The Men who Crave Cock but aren't attracted to Men Club!

[JMohegan]

I think it has to do with everyone needing to label everything and every facet of their lives. I think labels ought to take a back seat in every ones lives..they are just a guide.


I like to be vegetarian but I also like to eat chicken. So why would I not be able to call myself vegetarian even if I like to eat chicken- why does a label have to be so limited to just what the label depicts?


Many of the men here are straight with bicurious fantasies.

Fantasies are only that...something thought up in his mind.

He can't truly consider himself bisexual until he's had both worlds sexually and really decides he loves both equally to not give up one or the other. He's never really HAD a FIRST opportunity with a male to even consider himself bi at this point...and many of the men here haven't either so why would anyone think a label is needed so early on in their experiences? So really, it does make absolute sense that he's calling himself straight. Because he IS.


That's my $.02

Your post proves my original point. If this guy is straight, then straight has no meaning at all.

You talk about straight as if it were a non-label. But the fact is that straight *is* a sexual orientation. There *are* people who are aroused by members of the opposite sex and *only* members of the opposite sex. No body part exceptions, no equivocating. In fantasy and in real life.

Personally I find it more than a bit silly to call yourself a vegetarian if you eat meat on a regular basis. That's just not what the noun means. But you're right, with regard to that example - there's no real harm in thumbing your nose at Websters.

And as long as a guy makes clear to potential mates that his personal definition of "straight" actually includes a cock-craving twist, then there's no real harm in that either. (As long as his aversion to any non-straight label isn't borne of homophobia, of course.)

 

[JMohegan]

This is how I am, so I consider myself BI-SEXUAL and damn proud of it.

He can't truly consider himself bisexual until he's had both worlds sexually and really decides he loves both equally to not give up one or the other.

Do you define homosexual and heterosexual in the same way? Tried both, and willing to give up one or the other?

I find myself wondering if folks who have both same-sex and opposite-sex fantasies assume that everyone else does, as well.

 

[korizon]

Your post proves my original point. If this guy is straight, then straight has no meaning at all.

You talk about straight as if it were a non-label. But the fact is that straight *is* a sexual orientation. There *are* people who are aroused by members of the opposite sex and *only* members of the opposite sex. No body part exceptions, no equivocating. In fantasy and in real life.

Personally I find it more than a bit silly to call yourself a vegetarian if you eat meat on a regular basis. That's just not what the noun means. But you're right, with regard to that example - there's no real harm in thumbing your nose at Websters.

And as long as a guy makes clear to potential mates that his personal definition of "straight" actually includes a cock-craving twist, then there's no real harm in that either. (As long as his aversion to any non-straight label isn't borne of homophobia, of course.)

I agree with most of this. The title of this thread is also an oxymoron. If you're craving cock, then you are attracted to men in some way, even if it's just on a pure sexual level.

 

[Exploringsub]

The great, liberating thing about Lit is it frees us to explore our fantasies in a place without inhibitions or judgements or self-consciousness. So to cling to or avoid or discuss labels here seems pointless.

I do want a cock in my mouth and a cock in her pussy and all the other things that make me hard so whatever label that gives me I'm fine with.

 

[JMohegan]

I agree with most of this. The title of this thread is also an oxymoron. If you're craving cock, then you are attracted to men in some way, even if it's just on a pure sexual level.

Right.

 

[Britman2294]

If a guy who wants to suck cock is "straight," then straight has no meaning at all.

What not refer to yourself as bisexual?

I think we are all bisexual to a greater or lesser extent.

Some of us admit it and allow ourselves the pleasure of sex with people of either gender.

Some of us deny it and attack same-gender activities.

I went to a single sex boys English Private School and we were certainly all homosexual at that time. Most of us, since then, have lived very successful heterosexual lives but I suspect that many of us have had occasional homosexual experiences when the opportunity arose.

