Thinking about letting a man fuck me

[Penguy]

I am married and Bi and lately I have been wanting to have another man fuck me. I have not had any thing in my ass except for a couple of fingers and a slim dildo. My wife does not know of my desire. My question is what is it like to have a man inside of you? After you get over the initial discomfort I expect it to be rather pleasurable and the thought of having another male having his way with me in such a way gets me hot. For those that have done it, what's it like?

 

[Layne]

the most exquisite feeling in the world - it's hot, sensual, impossible to adequately explain.

 

[littlegrizz02]

I am married and Bi and lately I have been wanting to have another man fuck me. I have not had any thing in my ass except for a couple of fingers and a slim dildo. My wife does not know of my desire. My question is what is it like to have a man inside of you? After you get over the initial discomfort I expect it to be rather pleasurable and the thought of having another male having his way with me in such a way gets me hot. For those that have done it, what's it like?

I think about this often to, I cant wait to try it someday.

 

[TomBoner]

Here's how I described it on another thread. Hope you enjoy hearing about it.

http://forum.literotica.com/showpost.php?p=35480224&postcount=16

 

[Chrissi]

I am married and Bi and lately I have been wanting to have another man fuck me. I have not had any thing in my ass except for a couple of fingers and a slim dildo. My wife does not know of my desire. My question is what is it like to have a man inside of you? After you get over the initial discomfort I expect it to be rather pleasurable and the thought of having another male having his way with me in such a way gets me hot. For those that have done it, what's it like?

I take it you like the feeling of the dildo, so you are in for a treat. I is a wonderful and sensual, and it is raw and animalistic. It can be either, and with a good top (my bf) it is beyond any experience with toys.

For instance, today, at lunch I just made this connection with this well built and beautiful man. I don't normally do this. But we just kept catching each others eye, and by mid lunch we were openly flirting and both getting hot and bothered. He was with, I assume, business associates at another table, and I was with one of my staff (yes I am out to them). We really made a connection, I felt, and it was headed in the direction of beyond harmless flirting and fun. My assistant was really having fun with me about it (yes he is gay too) and that wasn't helping any, and was even fueling the fires a bit.

So what does that have to do with your post: tonight, I will tell you that bf and I will not be making sensual and gentle love. It will be raw and hard, and sweaty. I can't wait to get fucked tonight.

topher

 

[biguy79]

For me its also the whole build up before he enters me; getting dressed up, the flirting, the touching, giving myself to him, and then feeling him penetrate me. Its indescribable, but just a full feeling as he stretches me. Hmm, i think i know what i'll be doing later...

 

[Penguy]

WOW! I am now looking forward to doing this more than ever. Thanks for all of the insight

 

[gotcum88]

Here's how I described it on another thread. Hope you enjoy hearing about it.

http://forum.literotica.com/showpost.php?p=35480224&postcount=16

Damn, reading that got me hard. I hope to experience that feeling one day. Hopefully soon.

 

[TomBoner]

Damn, reading that got me hard. I hope to experience that feeling one day. Hopefully soon.

Glad you enjoyed. I know I certainly enjoyed losing my virginity that way!

 

[Penguy]

All of this sounds great. I struggle with the fact that I am giving myself up to dominated by another male and have him have his way with me. In a way I want this and in another way I don't. Man, talk about confusion

 

[TomBoner]

All of this sounds great. I struggle with the fact that I am giving myself up to dominated by another male and have him have his way with me. In a way I want this and in another way I don't. Man, talk about confusion

It doesn't necessarily have to be all about being dominated by another guy. I'm not really into the whole dom/sub thing at all. I did it because I wanted to feel the pure physical pleasure of feeling another guys cock inside me stroking in and out instead of a dildo. Plus the fact that it actually ejaculates at the end made it all the better. But it was equal pleasure for both of us. AND ... after he finished unloading inside of me, we rested up about an hour and then I returned the favor to him. I'm all about mutual and equal sexual pleasure. He may have been "fucking me", but that's just semantics. We were both enjoying a sexual act together.

 

[Penguy]

Nice to know you and your feelings. They are pretty much aligned with mine

 

[TomBoner]

Nice to know you and your feelings. They are pretty much aligned with mine

Part of it's just society. Gays are "not masculine" ... so even if your just bi, if you're on the receiving end of anal sex, you must be "not masculine" too. I don't really care about what other people think about my masculinity ... and I'm sure as heck not going to let it get in the way of enjoying something I wanted to try forever and ever!

 

[bitallguy]

I'd also love to be fucked by another guy and also to top one too. Feel free to Pm me.

 

[plaza_plaz]

It is good. Once you get going there's nothing better than that full feeling of a cock ramming in and out of your arse. *sigh* What I wouldn't give for that right now...

 

[Mr. Briggs]

It is good. Once you get going there's nothing better than that full feeling of a cock ramming in and out of your arse. *sigh* What I wouldn't give for that right now...

You make it sound hot

 

[tommy45]

I take it you like the feeling of the dildo, so you are in for a treat. I is a wonderful and sensual, and it is raw and animalistic. It can be either, and with a good top (my bf) it is beyond any experience with toys.

