The Isolated Blurt BDSM Thread

[chy_girl]

I really, really, really want to look...

 

[Lizzie_Borden]

Someone posted a link to something pervy recently, the website had a pinkish toned theme.

Can someone link that up again please?

 

[minx1]

This is good.

Hope I dont speak to soon lol.

Am thinking of starting a thread about how important are physical looks to you when considering a potential D/s partner. Hmmm

 

[Lizzie_Borden]

This is good.

Hope I dont speak to soon lol.

Am thinking of starting a thread about how important are physical looks to you when considering a potential D/s partner. Hmmm

Depends. Do you want a partner partner as well, or just someone to beat your ass?

lol, have you nabbed yourself a Pierce Brosnan or a Steve Buscemi minxie?

 

[minx1]

Depends. Do you want a partner partner as well, or just someone to beat your ass?

lol, have you nabbed yourself a Pierce Brosnan or a Steve Buscemi minxie?

lmao, I'm not sure yet!

And I want a partner partner. I just wondered if I was a bit weird lol...I met him on Collarme and we are getting on really really well. He is Fifo and away at the mo so asked me if I wanted to see a pic and I declined. I guess I just want to chat and get a feel from him without his looks affecting that.
I have never been one to be motivated by looks. To be honest if I was, I wouldnt have gone out with the majority of my ex partners if I had been influenced by that initially. The more I got to know them, the more attractive they became to me.
With ex M and I appreciate this probably isnt the best example bearing in mind how it ended...I didnt see his pic for about 12 weeks even though I could have done so way before.

Yup......probably just weird

 

[Lizzie_Borden]

lmao, I'm not sure yet!

And I want a partner partner. I just wondered if I was a bit weird lol...I met him on Collarme and we are getting on really really well. He is Fifo and away at the mo so asked me if I wanted to see a pic and I declined. I guess I just want to chat and get a feel from him without his looks affecting that.
I have never been one to be motivated by looks. To be honest if I was, I wouldnt have gone out with the majority of my ex partners if I had been influenced by that initially. The more I got to know them, the more attractive they became to me.
With ex M and I appreciate this probably isnt the best example bearing in mind how it ended...I didnt see his pic for about 12 weeks even though I could have done so way before.

Yup......probably just weird

hehe, where does he fly in from?

And that's def true. Some people are just straight out attractive, some people grow on you. That connection you have makes them sexy.

 

[minx1]

hehe, where does he fly in from?

And that's def true. Some people are just straight out attractive, some people grow on you. That connection you have makes them sexy.

Yeah it's so true

He did tell me, but my Geography sucks...I think its Port Hedland.

We have pretty much covered every topic of conversation under the sun lol. We spent hours on the phone and it seemed like 5 mins. It flew by.

I've heard from him a few times today too. Its really nice; I'm not used to someone having time for me like that lol

 

[ecstaticsub]

lmao, I'm not sure yet!

And I want a partner partner. I just wondered if I was a bit weird lol...I met him on Collarme and we are getting on really really well. He is Fifo and away at the mo so asked me if I wanted to see a pic and I declined. I guess I just want to chat and get a feel from him without his looks affecting that.
I have never been one to be motivated by looks. To be honest if I was, I wouldnt have gone out with the majority of my ex partners if I had been influenced by that initially. The more I got to know them, the more attractive they became to me.
With ex M and I appreciate this probably isnt the best example bearing in mind how it ended...I didnt see his pic for about 12 weeks even though I could have done so way before.

Yup......probably just weird

I didn't see a picture of my PYL until 2 weeks before we met in person. (which was over 5 months after we started seriously talking) He had seen pictures of me, because I was an exhibitionist and posted pictures. lol (and because he asked for more)

I didn't ask him for a picture but as it got closer to us meeting he asked me "Don't you want to see what I look like? ". At that point it just didn't matter at all what he looked like. When I finally did see his pictures I saw real life was better than my imagination. :

 

[Lizzie_Borden]

Yeah it's so true

He did tell me, but my Geography sucks...I think its Port Hedland.

We have pretty much covered every topic of conversation under the sun lol. We spent hours on the phone and it seemed like 5 mins. It flew by.

I've heard from him a few times today too. Its really nice; I'm not used to someone having time for me like that lol

From Perth to Port Hedland, or will he find time to visit with you while he's over that side of the country?

Time is good.

 

[ultramarineblue]

I've been having very realistic dreams lately. It seems as though I dream all night because I'm so tired when I wake up. They include people I know in situations that usually can happen.

 

[the captians wench]

This is good.

