Very, very rough sex

[kyliem]

I crave and in some case, require very rough, dangerous sex with very few limits. I am sure there are many more of you out there. Thoughts?

 

[switchbitch]

I crave and in some case, require very rough, dangerous sex with very few limits. I am sure there are many more of you out there. Thoughts?

Indeed and sometimes my love of the extreme can get me into trouble,as a catalogue of injuries will attest. It is always difficult explaining to the emergency room how I achieved particularly unusual injuries. Chuckling

 

[RoxyChick69]

as do i

i also crave rough sex. i'm not sure i'd want it so extreme that i ended up in the hospital, or had injuries i had to explain to others... but i definitely crave it rough and hard. i want to be taken hard and i want to put up a fight, and i don't want to win. *sigh* But i have yet to find that someone willing to go there with me. What does it take?

My point: you are definitely not alone in your cravings.

 

[jackstud]

i also crave rough sex. i'm not sure i'd want it so extreme that i ended up in the hospital, or had injuries i had to explain to others... but i definitely crave it rough and hard. i want to be taken hard and i want to put up a fight, and i don't want to win. *sigh* But i have yet to find that someone willing to go there with me. What does it take?

My point: you are definitely not alone in your cravings.

Would not take much with me Babe

 

[mmarfox]

I always wanted to wrestle a girl down before we have sex. Have that raw energy as we fight, then force her to submit.

 

[BondageKink]

19 y/o male , Ontario here who absolutely craves and desires this and actively seeks it with no luck so far

 

[steelrfn]

i also crave rough sex. i'm not sure i'd want it so extreme that i ended up in the hospital, or had injuries i had to explain to others... but i definitely crave it rough and hard. i want to be taken hard and i want to put up a fight, and i don't want to win. *sigh* But i have yet to find that someone willing to go there with me. What does it take?

My point: you are definitely not alone in your cravings.

This surprises me, I would think most guys would be happy to engage in some rough play as long as your desire is clearly communicated beforehand.



Then again, that may just be me

 

[RoxyChick69]

mmm

I always wanted to wrestle a girl down before we have sex. Have that raw energy as we fight, then force her to submit.

exactly.....

 

[voltigeur]

I think the reluctance is the fine line between rough sex that plays non-conhesent and it actually being rape. I dated a girl that always said no and and whimpered that she was a good girl and didn't like what was happening to her.

She always wanted to make out and didn't resist having her shirt taken off. She may have just wanted a kink of being "forced". I would play that way but would never actually force anyone.

I soon met someone else and we stopped seeing each other. I always wondered if it was a game.

 

[MaraJade1978]

i also crave rough sex. i'm not sure i'd want it so extreme that i ended up in the hospital, or had injuries i had to explain to others... but i definitely crave it rough and hard. i want to be taken hard and i want to put up a fight, and i don't want to win. *sigh* But i have yet to find that someone willing to go there with me. What does it take?

My point: you are definitely not alone in your cravings.

Ditto here

 

[world69peace]

i also crave rough sex. i'm not sure i'd want it so extreme that i ended up in the hospital, or had injuries i had to explain to others... but i definitely crave it rough and hard. i want to be taken hard and i want to put up a fight, and i don't want to win. *sigh* But i have yet to find that someone willing to go there with me. What does it take?

My point: you are definitely not alone in your cravings.

I agree as well!

Sometimes I *must* have marks left on my body, evidence of the lust and sex of our night...

Love bruises and scratches and rope marks... sigh! Love having scabby nipples from being bitten soo hard!

 

[Kojote]

i also crave rough sex. i'm not sure i'd want it so extreme that i ended up in the hospital, or had injuries i had to explain to others... but i definitely crave it rough and hard. i want to be taken hard and i want to put up a fight, and i don't want to win. *sigh* But i have yet to find that someone willing to go there with me. What does it take?

Talking.
Plus someone physically stronger than you.

In the past I’ve been with women with similar desires and couldn’t stand it.
It was an appealing and powerful feeling, but I couldn’t bring me to do something my mother teached me not to do.
There was not only the fear to lose control and do harm, but also the barrier of ‘manners’.
Talking and slow exploration led the way to be more demanding and basically rougher if desired.
One has to learn interpreting signs normally signaling an immediate need to stop what one is doing differently. That takes time to understand.

Later in my life I witnessed women who wouldn’t or couldn’t express the desire and was able to interpret the body language right and ‘go with the flow’. But I had to develop a whole new consciousness and still do.

Instead of searching for somebody wired the right way, take your time and explore it with somebody who is otherwise sensitive to your feelings. And you will end up with somebody who won’t hurt outside the bedroom. This way he will learn reading your body language.

