redroserecords
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The honest version: sexual frustration leaves me grumpy, frustrated and tense. Not qualities that would endear me to people or help me manage life more efficiently and neither attributes I am happy to cultivate.
Therefore, I am looking for an unattached man who would be interested in helping me relieve some of my frustration and restore the erotic spark into my day to day life. I am thinking of conversation, fun, flirty. Emails, sometimes playful, sometimes dirty. Sharing fantasies, stories, turn ons, perhaps developing some joint fantasies. Playing games in our minds, setting tasks for real life, challenging and turning each other on for mutual fun and satisfaction. I would be happy to get to know someone also outside of their bedroom mind. The only real requirement I have is that the person be unattached, somewhere in the mid-thirties to mid-forties age range, discreet and a compatible match for my mind and most of my kink. It is a plus if you like some of the ideas below the the bit of a person that shows between the lines.
So a little about me: I am a 27-year-old, single, educated woman. A bit on the control freakish and shy side in day to day life. People tend to fear and respect me and I kind of like it that way.
My life is currently filled with work, school and a lifestyle reform that includes learning to cook and becoming a regular gym visitor among other things as I am making some serious changes on my way to a fitter and healthier me.
In terms of sexuality and kink I am straight and a little bit kinky. I like D/s games for fun and feel comfortable taking the lead. Make a lousy and unstable submissive though finding someone who can bring out a giving and devoted sub in me has been a secret desire of mine for a long time. Spankings, giving and receiving, bondage and oral are big turn ons. So are words. The right kind of words, seductive, sweet, nasty - depending on the mood and occasion. I have a bit of a voyeuristic streak and probably more rough sex fantasies than the girl next door, though it is primarily the danger aspect of it that turns me on, the power play, not actual pain. Humiliation, in my book, is only fun if it is intelligent and has a purpose beyond degrading someone and making them feel truly bad about themselves. I have a very monogamous mindset. I am selfish and don't like to share. The same is true for beinhig shared, though there is a hidden fantasy related to this which I will probably never act on in real life but might be fun to explore as a mind game. It is MMF - sorry guys.
I find man in nothing but jeans hot, glasses are sexy to me and so is a sharp suit. Older men - up to early forties - can be very attractive, there is just something about their experience and relaxed, self-assured manner that makes me feel safe and at the same time gets my panties wet if they also happen to exclude and air of power and competence. I don't want a guy to wear my panties but I might borrow his shirt and slip it on before starting to tease him by masturbating as he watches tied down from a chair. I would enjoy to be his good girl - at least for a little while - giving him long, slow massages, stripping at his command, serving him dinner naked and sucking him under the shower spray. Or alternatively, be his very, very bad girl, sending him dirty text messages and skimpy pictures of me during the day, calling him while I am masturbating, going out without panties and rubbing his cock under the table when eating out - provided that he was creative enough to drive me insane with desire in return and fuel my hunger for his cock as a punishment before granting me satisfaction or the privilege to give him pleasure.
I am a sucker for romance and enjoy to be wooed, even if it is only a game of no consequence. I am not a slut, neither a whore but would just love, love, love to turn into a hot piece of ass, begging bitch in heat or sweetly torturing femme fatal for the right guy who can push my buttons and draw out the sexy vixen in me.
Anyone feeling up to the challenge?
Therefore, I am looking for an unattached man who would be interested in helping me relieve some of my frustration and restore the erotic spark into my day to day life. I am thinking of conversation, fun, flirty. Emails, sometimes playful, sometimes dirty. Sharing fantasies, stories, turn ons, perhaps developing some joint fantasies. Playing games in our minds, setting tasks for real life, challenging and turning each other on for mutual fun and satisfaction. I would be happy to get to know someone also outside of their bedroom mind. The only real requirement I have is that the person be unattached, somewhere in the mid-thirties to mid-forties age range, discreet and a compatible match for my mind and most of my kink. It is a plus if you like some of the ideas below the the bit of a person that shows between the lines.
So a little about me: I am a 27-year-old, single, educated woman. A bit on the control freakish and shy side in day to day life. People tend to fear and respect me and I kind of like it that way.
In terms of sexuality and kink I am straight and a little bit kinky. I like D/s games for fun and feel comfortable taking the lead. Make a lousy and unstable submissive though finding someone who can bring out a giving and devoted sub in me has been a secret desire of mine for a long time. Spankings, giving and receiving, bondage and oral are big turn ons. So are words. The right kind of words, seductive, sweet, nasty - depending on the mood and occasion. I have a bit of a voyeuristic streak and probably more rough sex fantasies than the girl next door, though it is primarily the danger aspect of it that turns me on, the power play, not actual pain. Humiliation, in my book, is only fun if it is intelligent and has a purpose beyond degrading someone and making them feel truly bad about themselves. I have a very monogamous mindset. I am selfish and don't like to share. The same is true for beinhig shared, though there is a hidden fantasy related to this which I will probably never act on in real life but might be fun to explore as a mind game. It is MMF - sorry guys.

I find man in nothing but jeans hot, glasses are sexy to me and so is a sharp suit. Older men - up to early forties - can be very attractive, there is just something about their experience and relaxed, self-assured manner that makes me feel safe and at the same time gets my panties wet if they also happen to exclude and air of power and competence. I don't want a guy to wear my panties but I might borrow his shirt and slip it on before starting to tease him by masturbating as he watches tied down from a chair. I would enjoy to be his good girl - at least for a little while - giving him long, slow massages, stripping at his command, serving him dinner naked and sucking him under the shower spray. Or alternatively, be his very, very bad girl, sending him dirty text messages and skimpy pictures of me during the day, calling him while I am masturbating, going out without panties and rubbing his cock under the table when eating out - provided that he was creative enough to drive me insane with desire in return and fuel my hunger for his cock as a punishment before granting me satisfaction or the privilege to give him pleasure.
I am a sucker for romance and enjoy to be wooed, even if it is only a game of no consequence. I am not a slut, neither a whore but would just love, love, love to turn into a hot piece of ass, begging bitch in heat or sweetly torturing femme fatal for the right guy who can push my buttons and draw out the sexy vixen in me.
Anyone feeling up to the challenge?