For instance, today, at lunch I just made this connection with this well built and beautiful man. I don't normally do this. But we just kept catching each others eye, and by mid lunch we were openly flirting and both getting hot and bothered. He was with, I assume, business associates at another table, and I was with one of my staff (yes I am out to them). We really made a connection, I felt, and it was headed in the direction of beyond harmless flirting and fun. My assistant was really having fun with me about it (yes he is gay too) and that wasn't helping any, and was even fueling the fires a bit.

So what does that have to do with your post: tonight, I will tell you that bf and I will not be making sensual and gentle love. It will be raw and hard, and sweaty. I can't wait to get fucked tonight.

topher

Here's how I described it on another thread. Hope you enjoy hearing about it.

http://forum.literotica.com/showpost...4&postcount=16 From TomBoner

I am so envious of you both! I have had mind blowing orgasms with a very realistic dildo! Now I crave the the real thing! I enjoy the submissive feeling of being a total bottom for now. My sexual tastes are always evolving. So perhaps another time I would like to top but right now I would like to experience the feeling you two have so sensually described!

 

[TomBoner]

I am so envious of you both! I have had mind blowing orgasms with a very realistic dildo! Now I crave the the real thing! I enjoy the submissive feeling of being a total bottom for now. My sexual tastes are always evolving. So perhaps another time I would like to top but right now I would like to experience the feeling you two have so sensually described!

The only down side is that once you have a real live cock, a dildo is never quite as good again. I still will use dildos (and/or other things) to stimulate myself while jerking off on occassion, but it lost some of its allure after I had the real thing.

 

[Hitchiker69]

I enjoy it on many levels...Its a unique sexual experience, to have a man in my ass. Just the pleasure of getting reamed by a hard cock is great by itself. But there's more. The idea that a hard horny man is so fully aroused by me, desires me so much that alll his animal impulses are fully engaged, turns me on. I guess I'm very vain.

I always find that I want to see how much I can turn him on, and bring out 110% of his manhood. The result is a sweaty man grabbing my ass, plunging as deep as he can, and eventually filling me with his seed. And I tease a bit, playing with him, to arouse him even more as we're fucking. I might pull back when he's not expecting it, I might tighten up on him when he's in really deep. It's just great.
And we can always trade places...I like to fuck him first, then let him take me.
And it doesn't have to hurt. Use some lube, and take your time.

Enjoy!

 

[Chrissi]

Hitchhiker makes a good point. It is very arousing to me, to know that someone else finds me either emotionally, intellectually or physically arousing, or all three.

And yes lots of lube with you on top, and you lower yourself onto him...that way you control the insertion and the initial pain. It goes away right away once he is in. Don't tighten up, just relax and push out, and have fun.

Oh, and last night was

 

[downforce]

I've only been topped twice, but both times the buildup was so much more than the actual penetration. Once we got to that point, I didn't care what happened to me, all of my senses were on overdrive. I will tell you that what I like the best about it is you can feel his body heat inside you, that's what makes fucking a dildo and fucking an actual guy totally different. Try as you might, but that dildo will never be just like the real thing.

I've always heard people saying they feel the load exploding in their ass, I never felt it. The only way I knew he was coming was the sounds and the body movements he started making.

OH, and one more great part, if you do get fucked and they cum inside you, make him stay in you until he goes soft, that is the craziest, but coolest, feeling you'll get to experience.

Dammit, now I want to get fucked again

 

[Hitchiker69]

Advice

Here's a few things to consider before you you go get fucked...

1) Some guys prefer to give themselves an enema before getting fucked. Do it at home, before your date. This will clear out the colon. Why? It's no fun to have your lover banging against a turd while he's trying to fuck you.

2) Your ass is not designed to be penetrated. Afterwards you will feel stretched out, will fart a lot, and your bowels will be loose. This will last a few days. For me, getting fucked more than once a week is out of the question. It takes a few days for your ass and bowels return to normal.

Take this into consideration, but don't let it stop you. Like a Boy Scout, 'Be Prepared" and have fun.

 

[Joe_Bob_Gautama]

What I think is really cool, apart from the sensation of being penetrated, is being confronted by that straightforward but almost comically needy male urgency, getting moved around in positions I'm not accustomed to finding myself in, and feeling subject to the will of another. It's really illuminating, and I think it's made me a better lover of women. Plus: 1) men are easy; 2) you know when they're done; 3) they don't want to talk afterward; and 4) I, for one, feel absolutely no need to be nice to them, or call them the next day.

 

[Hitchiker69]

I totally agree. It's like I've seen sex from both sides...assertive and passive. Now I know how women must feel when I'm hot and horny, on top of them, pawing at them, wanting only to bury my dick in them and get my rocks off.

I know now I can enjoy sex either way, and now my eyes are open to what my lover experiences.

Women appreciate a more sophisticated lover. And I feel I'm a richer, more experienced person.

 

[Joe_Bob_Gautama]

Now I know how women must feel when I'm hot and horny, on top of them, pawing at them, wanting only to bury my dick in them and get my rocks off.

LOL! Yeah . . . years ago, shortly after the first time I hooked up with a man, the guy dropped by my apartment one Saturday morning, unannounced, while I was still in bed half asleep--I basically woke up staring at his crotch. And I was thinking, Dude, what gave you the idea that you can just come sniffing around here whenever you want a little sump'n sump'n? But then I thought, Oh, yeah, that's pretty much the same thing I'm inclined to do to women. It gave me pause. Didn't necessarily alter my behavior a great deal in the short term, but it did . . . give me pause.