 

[liteman7]

Personal vs. purely physical

I don't know how relevant this might be to possible labels, but when I'm thinking about cocks I'm rarely thinking about men I know, indeed practically never. Most of the cocks about which I fantasize are totally disembodied. That's why I like the gloryholes in ABS. I guess that's why I'd consider myself a penisexual rather than a homosexual - don't want the whole beastie, just a part of him.

 

[HardAsARockInGA]

I don't know how relevant this might be to possible labels, but when I'm thinking about cocks I'm rarely thinking about men I know, indeed practically never. Most of the cocks about which I fantasize are totally disembodied. That's why I like the gloryholes in ABS. I guess that's why I'd consider myself a penisexual rather than a homosexual - don't want the whole beastie, just a part of him.

I think along these same lines. When I'm thinking of cocks, I don't think about people they belong to.

 

[pcarp]

I once lived next door to an absolutely beautiful woman. Unfortunatly for me she was only interested in women. Even knowing that I use to fantasize about licking her till she came. Does that make me a lesbian?

 

[JMohegan]

I think we are all bisexual to a greater or lesser extent.

Some of us admit it and allow ourselves the pleasure of sex with people of either gender.

Some of us deny it and attack same-gender activities.

I went to a single sex boys English Private School and we were certainly all homosexual at that time. Most of us, since then, have lived very successful heterosexual lives but I suspect that many of us have had occasional homosexual experiences when the opportunity arose.

I think we're all born bisexual switches, but some combination of nature/nurture determines our sexual orientation.

I agree that people like the Colonel Fitts character in American Beauty really do exist. But not all heterosexuals are homophobes.

I went to coed schools and played contact sports all the way through college. Spent a hell of a lot of time in locker rooms with naked guys, and god knows how many hours on the field and the ice. And I have very close male friends whom I have known, and loved, for more than 3 decades.

But I've never been aroused by a guy, either in fantasy or real life. I don't know why; I just haven't.

 

[JMohegan]

I don't know how relevant this might be to possible labels, but when I'm thinking about cocks I'm rarely thinking about men I know, indeed practically never. Most of the cocks about which I fantasize are totally disembodied. That's why I like the gloryholes in ABS. I guess that's why I'd consider myself a penisexual rather than a homosexual - don't want the whole beastie, just a part of him.

I spent my teen years thinking about females this way.

 

[smoothpetrous69]

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[liteman7]

Great story

Great story, Marnie - nice writing. Tres arousing. Thanks.

 

[MissIntrigue]

I am s0o0o0o glad I stumbled on this thread! I've spent 3 straight (no pun intended) nights reading so many sexy, hot, steamy posts and getting off everynight before going to bed. Thank you all for sharing so openly and freely. Now, let me get on to my story. This is 100% true and all names will remain the same to ensure more fun for me!!

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Over the years I bought my wife at the time lots of sexy panties, stockings, bras, garters, etc. She loved the bras and panties but maybe once or twice a year would wear the other gear. I loved when she wore the sexy, soft microfiber boyshorts. my favorites were pink with little black bows of silk. They would form to her body like a second skin and would suck up into her ass and pussy and make the sweetest camel toes ever! I started leaving her panties on her during sex and she seemed to like this. She would almost always use a vibrator on her clit (bullet) and she said the panties on would spread out the vibration over more than just her clit and make her orgasms expand all over her lower sensitive stomach area and her entire pelvis. Who was I to argue! I loved fucking her on her stomach, ass in the air with her soft panties on and her clit getting vibrated by her bullet. We did this often! Her silky crotch area of the panties would get creamy wet from our mixed juices and the fibers soaked up our cum.

