to get turned on. Moreover, it shows effort toward that. Saying "I want you" is sexy, but actually doing something about it is much sexier.

There is also an intimacy factor. It says "I want you to see what other people aren't supposed to see," and while nudity does the same thing, lingerie provides something new to it. Yes, I want to see my girlfriend naked (I'm in love with her, after all), but when she's wearing lingerie it has all that intimacy plus she's doing something new or at least outside the norm.

It also provides anticipation, which always makes sex better. It provides a tease, which is a turn-on. And in most cases, the lines that are drawn with lingerie draw attention to a woman's figure, her curves, and her naughty bits.

By and large, I'd rather see an attractive woman wearing more by way of lingerie than less by way of swimwear. A bikini can be sexy, sure, but it has a purpose beyond sexuality. Lingerie really doesn't, and so there's no ambiguity there. She's wearing it to be sexy.
 
Lingerie is first and foremost a statement of willingness, of interest, and of enjoyment. (Unless we're talking about someone who's wearing it out of obligation, but I'm looking at healthy relationships here, not sadness...) It's a deliberate statement that she wants me to get turned on. Moreover, it shows effort toward that. Saying "I want you" is sexy, but actually doing something about it is much sexier.

There is also an intimacy factor. It says "I want you to see what other people aren't supposed to see," and while nudity does the same thing, lingerie provides something new to it. Yes, I want to see my girlfriend naked (I'm in love with her, after all), but when she's wearing lingerie it has all that intimacy plus she's doing something new or at least outside the norm.

It also provides anticipation, which always makes sex better. It provides a tease, which is a turn-on. And in most cases, the lines that are drawn with lingerie draw attention to a woman's figure, her curves, and her naughty bits.

By and large, I'd rather see an attractive woman wearing more by way of lingerie than less by way of swimwear. A bikini can be sexy, sure, but it has a purpose beyond sexuality. Lingerie really doesn't, and so there's no ambiguity there. She's wearing it to be sexy.

I wanted to say something like that but you put it a lot better than I could.

There is also the aesthetics. Everything about the lingerie is designed to be pleasing both in a visual and tactile sense. It appeals to both men and women, women feel sexy in it and men find women wearing it sexy and both parties enjoy that effect on the other.
 
Because we're jealous that women can wear it and men can't.

Men can wear lingerie, I can't think of a whole lot sexier than my guy wearing a pair of boxers and a smile. :D

There's always the tie and nothing else, that is all sorts of sexy. A hat hanging off a guy's attached pole says way more than 'I want you'. :cool:
 
Well

my thought is it is something where the special thing is hidden so it is hot. where as if we are naked then it is not as special, just an idea.
 
Outside the Paradigm

Color me weird, but lingerie doesn't do much for me.

A nice, tight, two-button tee, otoh...;)
 
Lingerie is first and foremost a statement of willingness, of interest, and of enjoyment. (Unless we're talking about someone who's wearing it out of obligation, but I'm looking at healthy relationships here, not sadness...) It's a deliberate statement that she wants me to get turned on. Moreover, it shows effort toward that. Saying "I want you" is sexy, but actually doing something about it is much sexier.

There is also an intimacy factor. It says "I want you to see what other people aren't supposed to see," and while nudity does the same thing, lingerie provides something new to it. Yes, I want to see my girlfriend naked (I'm in love with her, after all), but when she's wearing lingerie it has all that intimacy plus she's doing something new or at least outside the norm.

It also provides anticipation, which always makes sex better. It provides a tease, which is a turn-on. And in most cases, the lines that are drawn with lingerie draw attention to a woman's figure, her curves, and her naughty bits.

By and large, I'd rather see an attractive woman wearing more by way of lingerie than less by way of swimwear. A bikini can be sexy, sure, but it has a purpose beyond sexuality. Lingerie really doesn't, and so there's no ambiguity there. She's wearing it to be sexy.

You nailed it - presentation is a very precious gift.
 
reminds me...

This kind of reminds me of an old southern thought, What's the difference between nekkid and naked? Nekkid is naked with intent
Lingerie is dressing with intent!
 
Because it looks good, feels good and is so much fun to find out what's underneath. It's like opening presents at Christmas when you were a kid. I love opening things up.
 
1. Because men are crazy anyway, and

2. lingerie means 'almost naked' to most guys, and

3. it's usually looks pretty damn good.
 
My two cents

I would have to agree with the idea of the feel of it and women look damn good in it. I think it is also partially a mental tease
 
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Lingerie is first and foremost a statement of willingness, of interest, and of enjoyment. (Unless we're talking about someone who's wearing it out of obligation, but I'm looking at healthy relationships here, not sadness...) It's a deliberate statement that she wants me to get turned on. Moreover, it shows effort toward that. Saying "I want you" is sexy, but actually doing something about it is much sexier.

There is also an intimacy factor. It says "I want you to see what other people aren't supposed to see," and while nudity does the same thing, lingerie provides something new to it. Yes, I want to see my girlfriend naked (I'm in love with her, after all), but when she's wearing lingerie it has all that intimacy plus she's doing something new or at least outside the norm.

It also provides anticipation, which always makes sex better. It provides a tease, which is a turn-on. And in most cases, the lines that are drawn with lingerie draw attention to a woman's figure, her curves, and her naughty bits.

By and large, I'd rather see an attractive woman wearing more by way of lingerie than less by way of swimwear. A bikini can be sexy, sure, but it has a purpose beyond sexuality. Lingerie really doesn't, and so there's no ambiguity there. She's wearing it to be sexy.

Like the other poster said - your reply is spot on !
 
Well said bashfullyshameless, I LOVE to put on something sexy and silky, it makes me feel good and turns on my men mmmmmm
 
Men are visual. And usually when they're at the point of seeing lingerie on a woman, they pretty much know they're getting fucked.
 
I LOVE lingerie... of all types... makes me feel very hot and sexy... mmmmmm

.......love the look on a guys face when he sees me in it a bit more though :devil:
 
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