Marijuana as gateway to bisex?

[cromag99]

I'm wondering if anyone has any experience with MJ as the catalyst for a bisexual encounter, especially first time. I'm "curious" and as of yet str8, but the closest I came to wanting to go through with a first time experience was with a co-worker and friend who introduced me to pot on a business trip.
Fantasizing about two hetero buddies splitting a joint one after noon, and it leading to something more. Or maybe an experienced bi-guy using pot to help "seduce" a straight guy into a first time encounter?

anyone have any experiences or stories like this

 

[Experiencedguy]

Truthfully, I can't see where the use of any drug would make a person more (or less) willing to try any kind of sex. Either you want to or not. Don't understand where the use of drugs, alcohol, or nothing makes much of a factor (although being drunk has lead me to fuck some really ugly girls).

 

[kdwb63]

Based on some long ago experiences, I would say yes . . . if you or the other(s) already have curiosity in that direction. I remember weed as really enhancing the visual aspects of the act, and don't recall that it reduced performance ability in any way.

Gee . . . you question got me thinking fondly of the good old days. I'd like to set the time machine for a visit, if only that were possible.

 

[Athalia]

Based on some long ago experiences, I would say yes . . . if you or the other(s) already have curiosity in that direction. I remember weed as really enhancing the visual aspects of the act, and don't recall that it reduced performance ability in any way.

My experience, too. My first Lesbian experience was with a dorm-mate, after we'd smoked pot. What happened is that everything seemed to slow down ... no pressure to perform or to climax, just teasing and enjoying the heightened sensations. It wasn't visual as much as it was tactile for me. When we did climax (separately, not simultaneously), it was almost a ... dare I say it? ... anti-climax. Come to think of it, that was probably the first time I ever used pot in a sexual setting, except for masturbation.

I've had sexual relations with both men and women under the influence of pot, and it's never been quite as intense as that first one, but it's all been pretty good. I'm small, so it doesn't take a lot of alcohol to get me blitzed, and for me that's a libido killer. But pot I can handle. Some of my make partners did mention that they had trouble sustaining erections if they went overboard on it, but that a little of it helped them sustain their erections longer.

 

[kdwb63]

Yes, I definitely agree, and re-thought my mention of the visual aspect after I had posted. I have made my living as a visual artist, so the visual part is what I react to first, but MJ definitely promotes the tactile to an incredible degree.

I think both pussies and cocks look great, but that is just a prelude to having a mouthful of either one. I have noticed that the heightened sensations of lightly touching, kissing, and licking - enjoyed at a slow pace - are as much of a groove as whatever sex act follows.

As for the introduction-to-bisex component, my girlfriend at the time and I both discovered how hot-looking mm, ff, or any combination thereof, porn was when we were high. It led us both into further exploration, with the only downside being the predictable onset of the munchies.

 

[Hitchiker69]

I used to enjoy lovemaking when stoned. I felt it made me less inhibited and more aware of my own and my lover's responses.
I remember one occaision when I was hitchiking, and the driver said 'I just got off work. I'm going home to smoke a joint and have a beer. Care to join me?' How could I say no?
That lead to some great gay sex, all night long.

 

[drube]

Speaking of being stoned... Wouldn't it make it harder to give head with your mouth dry?

 

[SexyLitForAll]

I never could keep it up when stoned!! Though I tried. Now acid - that's another thing alltogether!

 

[eddie03]

When I am stoned I normally am very easily aroused. I am a MMJ user and I can't say it turned me on to bisex, but as others said it made me more aware of it, made me more aware of myself period. It actually saved my sex life as it was getting so it was to painful to attempt it so after a couple years of frustration and many years of pain I took my doctors advice and gave it a shot (yeah I was a good kid and just said no). I slept for the first time in years and what I think is funny is that my activity level shot thru the roof. I dropped weight and it really turned my life around.

Sexually its great and I seem to have a lot more stamina than I did before. Cumming can be more difficult but its also less important to me, (although I always get off eventually, & OMG!) But its like being a teenager again. I really understand the whole textile thing too, because if I have to wear a condom I lose my erection quick. As soon as I take it off he starts to wake up. Its strange but oh well.

Oh yeah and for those of you worried about cottonmouth and oral sex? Thats why they make flavored lube