 

[HannahHills]

i also crave rough sex. i'm not sure i'd want it so extreme that i ended up in the hospital, or had injuries i had to explain to others... but i definitely crave it rough and hard. i want to be taken hard and i want to put up a fight, and i don't want to win. *sigh* But i have yet to find that someone willing to go there with me. What does it take?

My point: you are definitely not alone in your cravings.

Not alone at all -- in fact, in great company, I should think.

I strongly yearn to struggle, and then yield and submit. I have offered myself to lovers in this way, who have not been so inclined. For me, the challenge is finding the right balance between the rest of my life, where I am happily in control, and the bedroom (or the kitchen floor, or WHEREVER), where I long to be taken, and to find a lover who can "flip the switch" with me.

 

[pwr2theblondes]

I always wanted to wrestle a girl down before we have sex. Have that raw energy as we fight, then force her to submit.

I have always wanted to do this too.

 

[HerLittlePiggy]

i also crave rough sex. i'm not sure i'd want it so extreme that i ended up in the hospital, or had injuries i had to explain to others... but i definitely crave it rough and hard. i want to be taken hard and i want to put up a fight, and i don't want to win. *sigh* But i have yet to find that someone willing to go there with me. What does it take?

All it takes is a phone call or a PM to me

 

[gagginforit]

Indeed and sometimes my love of the extreme can get me into trouble,as a catalogue of injuries will attest. It is always difficult explaining to the emergency room how I achieved particularly unusual injuries. Chuckling

Vegemite jar stuck up the ass?

 

[switchbitch]

Vegemite jar stuck up the ass?

ROFLMAO, no,not really something that I would get into. Mine are usually things like muscles torn in strange places, stitches when a couple of whips bit too deep, fish hooks caught underneath the skin etc.

 

[Aurantica]

i also crave rough sex. i'm not sure i'd want it so extreme that i ended up in the hospital, or had injuries i had to explain to others... but i definitely crave it rough and hard. i want to be taken hard and i want to put up a fight, and i don't want to win. *sigh* But i have yet to find that someone willing to go there with me. What does it take?

My point: you are definitely not alone in your cravings.

I love the same thing. Rough, but still sane.

 

[coastguy1]

An ex once asked me to rape her. I was a little nervous but no way was I going to turn down the opporunity to fulfil a fantasy of hers. Turned out to be a lot of fun, holding her down, ripping at her clothes, shoving my cock hard into her as she tried to fight me off. She never stopped fighting the whole time until we had both cum. She was very thankful afterwards.

 

[gagginforit]

ROFLMAO, no,not really something that I would get into. Mine are usually things like muscles torn in strange places, stitches when a couple of whips bit too deep, fish hooks caught underneath the skin etc.

Fish hooks, that's fascinating. Was that nice? I mean until hospitalisation was required?

I'm guessing you're pretty full on into the scene.

 

[switchbitch]

Fish hooks, that's fascinating. Was that nice? I mean until hospitalisation was required?

I'm guessing you're pretty full on into the scene.

it was yuuuuummmy.

 

[Denny Crane]

I always wanted to wrestle a girl down before we have sex. Have that raw energy as we fight, then force her to submit.

I had a girlfriend a few years ago that liked to do this. She'd struggle, and I'd pin her down and start fucking her really hard. Then after a couple of minutes, I'd let up on my hold just enough to allow her to squirm away from me. Then I'd pin her down again. We'd end up fucking all over the house. lol It was very hot.

 

[richard_daily]

I've done this more times than I can count... but in general, if I were a woman (or a man who was having a woman top him), I'd only do this with someone who I trusted completely. I've done it a few times with women that I knew only casually, and I kind of wondered what the hell they were thinking...

That said; the power dynamic and aggression that's unleashed in a extremely rough/violent session is a real turn on for me.

 

[Ruby_PlumRed]

I remember one occasion when a particularly rough bf of mine just totally ravaged me. Once he heard the words "fuck me" from my mouth, he basically didn't listen to anything else. He ripped my clothes, threw me off the bed at one point and fucked me on the floor.

I was too breathless to say no, but I think he wouldn't have listened anyway. THAT was the hottest thing. x

 

[bicuriouscd]

I remember one occasion when a particularly rough bf of mine just totally ravaged me. Once he heard the words "fuck me" from my mouth, he basically didn't listen to anything else. He ripped my clothes, threw me off the bed at one point and fucked me on the floor.

I was too breathless to say no, but I think he wouldn't have listened anyway. THAT was the hottest thing. x

By what you have written in another thread it sounds like you could use that again !!