Are there any advenurous women left?

[erotictom]

Are there any adventurous women left?

I am a very attractive 35 yr old Boston area well spoken and educated man looking for exciting and adventurous females to get to know. Honestly I have no problem meeting women but time after time I am disappointed by the lack of adventure and curiosity I find in them. Maybe this is a good place to find them. Are there any other guys who are in a similar place? It seems every woman is looking for a life partner, husband, family man, friend...but sex is last and used as a tool to achieve these other goals. Why can't we build some friendships out of mutual and respectful interest in the erotic without worrying about peripheral matters? Sex itself doesn't always have to be the final goal, but it is nice. Definitely interested in talking about the erotic, what turns you on (and off), what your fantasies are, what you have done. Interested in trading stories, pics, or developing some friendships based upon love of the erotic and perhaps acting out some of these fantasies. I hope we can share our love of the erotic together. - erotic tom

 

[sassylilthang]

I am a very attractive 35 yr old Boston area well spoken and educated man looking for exciting and adventurous females to get to know. Honestly I have no problem meeting women but time after time I am disappointed by the lack of adventure and curiosity I find in them. Maybe this is a good place to find them. Are there any other guys who are in a similar place? It seems every woman is looking for a life partner, husband, family man, friend...but sex is last and used as a tool to achieve these other goals. Why can't we build some friendships out of mutual and respectful interest in the erotic without worrying about peripheral matters? Sex itself doesn't always have to be the final goal, but it is nice. Definitely interested in talking about the erotic, what turns you on (and off), what your fantasies are, what you have done. Interested in trading stories, pics, or developing some friendships based upon love of the erotic and perhaps acting out some of these fantasies. I hope we can share our love of the erotic together. - erotic tom

This IS a good plac to find fun.

Sex is NOT last for all women in your age group. It isn't for me at least. But that said, I don't want a man who wants only sex.....as you said it doesn't have to be the final goal. And it is more then nice.

Be patient, it will happen. Just don't be like some and settle. I know I won't, even if I am 50 and single!

 

[erotictom]

A response! There are real people out there! I just have to say I know too many in my boat, so many guys agree with me. I am not here to put women down by any means, I love them and respect them. I just think communication has gone out the window between men and women and so many women particularly from the northeast of the usa, but also the usa in general are complicated, vague, mercurial, and uncertain. Is this a gereralization? Yes. So many men and even women agree with me. Are men like this too? Yes and probably quite a few of them but I am speaking about women and not men here the same case probably applies to men and women.
However, I have traveled quite a bit and encountered women in many different places and I sincerely prefer and respect highly their openness, honestly, clarity of thought and words and lack of snobbery and material obsession. A woman in SE Asia will let you know with only a look whether or not she is interested in you and if she is worth pursuing. You don't have to waste your time with idle chatter and mind games. I am not saying you shouldn't take some time to get to know someone, but if you don't think you are into it then be honest. I would rather have a woman tell me straight up if I am not her type or if she is not attracted to me and move on. Anyways, I am stuck in Boston for a while so I have to accept this for now but am looking to find some women akin to me in mind, spirit and body.

 

[CuteBrat]

I am a very attractive 35 yr old Boston area well spoken and educated man looking for exciting and adventurous females to get to know. Honestly I have no problem meeting women but time after time I am disappointed by the lack of adventure and curiosity I find in them. Maybe this is a good place to find them. Are there any other guys who are in a similar place? It seems every woman is looking for a life partner, husband, family man, friend...but sex is last and used as a tool to achieve these other goals. Why can't we build some friendships out of mutual and respectful interest in the erotic without worrying about peripheral matters? Sex itself doesn't always have to be the final goal, but it is nice. Definitely interested in talking about the erotic, what turns you on (and off), what your fantasies are, what you have done. Interested in trading stories, pics, or developing some friendships based upon love of the erotic and perhaps acting out some of these fantasies. I hope we can share our love of the erotic together. - erotic tom

Ah...nothing sexier than a guy with a typo in his subject line! Really shows the attention to detail you're likely to get down the line....

 

[BambiLenoir]

Ah...nothing sexier than a guy with a typo in his subject line! Really shows the attention to detail you're likely to get down the line....

lol . . . . . . . . . . . . .

 

[erotictom]

ok fixed it.

 

[erotictom]

it only took me an hour to figure out how to fix that, thanks cute brat. Honestly, what it says about me is that I am pretty easy goin, not obsessed with the little details but the big picture. Isn't that comforting? that I am not going to pick you apart like so many guys do but accept the little defects? I didn't know this was a thesis paper. Should put my glasses on ; )

 

[Holly1990]

I don't think it's difficult to find adventurous women, I've found some on here, a couple in London and even one in Boston on holiday Also, I think it's a turn off to describe yourself as 'very attractive', shows a hint of narcissism no?
Good luck finding what you're after though x

 

[erotictom]

well I think I actually am, but beauty is in the eye of the beholder. People always describes themselves as attractive even when they are not. Maybe they are to some people, but you know what I am saying. I am not a narcissist. I am just trying to be honest about it and if sounds egotistical than it is too late to change it anyways. Is everyone supposed to be humble all the time? I am definitely no Clooney or Pitt. Apologies. Gettin beat up pretty bad my first day here!

 

[UKBBW]

Methinks you're forgetting to look. Do you build up all sorts of assumptions based on their on line playfulness and forget that they are a real person? They are possibly a tiger for the right person but if you don't get to know them (and that doesn't mean having to be their significant other, love of their lives or any such) they probably won't feel like showing that side for you. No-one wants to feel like they are fulfilling a fantasy - the best fantasy is to be with someone who wants to be with you so that you can really let your hair down - in ANY capacity! A big part of real eroticism is mental connection after all.