I clearly remember cleaning up the next day after a good 3 cum session of pounding deep into her tight pussy while she was on her stomach, pink microfiber panties and hot black boots on. I remember the panties being soaked when we finished. The next AM I was cleaning up and found, by the bed, her still damp panties. I picked them up and saw all the cum soaked into them and instinctively pulled them up to my nose and smelled the sweetest pussy cream and cum mixed together and absolutely loved it! Now I've always loved the smell of freshly worn panties and used to stroke my cock with hers or her sisters panties stuffed up to my face. It made me cum so hard and the thought of finding a fresh pair by her bed or in the hamper used to get me instantly hard! I began swiping her panties and hiding them under the mattress and from then on, would always get her soaked panties and rub and stroke my hard cock until I would cum. Sometimes I'd cum right in the crotch and rub it in deep with my cock. It has become a full on fetish that I needed to feed as often as possible.

After a few years of the panty smelling, and licking sometimes, she got another pair of the sexy soft material that I love these were black with pink silk bows. One day after I fucked her hard in her new panties, I pullled out and shot my hot cum all over the crotch of her panties while she was cumming from her vibrator. She said, "well, that was new"? And I told her I wanted to see myself cum on her sweet pantied ass. little did she know I couldn't wait until the next morning so I could get the new cum soaked panties and lick the hot cum and pussy cream off them while flayling away at my hard, greased up cock.

Next AM as usual, she would leave for work and I would grab her panties from the floor and lay out in the bed and start the stroking. It was an amazing session and I shot rope after rope of cum all over my stomach and chest while smelling the fresh cum in her panties. After recovering I cleaned up and like always, was careful to put the panties back exactly where she left them. Before laying them on the ground, I rubbed them on my cock, which I did often, and I started to get hard again. Now, this is rare for me so I kept rubbing my cock and balls with her sweet black panties over and over all the while getting harder and harder to my amazement after cumming so hard just minutes ago. After about 5 minutes I thought, "damn, if it feels this good rubbing them on my cock I bet they would feel wonderful pulled tight against my balls and ass too! So, for the first time ever, I slipped on her sexy stretchy black panties. Once they got up to my thighs I looked at myself in our full length closet mirrors and felt a deep tingling, lightheaded feeling like I was on a drug or something. I stopped an admired the view of the panties around my thighs and regained my composure a bit but still slightly dizzy from the site of my hard cock with the little panties around my thighs. Then I slid them all the way up onto my ass and balls. I made sure to pull them up tight so they slipped slightly into my ass cheeks and cupped my balls and my now rock hard cock peeked out of the top of soft waist band! Looking down I knew this was going to be good. The feeling of the material wrapping itself and contouring to my body was a feeling of utter bliss!! I started breathing heavily and getting more and more dizzy. Then I slowly started to look up to my reflection in the closet mirror. I saw myself standing there, legs slightly apart, with the morning light shining into my bedroom and immediately knew this was the sexiest I had ever felt or ever dreamt I could feel! My head was swimming with excitement and confusion and erotic, sensual feelings. I loved seeing the outline of my cock straining against the sweet, stretchy microfiber fabric. I could see the veins of my cock and both my balls were spilling out a bit on each side. In about 15 seconds of having them snugged tight against my balls, I started squirting hot cum out of the top of the panties wave after wave after wave without even touching myself. I was so dizzy I fell back onto the bed and let the cum shoot out all over me again and again.
I reached down and rubbed my balls through the material and just kept blasting away as I serioulsy thought I would pass out!!

After a brief recovery I knew this was something I loved and was going to do often. Over time, I would last a little longer before cumming but I would always blast a load within minutes of having one of her sexy pairs of panties on my balls and ass. Then I would keep them on and work around the house in her panties until she was on her way home and then I would either wash them if there was splattered or put them back on the floor.

I eventually would where some of there other items, bras (no easy task) a short skirt and sweaters, slips and other undergarments. I would take pictures of me in her panties an clothes either hard or just normal. I shared some on certain websites but not many as i was afraid of getting caught but the panty wearing and stroking went on for a couple of years. I thought often about telling her but she would not have anything to do with it I'm sure so as long as I had full access to her panty drawer, I was happy.

