I need help and this is where i'm posting it

[sexyredrose]

Quick run down then the question of the day.

Me and my wife work at the same place but different shifts, we rarely see each other and when we are both home for those 8 hours(less if you count the 30 min drive either direction) someone is sleeping. We RARELY have the same day off together, never have the same weekend together unless its some family crap that we have to attend. Should also mention we have a teenage son.

Low and behold we have tomarrow off together and by some streak of fate we have next weekend off together (one of us is going to get called in we have bets going on who)

We see each other so little anymore that i had gotten off work ealry tonight and by sheer luck she actually left for work early, was calling her on the way home like i always do and found out that she was just a few short miles ahead of me, so we pulled over on the highway (busy highway might add) jumped into her vehicle we had 20 min before she had to leave for work, quick make out session, even quicker 'quickie' and got back into my vehicle went home while she went to work (never did that before or thought i would ever do it, but desperate times call for desperate meassures)

So here is the question, We have 7 hours together tomarrow, alone in the house till the kid gets home from school, romance is not my high point by anymeans and i don't want it to be just a stress releaving fuck, I need help/pointers in what i should do tomarrow. I know i'm going to start the day off with a shower together, those were always fun back in the day, and i know we are going to end up in bed, but i'm a total blank sheet after that, i'm a writer/artist for christ sakes and i can't think of a damn romantic thing to do...i want it to be special since we never get to spend alone time together.

Help please

Also we have next weekend off, kid goes to his dads so house to ourelves, we don't have a lot of extra cash so going out for the weekend is out of the question, what can i plan for us with out us dropping into chores/computer time mode

 

[Jenna2641]

Quick run down then the question of the day.

Me and my wife work at the same place but different shifts, we rarely see each other and when we are both home for those 8 hours(less if you count the 30 min drive either direction) someone is sleeping. We RARELY have the same day off together, never have the same weekend together unless its some family crap that we have to attend. Should also mention we have a teenage son.

Low and behold we have tomarrow off together and by some streak of fate we have next weekend off together (one of us is going to get called in we have bets going on who)

We see each other so little anymore that i had gotten off work ealry tonight and by sheer luck she actually left for work early, was calling her on the way home like i always do and found out that she was just a few short miles ahead of me, so we pulled over on the highway (busy highway might add) jumped into her vehicle we had 20 min before she had to leave for work, quick make out session, even quicker 'quickie' and got back into my vehicle went home while she went to work (never did that before or thought i would ever do it, but desperate times call for desperate meassures)

So here is the question, We have 7 hours together tomarrow, alone in the house till the kid gets home from school, romance is not my high point by anymeans and i don't want it to be just a stress releaving fuck, I need help/pointers in what i should do tomarrow. I know i'm going to start the day off with a shower together, those were always fun back in the day, and i know we are going to end up in bed, but i'm a total blank sheet after that, i'm a writer/artist for christ sakes and i can't think of a damn romantic thing to do...i want it to be special since we never get to spend alone time together.

Help please

Also we have next weekend off, kid goes to his dads so house to ourelves, we don't have a lot of extra cash so going out for the weekend is out of the question, what can i plan for us with out us dropping into chores/computer time mode

Romance can never hurt. Getting flowers, a romantic and/or erotic greeting card, maybe even home made if you have the time, all will be nice touches. Candles to help set the mood can't hurt either.

Do you know anything about massage? You don't have to go to a specialty store these days. KY has scented or warming massage oils in your corner drug store. In either case, planning to give her a massage would be a great romantic gesture and I am sure with your writer's imagination, you can imagine ways to make it romantic.

Good luck, Hon! Hope you and your wife have some enjoyable love play and reconnection time! Hugs, Jenna

 

[Stella_Omega]

You could start with a stress relieving fuck, and then (probably after a little nap) go on to the romantic action. Women love that, actually-- especially if you can express the stress and the relief of it verbally...

Getting your end off first should, if you are prepared for it, allow you to really concentrate on her needs afterwards, with a long slow rise untill youre ready to go again, and have more stamina too.

Giving her a massage right when she expects you to roll over and go to sleep? Priceless.

Best of luck!