Hope I dont speak to soon lol.

Am thinking of starting a thread about how important are physical looks to you when considering a potential D/s partner. Hmmm

I am really very shallow in this. I just have to have some physical attraction to a person.

I didn't see a picture of my PYL until 2 weeks before we met in person. (which was over 5 months after we started seriously talking) He had seen pictures of me, because I was an exhibitionist and posted pictures. lol (and because he asked for more)

I didn't ask him for a picture but as it got closer to us meeting he asked me "Don't you want to see what I look like? ". At that point it just didn't matter at all what he looked like. When I finally did see his pictures I saw real life was better than my imagination. :

But then there's this. Jounar and I chatted online for 2 1/2 months before I saw what he looked like. And then it was from a grainy web cam when he was a bit on the intoxicated side. *giggles* Of course he found me from my pic thread, so he knew what I looked like. He decided I should check him out before agreeing to be his. That was also the first night I heard his voice. And for me, an accent can add major physical attractiveness points. Not that he needed a lot of help.

 

[Cattypuss]

I totally cannot judge physical attractiveness from photos. I need to see them in the flesh. Something to do with charisma.

 

[BiaTcHiNFiRe]

This is good.

Hope I dont speak to soon lol.

Am thinking of starting a thread about how important are physical looks to you when considering a potential D/s partner. Hmmm

I don't think looks are THAT important, but I cannot imagine have a relationship with someone I wouldn't like either!

I would actualy want see the pic if I were you. It's better to know from the beggining IF you would go for it or no. It might save you from lots of trouble once you get closer and then you discover you actualy dont find that guy anyhow atractive to you. I am in no way a person who would pick up partner acording their looks, but there must still be some chemistry between the two of us. Works for me only if I like that person, so yes I would want to see his pic for sure! I kinda like knowing with who I am talking.

Hope it make some sense.

 

[BiaTcHiNFiRe]

I totally cannot judge physical attractiveness from photos. I need to see them in the flesh. Something to do with charisma.

Yeah it's hard to say just from the photo. Especialy because one can type/say anything on the net and the reality might be totaly different then. Been there, done that.

So except some kind of attraction to a person, the real life meeting is deffo another must! At lest for me.

 

[ecstaticsub]

I totally cannot judge physical attractiveness from photos. I need to see them in the flesh. Something to do with charisma.

I totally agree. I also find it easier to judge charisma and chemistry from a voice then a picture.

 

[chy_girl]

Note to self:

Do NOT initiate an argument and/or screaming match via text, email, or phone.

mkaythankspleasedrivethrough

P.S.
Self destructive behavior will only be destructive to self and give others further justification. Please see the Chapter 3 in the handbook titled "Conducting One's Self with Grace and Fucking Dignity."

 

[Etoile]

shitfuckno this isn't happening fuck fuck fuck.

 

[Lizzie_Borden]

I totally cannot judge physical attractiveness from photos. I need to see them in the flesh. Something to do with charisma.

I agreed to a first date with Mr because of a picture. His messages had been nice, but hadn't really set my world on fire. Then I saw this pic, and I couldn't say no to those eyes.

Then we met, and the rest is history. I still have that pic framed and on my shelf.

 

[chy_girl]

shitfuckno this isn't happening fuck fuck fuck.

I hope whatever it is resolves itself ok.

 

[KayKat]

Disappointed when I really have no right to be but I am..Know there is a reason for this and I will hear from him soon

 

[Cattypuss]

Just seen The King's Speech.

Probably not worth all the Oscars it'll probably get.

But Colin Firth was very good in it and Helena Bonham Carter was very good in it.

And Geoffrey Rush was mesmerisingly good in it.

 

[ultramarineblue]

I totally cannot judge physical attractiveness from photos. I need to see them in the flesh. Something to do with charisma.

Another vote for this...

Note to self:

Do NOT initiate an argument and/or screaming match via text, email, or phone.

mkaythankspleasedrivethrough

P.S.
Self destructive behavior will only be destructive to self and give others further justification. Please see the Chapter 3 in the handbook titled "Conducting One's Self with Grace and Fucking Dignity."

I do the same kind of thing.

shitfuckno this isn't happening fuck fuck fuck.

 

[the captians wench]

I need worked over.

Beaten, fucked, eaten, pinched, paddled, fisted, tugged, used and abused until every inch of me is sore and purple and my cheeks stained with tears.

 

[graceanne]

I am so. fucking. tired. of. my. feet. hurting.

 

[Lizzie_Borden]

I really think this week's goings on have made me more miserable than I realised.