I so loved seeing my hard cock in panties and the pictures I had traded on the net with other guys who liked to see cocks and balls in panties. It really turned me on to see a hard, shaved cock with panties wrapped around it. Big or small, black or white or brown it didn't matter. If it was a nicely shaped and clean cock, it would get me smokin hard. Okay, the barrage of hot shemale/tranny/CD porn hitting the web clearly helped my fetish along tremedously. The sight of those lovely hard throbbing cocks and the trannys or CD's playing in sexy lingerie made me bust so many nuts over and over again, night after night. I found myself looking at more shemale porn that straight porn and found that the shaved hard cocks turned me on the most especially when they were being sucked and spurting cum.

Fast forward to last year. Wife and I split up for a number of reasons unrelated to my fetishes. Things happen and we moved on. I lost my panty collection and sadly, was at a loss for awhile but still kept up watching CD/Tranny porn and men in panties pictures. I eventually got brave enough to go into the panty sections at department stores and browse the panties and other items during xmas time. I got up the nerve to look closely and pick out a few sexy pairs of panties. I felt safe since it was holiday shopping time and there were other men shopping for their wives or GF's. Maybe they were just like me really shopping for themselves but who cares, I felt safe. I bought a few pairs of cotton panties and was so nervous but had lots of other items so I felt normal. I wore them often but they weren't the same as the microfiber stretchy panties I loved and needed! Took a few pics and wore them around the house from time to time but had to have the real thing!

Eventually, I wondered into Victoria's Secret and browsed the sexy panties and bras. A cute 20 something sales girl came up and asked if I needed help. I told her I was shopping for my GF and didn't know exactly her size and that she was bigger than she was and she liked the spandex microfiber type. She was very helpful and showed my the big sale they were haveing on my favorite kind of panties. 3 for $25! Wahoo...jackpot! I grabbed 6 pairs of different colors and shapes. I didn't have the nerve to look at bras since I had no idea what size to wear or look at. But I did see the garters on the way out to the register and grabbed a black and hot pink garter belt. Paid quickly and then went home.

Needless to say I had them on the minute I got home and modeled them all. Some just didn't work as they were ill fitting or I completely spilled out of them. Clearly, they were not made for cocks and balls! Settled on a few hot pairs I liked. One turquoise pair, soft brushed cotton and spandex full back with a little bow in the front. They are nice and snug and I can pop my cock in and out easily. A satin pair guess you'd say bikini cut that were pink and white stripped. The material is the attraction to these since again it's hard to keep my balls from slipping out the sides but they do feel devine. And my favorites are a white with black trim and small black dots and a hot pink bow. Spandex, microfiber that fit beautifully!! I wore them often. Out to the bar with my friends, drinking and having fun. I loved wearing them shopping under my sweats suit so I could reach down in the aisles where I was alone and feel them on my ass and hips! So much fun! So, I had become a full fledged panty loving straight guy who loved the sight of hard cocks either in panties or not!

I started emailing guys in panties on CL and even arranged to meet a couple but it always fell through. I didn't know exactly what would happen but I would alway we ready with my panties, garters and some cheap stockings I bought from a halloween gag store. I eventually saw an ad on CL for a guy in panties who said he was going to the local Adult Book Store (ABS) and would be wearing panties, stroking and sucking cocks that night! I had been there before and jerked off many time but never in my panties and always avoided the 2 booths in the back that always seemed to have guys parading in and out constantly. I emailed him and told him of my fetish and sent him some naughty pics. He returned the favor with many compliments on my slim, athletic build and sexy panty bulge! He was bigger than I liked (belly area)and a little hairy but it was a huge cock in his panties! He told me that he would be in the last booth on the right and to wait until the booth next to him opened up and to come in. He asked what panties I would be wearing and I told him the white and black spandex panties. He said he couldn't wait to see them and was hard already!

By the time the evening rolled around I was so hot that I had already shot two load of hot cum wearing the stockings and garters! I didn't make it to the glory hole ABS but couldn't stop thinking about it all week. Everynight I would look for others going to the ABS on CL and even posted myself telling everyone I would be there and what time and posted pics of me in panties. I really needed to see a hard cock up close. Wanted to feel the heat and hardness in my hands, feel it throbbing as I stroked it up and down. Also to see if my panties would be appreciated by the cocks on the other side or not.

