For women: fetish to have sex with married men?

[boyoftx]

I was discussing some issues with my friend and this topic came out of nowhere that some women (unmarried) like to have sex with married men. Any ladies out there? What is the reason you ladies do that?

 

[PrettyBBWMeg]

I've had that fantasy, would only make it a reality under the right circumstances.

For me the appeal is twofold. Firstly, it's forbidden. You can't tell anybody that you've done it and if you're caught you could get in really big trouble.

Second of all, there's the fact that you know it's kind of a dead end deal. (That is, unless you go into it looking for more and...well...that's a whole other set of problems altogether). So it's no muss, no fuss. Wham, bam, thank you ma'am.

 

[HornyDallasAtty]

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[positivetension]

I don't cheat, but just as a fantasy there is definitely an appeal. The idea of being exactly what someone else needs and isn't getting anywhere else, of doing things someone else won't do, of scratching that itch or fulfilling a desperate craving.

It would be an ego boost, and kind of empowering. But I still wouldn't cheat with someone.

 

[katt2007]

Cheating generally is quite a big turn on for me.

 

[bi_curious6969]

I have to agree with Katt2007 cheating is a big turn on for me too.

 

[DirtyLaura]

I've had that fantasy, would only make it a reality under the right circumstances.

For me the appeal is twofold. Firstly, it's forbidden. You can't tell anybody that you've done it and if you're caught you could get in really big trouble.

Second of all, there's the fact that you know it's kind of a dead end deal. (That is, unless you go into it looking for more and...well...that's a whole other set of problems altogether). So it's no muss, no fuss. Wham, bam, thank you ma'am.

Yes ..I like the second reason too...the fact that everyone is aware that its a dead end deal makes her look overtly promiscuous...kind of a turn on...

 

[KinkyGoose]

All these women talk about how attractive they find married men... but I'm wondering when it'll sink in with me.

I've been married 6 months now, and have yet to find any promiscuous flirts hitting on me!

Maybe it takes a year before the attraction sets in, yes?

 

[DirtyLaura]

All these women talk about how attractive they find married men... but I'm wondering when it'll sink in with me.

I've been married 6 months now, and have yet to find any promiscuous flirts hitting on me!

Maybe it takes a year before the attraction sets in, yes?

LOL...I'd hit on you in a jiffy

 

[hzzrn1]

Laura, those legs are incredibly sexy... thanks!

 

[Ellen_1989]

I like the idea of an older controling married man, but would NEVER do it...somethings should remain just fantasy.

 

[dr_nick1978]

PM me if you want to explore that fantasy some more Ellen..

 

[TanyaH]

I wouldn't call it a fetish, but I have been with a number of married men. Like others have said I like that it can't go anywhere and I like pleasing them in ways their wives won't.

The first cheating guy I was ever really with I really wanted to be with me, but while he was okay cheating on his girlfriend, he wouldn't leave her for me because they had plans to marry and so forth, so with that one there was also enjoyment of knowing that I was having her man.

That kind of blurred the line for me and since, well, I don't pursue married men, but if they pursue me and I like them I'll let them catch me - it's their choice, their karma - I no longer get a buzz from having someone else's man either - except on the odd occasion when I get together with that first guy, that buzz has always been there for me.

 

[Ruby_PlumRed]

It sounds hella sexy, but I wouldn't ever.



I think. x

 

[Spicy_Smile]

I was discussing some issues with my friend and this topic came out of nowhere that some women (unmarried) like to have sex with married men. Any ladies out there? What is the reason you ladies do that?

I think for some women it is being treated well...without having to be in a relationship. By well, I mean, that once you please them the way they have been needing many in turn shower with compliments and treat you sexier than a man in a relationship might.

Also, for those of with commitment issues it helps (in the beginning), perhaps.

Women as emotional creatures desire to be wanted - and isn't that one of the reasons a married man strays? To have sex (which is the male version of being wanted)?

 

[asmittenkitten]

I think for some women it is being treated well...without having to be in a relationship. By well, I mean, that once you please them the way they have been needing many in turn shower with compliments and treat you sexier than a man in a relationship might.

Also, for those of with commitment issues it helps (in the beginning), perhaps.

Women as emotional creatures desire to be wanted - and isn't that one of the reasons a married man strays? To have sex (which is the male version of being wanted)?

I couldn't agree more... Married men rock. Plus it always nice to be the "guest star," you know?!

 

[katt2007]

I like the idea of an older controling married man, but would NEVER do it...somethings should remain just fantasy.

No, I wouldn't either. But I think most of the fantasies people indulge here are things they wouldn't do in real life. In fact, I think if you do do them, the fantasies lose their power.

 

[SexyLitForAll]

The fantasy is fun...

Having been married for 15 years, I have not and would not cheat...but the fantasy of doing so is quite titilating. So if any of you want to induldge in such fantasies without worring about me hitting on you for real sex, this married guy is game.

 

[winepleasures]

I like this thread

it should be re-titled: "Ego Boost for a Married Man"

 

[pl4ywithdaddy]

I m a married guy, and while I ve never actually cheated, it s one of my favourite roleplaying fantasies. It s maybe something about the sexual attraction being so strong, that social conventions are broken. Of course in fantasy those conventions can be broken with consequences, nobody gets hurt, which would be like the greatest possible turn-off....

there s just something incredibly sexy to me about a woman who will play with a taken man....it kinda shuts my brain down, all the blood going elsewhere....

 

[thejdangel]

Not one of my fantasies I must say. I'm on the hate the idea side of the fence.

 

[LindsayRae]

It was a fetish of mine until I fell in love with a married (now divorced and MINE) man. We are engaged and I've never looked back.

 

[77817]

Not one of my fantasies I must say. I'm on the hate the idea side of the fence.

Me too. Reading Lit can be kind of depressing really. You start to wonder how you can trust your own partner to be faithful when this site seems to have men and women scheming left and right to cheat on their own spouses.

 

[thejdangel]

Me*too.**Reading*Lit*can*be*kind*of*depressing*really.*You*start*to*wonder*how*you*can*trust*your*own*partner*to*be*faithful*when*this*site*seems*to*have*men*and*women*scheming*left*and*right*to*cheat*on*their*own*spouses.

Yes*most*people*here*are*married,*but*many*with*full*knowledge*and*participation*of*their*partner.

I*just*can't*bear*the*fact*I'm*being*used!*I'd*rather*be*the*cheated*on*wife*then*the*mistress.*