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[tigressnred]

Hello there everyone! I am a babygirl who is very curious about having a Mommy in my life. I am already in a long term committed relationship with my husband and Daddy of 15 years. Ideally I would love to find a Mommy mentor/teacher that could help introduce me to this side of the lifestyle, and is willing to groom a baby from the ground up.

Anyway, in the meantime, since I have brought this up there have been other little girls I have met along the way who also have an interest in discovering this as well.

So I was wondering if there might be any Mommies out there who would be willing to open discussion and answer questions from others who may be curious and don't know where to go to ask. Granted I realize that every relationship is different and you must find your own unique relationship with someone whether male or female, vanilla or lifestyle, but I thought perhaps we could get some dialogue going on this matter.

Well I guess that is all for now......Now it's your turn.....anyone?...giggles

Luvs xxx Red........

 

[tigressnred]

I will get thigs started with a question I have. What do you think the differences are between a Daddy and a Mommy when it comes to power exchange?

 

[Stella_Omega]

There just aren't very many female PYLS on this board!

Personally? I do not want to be anybody's mommy. I have just gotten a pair of kids to young adulthood, and revisiting that just isn't exciting to me.

 

[tigressnred]

I'm not worried judging by the hits it has already recieved there are many out there who are curious as well.......will just give it time.......Luvs xxx Red

 

[tigressnred]

what do you like about being a mommy? and what as a mommy do you like?

 

[BangRoxy]

never been a mommy

but fantasized often. to a girl- either male girl or female. i like the nurturing aspect and the idea of fulfilling her needs and being loving and tender to her. love the idea of making her feel good by bathing her. does this begin to address your question?

 

[tigressnred]

Yes! Yes! Thank you for your bravery to come forward, and comment. I love the fact that you are so willing to give. I could definently learn to cherish a Mommy like that! It would compel me to want to give and give back to you! Luvs xxx Red

 

[DeepGreenEyes]

Hey, Tigress...good to see you around!

And good luck with Mommypalooza!

 

[tigressnred]

Hi ya! Green Eyes!.....and thank you! kisses Luvs xxx Red

 

[Vixandra]

Not much on the "mommy" side but I am very protective and nurturing to my people, be they s/o's, subs or friends. The methods vary between the groups depending on the relationship.

I don't see myself taking on a sub that I didn't love and I try to take care of the ones I love.

Don't want to run someone's life for them though. And being called mommy by my lover would creep me out.

 

[tigressnred]

thank you so much for joining in the conversation! Your right this side of the lifestyle is certainly not for everyone, as is true in any part of the lifestyle, different strokes for different folks. Also the name can always be changed depending on the relationship yet still have the same dynamics as a mommy/girl relationship. I know some Mommy's who have all the traits of a Mommy but prefer to be called Mistress, or Ma'am, but the elements are still there.

As in every relationship whether it is a Master or Daddy, or Mommy or Mistress everyone needs different things. For some it is enough to just have a nurturer and for others they need the structure or boundaries set that they may not have received in their childhood to help to make them feel safe.

we know that most (not all) people are attracted to this lifestyle because of something that was missing in their childhood, that being said aside from the sexual play of the relationship there is a whole other emotional side that must be dealt with in the best possible way for the top and the bottom to fulfill both and make a suitable arrangement. There are many habits, attitudes, and behaviors both good and bad that come along with that so that leads me to another question.

How do you deal with the baggage that comes along with your little both good and bad?

Luvs xxx Red

 

[where]

I'm not worried judging by the hits it has already recieved there are many out there who are curious as well.......will just give it time.......Luvs xxx Red

meh, I'm not curious really, I find the whole mummy/daddy/baby girl thing totally beyond my comprehension.

I probably have father issues or something

 

[tigressnred]

giggles.......well perhaps you are not curious at all and that is okay, yet I can't help but think you were at least curious enough to read this post and to reply......thank you so much....Luvs xxx Red...it is not for everyone....

 

[where]

giggles.......well perhaps you are not curious at all and that is okay, yet I can't help but think you were at least curious enough to read this post and to reply......thank you so much....Luvs xxx Red...it is not for everyone....

well to be honest I thought it was some kind of advice page. maybe for people who were about to have a baby or something or guidance on making a perfect sunday roast. I can never get my roast spuds right. I either cremate them or they are a horrid off-white colour.