I was determined to not wimp out again. So, the next Friday, I slipped on my black stockings, garters, white and black panties and watched some hot shemale and CD porn and opened a bottle of Cabernet. My heart was racing and I finished the wine in record time. I was so buzzed but still managed to maintain myself. Good thing the ABS is only 1.5 miles away and I could take all the back streets to get there. I pulled on a black adidas sweat suit and a black polo over my stockings and panties, grabbed a hand full of cash and headed out excited and nervous at the same time.

I got there late around 12:30AM hoping guys would want some quick action before heading home from a night of drinking. I walked in and it was pretty quiet. I went straight to the back right side booth which to my hearts delight, was open. The bookstore itself is pretty clean and the register dude keeps a close eye on the booths as it's posted "one to a booth". So I opened the door and walked in and locked it behind me.

The video monitor was the only light and it took some time for my eyes to adjust. I finally could see enough to slip a $10 into the machine to be sure I had lots of time. I looked down and to the right and perfectly waist high was a 4x4 round hole in the wall!! Yay..I was so excited that I got the right booth that I immediately took my sweats down a little and started rubbing my pantied covered cock watching some hot shemale gangbang flick on the monitor. Everytime I would hear someone walk into the store, beeping sound, I would almost cum in my panties I was so excited. But none of them would come into the booth next to mine. I was about to give up and was sobering up when I heard the familiar "beep" of the front door. I decided to wait and see if this would be my lucky person and put anothe $10 in. Sure enough, I heard the door next to mine open and close. Someone was finally in the booth next to me!! OMG I almost dropped my load right there but kept breathing and trying not to touch myself or it would have been over! I peeked into the hole and all I could see was a hand jerking on this cock furiously to some of the porn on his video. I decided I needed to step it up and hopefully entice him so I pulled my sweats all the way down so if he looked in, he could see my panties, garter and stockings in plain view.

I started rubbing on my panties around my cock and ballls waiting, hoping he would take notice of my sexy outfit. I remembered reading about the "protocol" of the Glory hole booth and someone who wanted a cock to come through needed to stick a finger in the hole as an invite. I was about to give up on him and was about to stick my finger in when his whole hand came through the hole and started rubbing my legs and panties!! His hands were all over my balls and cock and it took every ounce of enegry and strength to not shoot all over his hand. I kept pulling back since I was so close to cumming many times but he kept on reaching in with his entire arm! This guy wanted my pantied cock and balls and was loving every second.

After pulling away one time I pushed his hand back and he pulled it out of my booth. I then stuck my finger at the whole and after hearing some shuffling, in came a beautiful smaller sized pink cock! I was amazed to see it so close to me and reached out my hand to stroke it. It was so hard and had an upward turn to it. It must have been maybe 4" with a nice mushroom head. I stroked it for awhile and he kept thrusting into my booth. I was so taken by how warm it was and how hard he got as he kept tensing up over and over obviously wanted to shoot his cum into my dark, private booth. After a few minutes of this he pulled back. I was shocked and started to feel like I either wasnt doing it right or he was going to finish on his own. Then he reached in and wanted more of my silky coverd cock. This time I let him have it all. I put my pantied cock right up to the hole so he could rub, squeeze and feel the soft panties over my rock hard throbbing cock. He pulled me slightly closer and then my cock still with my panties covering it was on his side of the booth. I felt him shift a bit and then he as sucking on my cock head through my panties!! This made me so hot I had to pull back so I wouldn't cum yet. I pushed back in and felt a tug at my panties and instantly my cock was free and bobbing in front of this stranger next to me. He stroked me a couple of times and then he let go and my hard cock was engulfed by his juicy mouth! It felt so hot and wet and he clearly knew what he was doing. He was going slow which was perfect since i was on the verge of cumming and my balls burned for release. I felt his lips slide slowly over my throbbing cock head and then all the way down to the base. He then would pause letting be feel the deepness of his throat while his toungue rubbed the underside of my cock. Then he would pull all the way off, slowly and again pause before repeating the whole thing again. I was in sheer exstasy and enjoying the best blow job of my life! After about 10 or 15 trips down his throat and back I couldn't hold back any longer and tapped the wall to hopefully let him know what was coming. With that, he picked up the pace and slid me all the way into his throat and was milking my cock with his throat muscles and tongue!!! I exploded in wave after wave of an intense orgasm as I pulsed out many strands of hot cum while he continued to suck and slurp down every drop. It felt like he had a direct line to the bottom of my balls and was sucking every bit of cum out of my body. I know everyone in the bookstore heard me cumming as I couldn't keep from groaning and screaming out. He kept up the draining until I couldnt take it and had to pull back. I fell into the chair and with a dizzy head tried to catch my breath.

I had some clean up items and cleaned off my slick wet cock and balls and saw a hot blonde big titted shemale on the screen getting sucked on my another redheaded shemale. They both had gorgeous cocks and I was still hard from the incredible ball draining blow job I just had. I looked over at the hole and could see he was still there. I got closer to the hole and saw he was still hard and stroking his little cock and his hand seemed a blur it was moving so fast. Now was my chance, I couldn't wait to get his cock back and repay him for the throat milking he gave me. I stuck my finger in the hole and there it was again, his sweet pink cock about an inch from my face!! I waited about a milisecond and wrapped my lips around my first cock! It was so smooth and silky on my tongue and he was just a perfect size for my first cock. It was so hard and with the upward bend in his cock I had to rise up off of my knees and squatted in the booth so I could get over his cock. That was the angle I needed as I slid my lips down his hard cock and swallowed it all the way to his balls! I heard him groan on the other side and left it there in my mouth savorying the hardness and weight of this sweet cock. It wasn't big enough to go down my throat but I still gagged a little which seemed to inspire him. He pulled back and then started fucking my mouth with a good tempo that I knew was his happy stroke. I had wanted nothing more than to try and give this wonderful cock the same treatment I had just received. I mimicked his routine of sliding all the way down, pulsing with my throat muscles, gripping with my lips, then sliding all the way up while he was doing his little shalllow pumping. I was in heaven and I could tell he was too. It didn't take long and I heard him moaning and his tempo picked up slightly. I knew he was going to cum and i wanted to see his hot cum spurt out of his cock slit and spray it all over me rewarding me for the good work i've done. I felt him start to throb and I pulled back and grabbed his cock with both hands and started jacking for all I was worth over his dripping wet cock, instantly he started shooting cum all over my face, neck and shirt. I kept pumping the ropes of cum from him and directed his cock to my panties and shot the last 3 burst onto my pantied covered cock and stockings, soaking my panties completely through. He finished cumming and l shoved his cock back in my mouth and licked his cock clean. His cum tasted so good that I knew where I would finish off my next stranger! He pulled back and quickly pulled his pants off and was out of there like a lightning bolt. Guess he got what he wanted and was through with me. I rubbed the cum on my hard cock through my panties and then with his cum all over my hand, lubed up my cock and slipped my hand up and down until I exploded with another huge load of cum all over my already cum stained panties and stockings.

I laid there in the chair for a few minutes and then my time ran out on the video. I hurriedly pulled my sweatsuit back on and zipped up so the cum on my shirt wouldn't show, composed myself and left the booth. The light was blinding in the store and it took a fewseconds to focus. There were a couple of guys hanging around no doubt waiting to get into a booth of their own. I quickly moved to the front door and the clerk with a big smile said, see ya soon!! There is not doubt he knew what was going on and his smile let me know all was fine.