 

[tigressnred]

giggles......yes spuds CAN be tricky! Of course I can be no help in that matter as I am just learning to cook myself at 35 ....well long story, but needless to say though it wasn't what you thought you were looking for I am still grateful that you commented.....Luvs xxx Red

 

[Layne]

Me

I have just become a Sissy Baby Boy and am very interested in this conversation.

 

[tigressnred]

Thank you Sissy boy .....please go on.......Luvs xxx Red

 

[SDM3]

It's not something I'm particularly interested in practicing. But I am curious, as I am about most things in life that I'm not entirely educated on or fully understand. That being said, if I might ask a question...or a few.

Does ageplay require sex? Can't it just be the daddy/girl, daddy/boy, mommy/girl, mommy/boy, etc without it involving sex? Or is there another term for that?

It just seems like there's some judgement being placed on the subject about the sexual aspect and I didn't know if was always a sexual thing.

 

[Netzach]

I'm perfectly happy about Leathermommy kind of stuff, but if you flag six, I'm going to treat you as six - and I'm not open to sexual stuff. Just like I don't get overtly sexual with dog or pony girls, it's more of an emotionally interesting thing to me than overtly sexual.

As an expression of power and as an exploration of role (not as in acting as in culture) I find it fascinating and kind of hot indirectly.

 

[intothewoods]

There just aren't very many female PYLS on this board!

Personally? I do not want to be anybody's mommy. I have just gotten a pair of kids to young adulthood, and revisiting that just isn't exciting to me.

Heh heh - this is basically my reaction when I see a woman with a pacifier in her mouth dressed as a baby. Whatever floats your boat, but my personal gut reaction is to want to run far away.

On the other hand...

I'm perfectly happy about Leathermommy kind of stuff, but if you flag six, I'm going to treat you as six - and I'm not open to sexual stuff. Just like I don't get overtly sexual with dog or pony girls, it's more of an emotionally interesting thing to me than overtly sexual.

As an expression of power and as an exploration of role (not as in acting as in culture) I find it fascinating and kind of hot indirectly.

I'm totally not into age play or the Daddy thing, but I played a little with one woman where the leathermommy vibe was definitely there and kinda working for me. I don't know. It was not an age play thing - more...protective, mentor? It's hard for me to articulate why this can work with a woman and not a man. I like the whole leather service model. For whatever reason, it doesn't strike me as goofy role playing. I'll have to think more on this.

 

[tigressnred]

Thank you all for your comments.....I am sorry I have not been around to answer....I have changed my mind about all this......I am definitely NOT into age play and while I know that not all Mommy/girl relationships involve this......I have found that i need a MUCH stronger hand then what a Mommy can offer me. Therefore I discovered that what I really needed was a Mistress complete with all the rituals, rules, and protocol involved in that. I am happy to report that I have found a strong, beautiful, sexy woman that gets me in every way and the energy between us in transcendent.....Therefore I am closing this topic at this time and I am off to find appropriate groups here on LIT that will enhance both my relationship with my Daddy and with my Mistress......thank you all........Luvs xxx Red

 

[DeepGreenEyes]

Thank you all for your comments.....I am sorry I have not been around to answer....I have changed my mind about all this......I am definitely NOT into age play and while I know that not all Mommy/girl relationships involve this......I have found that i need a MUCH stronger hand then what a Mommy can offer me. Therefore I discovered that what I really needed was a Mistress complete with all the rituals, rules, and protocol involved in that. I am happy to report that I have found a strong, beautiful, sexy woman that gets me in every way and the energy between us in transcendent.....Therefore I am closing this topic at this time and I am off to find appropriate groups here on LIT that will enhance both my relationship with my Daddy and with my Mistress......thank you all........Luvs xxx Red

Congrats, Tigress.

But you realize you're breaking your mother's heart, don't you? She's over here. sobbing in the big LA-Z-BOY.

 

[tigressnred]

Oh! green eyes I am sooo sorry. I do not want your Mother crying......well I feel just awful now....Mothers are great, I wish I would have had one myself, but I have found the woman of my life in another way I suppose........giggles......Luvs xxx Red