I've been back many more times with some awesome and some okay cock adventures that I will share soon. The anonimity of the hard, beautiful cocks is what I crave and get most of the time. Not looking for other contact but maybe with the right person, you never know.

I've found almost everytime, the guys go CRAZY when they see my panties and stockings through the hole so I make sure to never go without wearing my outfits. It seems to be a magnet for their hands and mouths and I think it gets them off knowing that a little stocking and panty wearing cock slut is on her knees on the other side of the wall sucking and licking their hard cocks. I know it does for me!

Northern California here but travel often so PM me away!

xoxo

Marnie ( my good little cocksucker name )

what a dirty girl you are Marnie...and what a deliciously well written iteration of your experiences! This posting was has me waiting eagerly for more! Thank you for taking the time to write and share! <smirk>

 

[blade_rocknut]

Your post proves my original point. If this guy is straight, then straight has no meaning at all.

You talk about straight as if it were a non-label. But the fact is that straight *is* a sexual orientation. There *are* people who are aroused by members of the opposite sex and *only* members of the opposite sex. No body part exceptions, no equivocating. In fantasy and in real life.

Personally I find it more than a bit silly to call yourself a vegetarian if you eat meat on a regular basis. That's just not what the noun means. But you're right, with regard to that example - there's no real harm in thumbing your nose at Websters.

And as long as a guy makes clear to potential mates that his personal definition of "straight" actually includes a cock-craving twist, then there's no real harm in that either. (As long as his aversion to any non-straight label isn't borne of homophobia, of course.)

You will find, if you're not afraid to acknowledge it; that sexuality exists on a spectrum.....or ramp. Labels function like steps. Gender identity also is a progression; ramp like. There's no point quibbling about how well a title fits someon'es sexual history. A great many of us don't even realize what all may turn us on, as societal or religious influences have us scared to explore. I, personally- don't crave cock....but absolutely enjoy the hell out of having my wife ream my ass....many homophobes would consider THAT grounds for eviction from the straight club. Oh well. I don't care.....

 

[MissIntrigue]

You will find, if you're not afraid to acknowledge it; that sexuality exists on a spectrum.....or ramp. Labels function like steps. Gender identity also is a progression; ramp like. There's no point quibbling about how well a title fits someon'es sexual history. A great many of us don't even realize what all may turn us on, as societal or religious influences have us scared to explore. I, personally- don't crave cock....but absolutely enjoy the hell out of having my wife ream my ass....many homophobes would consider THAT grounds for eviction from the straight club. Oh well. I don't care.....

Anyone that has read the strap on threads knows that enjoying strap on sex with a woman has nothing to do with homosexuality, as you know blade. It's the close minded people and homophobes or straight men that have a fear of being labeled homosexual if they engage in anything anal that think that even the use of a cock shaped toy will make a man gay.

The use of a strap on between a man and a woman (or for a man's own pleasure) is basically a very open activity that allows the couple to experience orgasm and intense sexual feelings on a totally different platform, composed of trust and willingness to discover each other on new levels as opposed to 'vanilla' stuff.

 

[korizon]

Anyone that has read the strap on threads knows that enjoying strap on sex with a woman has nothing to do with homosexuality, as you know blade. It's the close minded people and homophobes or straight men that have a fear of being labeled homosexual if they engage in anything anal that think that even the use of a cock shaped toy will make a man gay.

The use of a strap on between a man and a woman (or for a man's own pleasure) is basically a very open activity that allows the couple to experience orgasm and intense sexual feelings on a totally different platform, composed of trust and willingness to discover each other on new levels as opposed to 'vanilla' stuff.

While this is 100% true, I'd wager that a significant percentage of men that enjoy strapon sex have bisexual fantasies - based on the comments from the strapon threads here at Lit.

 

[blade_rocknut]

Anyone that has read the strap on threads knows that enjoying strap on sex with a woman has nothing to do with homosexuality, as you know blade. It's the close minded people and homophobes or straight men that have a fear of being labeled homosexual if they engage in anything anal that think that even the use of a cock shaped toy will make a man gay.

The use of a strap on between a man and a woman (or for a man's own pleasure) is basically a very open activity that allows the couple to experience orgasm and intense sexual feelings on a totally different platform, composed of trust and willingness to discover each other on new levels as opposed to 'vanilla' stuff.

Agreed.....that wasn't the primary focus of my post...just an adjunct. I know it doesn't make me ( anything othen than straight) , I rather believe I'm just a bit more connected to what feels good than my non-adventurous counterparts. It's mainly fear of being (incorrectly) labeled as homosexual or otherwise queer that keeps my CD tendencies in the closet. I know that dressing or even gender in general has nothing to do with sexual orientation.....but try explaining that to my friends & customers...... My wife & my Lit friends know how I roll.....no one else.

 

[Mr. Briggs]

Funny how this thread worked well in glbt then they moved it here and it had to become a debate about labels

 

[blade_rocknut]

Funny how this thread worked well in glbt then they moved it here and it had to become a debate about labels

It'll all work out....these threads are being found my new people, new questions, new input, etc...

 

[TristanEugene]

I knew I'd find it

Mr. Briggs! You nailed it right on the head here for me.

As far as not wanting anything else to do with guys, I did think that it would prolong my life greatly if a man could bring me home and tell me that all he wants from me is to be subservient and allow him to use me for relief, ass/mouth when he wants it. Weather it be early morning and a rushed blow before heading to work or a late night coming home and ordering me to hoist high so that a pile driving could occur,,,

This still qualifies within your description?

Oh! I read something about being added to a list,, your list, or something? Add me to this list. You can do this.

 

[TristanEugene]

Symantics and definitions

I read a little bit within the posts here and immediately became upset. One thing I really enjoy about this website is the apparent and even evident impartial, congenial, considerate,, what I mean is, it is no fun to get into rhetorical arguments. Someone said something about labeling: ''If I say I am a vegetarian and I want to eat chicken, then why can't I...''

There are 3 definitions we, as a people, deal with: 1- Technical definition: This is what you read in any scientific lit such as a dictionary. 2- Moral definition: This is when, well, really, when a religious source is referenced. 3- Popular definition: This is where most people agree with what it means and what it should be, so unless you can convince the masses otherwise, you should go along in order to get along.

Vegetarian: Whatever the majority of- technical, moral and popular- states. This is what you should go with. If you do otherwise, you are asking for heated debate. Decide if it is appropriate to engage in same in the environment selected.

 

[TristanEugene]

My first chance, but blew it

Blew it? HA! HA! That's just it! I didn't blow it! I met a couple and after a while They told me that he liked to watch as another fucked his wife. After a bit of easing into it, they agreed that I could do it. It wasn't until we got together at my place that they told me what they r e a l l y wanted: Threesome! with no holes barred! I about freaked! after a while, -they obviously knew it was a shock to me and were very patient- , they got it out of me that I liked the idea, however had not yet done anything like it.

I blew it though!!! I chickened out! He sucked me while I ate her, but,, while I was fucking her, he came to my face with his cock right there and I couldn't do it!!!
After a few days it was too late. I never saw them again.

CRAP! the next time though!!!! (Damn! I cannot even write without my cock leaking all over the place! A clean shirt! I constantly have to wipe myself.

To have a woman show me how, guide me,, this is a dream. I'll get it. I'm finished with pussy foot'n 'round!

 

[proteomics2000]

I am certainly in this group too!

Not sure if in reality if a guy showed me his 'credentials', i would either laugh, cry or run for the hills - but in my fantasies, I am always so turned on that I would suck him dry, like a good little slut....

Maybe fantasies are better, but I'd love to have a go...even if it ends in complete failure

I can imagine some very sexy scenarios where I WOULD have a go....

 

[bidaddy]

if you are wondering if you would like to suck a cock or not then glory holes are probably the best place to explore. no one sees you and all you see is a nice big cock as it comes through the hole.