 

[erotictom]

not the case. I have met some fun women yes. not that i have never met them. Most are just really not that interested in it at the basic level. That is why i thought I would explore this site where there all these cool imaginative women. Basically, I think it comes down to confidence and comfort with one's self and I have met few women that have the confidence to do what maybe they would like to or at least what I would like them to do with me. It gets exasperating. My last girlfriend wouldn't even where lingerie because she thought it was too slutty and I was making love to her bod rather than to her. And another wouldn't have sex with lights on - too uncomfortable with her body even though I praised it. That is what I am talking about.

 

[pellso27]

you can find them on the Gay and Lesbian Chat Board

 

[CuteBrat]

not the case. I have met some fun women yes. not that i have never met them. Most are just really not that interested in it at the basic level. That is why i thought I would explore this site where there all these cool imaginative women. Basically, I think it comes down to confidence and comfort with one's self and I have met few women that have the confidence to do what maybe they would like to or at least what I would like them to do with me. It gets exasperating. My last girlfriend wouldn't even where lingerie because she thought it was too slutty and I was making love to her bod rather than to her. And another wouldn't have sex with lights on - too uncomfortable with her body even though I praised it. That is what I am talking about.

OMG....I hate when chicks won't "where" lingerie. She wouldn't where it anywear? (I think I am officially done with Lit until people have to prove their IQ is at least in the double-digits to join)

 

[Deleted member 925492]

^
You need to really take a chill pill and settle down, the odd typo doesn't hurt anyone. Its very easy to make a mistake typing, especially when many people type quick. Also you have no idea about people, maybe they suffer from issues such as Dyslexia, which in their case means they can't help it (not saying the op does). New members should be encouraged not slated for simple mistakes, especially one such as *where/were*, which is easy enough when your not fully thinking about your writing online in a forum. so back off and why don't you find something more constructive to do with your time.

Sorry to the mods, I know forums have rules about flaming/starting arguements etc...but I really dislike bullies of any form.

 

[CuteBrat]

^
You need to really take a chill pill and settle down, the odd typo doesn't hurt anyone. Its very easy to make a mistake typing, especially when many people type quick. Also you have no idea about people, maybe they suffer from issues such as Dyslexia, which in their case means they can't help it (not saying the op does). New members should be encouraged not slated for simple mistakes, especially one such as *where/were*, which is easy enough when your not fully thinking about your writing online in a forum. so back off and why don't you find something more constructive to do with your time.

Sorry to the mods, I know forums have rules about flaming/starting arguements etc...but I really dislike bullies of any form.

It's not a typo. It's the use of the wrong word. Dyslexia can make people put letters in the wrong order, not choose wrong words. This is a forum where the only way to present yourself is via the written word. If you make a post looking for an "advenurous" woman who will "where" lingerie, you'd better be prepared to be called an idiot.

 

[Deleted member 925492]

^Must be easy to call people idiots from the comfort of your on PC, if you don't like someone's thread due to there spelling then just ignore the thread. This shouldn't be a hard task for someone with your obviously high IQ and throne to match.

 

[CuteBrat]

^Must be easy to call people idiots from the comfort of your on PC, if you don't like someone's thread due to there spelling then just ignore the thread. This shouldn't be a hard task for someone with your obviously high IQ and throne to match.

Again, you miss the point. I'm going to type this v e r y slowly so you can keep up. This was not a misspelling. It was actually using the wrong word. When someone writes something like, for example, "due to there spelling" it is like carrying a very large sign saying "I am stupid?

We wouldn't know anybody who would do that, do we jax?

 

[Deleted member 925492]

Again, you miss the point. I'm going to type this v e r y slowly so you can keep up. This was not a misspelling. It was actually using the wrong word. When someone writes something like, for example, "due to there spelling" it is like carrying a very large sign saying "I am stupid?

We wouldn't know anybody who would do that, do we jax?

You must be a very popular person, "WHERE" you live. Actually it works either way (using the w r o n g word or s p e l l i n g), putting where instead of were could be classified as a spelling mistake or a using the wrong word as you put it. I am not wrong in my wording but then again I am not so anal on matters because I am what people call...

"A people person" and not an uptight bully who gets their only joy in life from insulting others.

 

[tulipsonanorgan]

OMG....I hate when chicks won't "where" lingerie. She wouldn't where it anywear? (I think I am officially done with Lit until people have to prove their IQ is at least in the double-digits to join)

you think you're officially done, but you're still arguing.
about a homophone, even.

I think you can see "over it" from where you are.
can you get there, though?

 

[ChadSanDiegoCA]

lol... good one...

 

[Cathleen]

For a short thread it's entertaining that's for sure.


As to the where/were, in the context Tom used neither word is correct! It should be wear. That really has me chuckling, not AT anyone just at the irony.

Welcome to Lit.


And Tom, don't be saying you're stuck in Boston...geesh man, there are some Bostonian people that might want to kick your tush just for even thinking it! Be grateful I didn't quote it for all Internet eternity. ; )

 

[rcthumper]

Come on people. did your mothers not teach you, if you don't have anything nice to say don't asy anything at all. This thread is like an all out attack...

 

[erotictom]

seriously some of you need some help. I came here to talk about sex, not grammar. so far I am seriously disappointed in this place. Who the f cares if I think I am handsome or not? Grammar is ridiculous anyway. Sex is way better. Go practice your grammar then brat... ; )

 

[Cathleen]

I definitely learned my lesson! But don't give up on the place Tom, there's a lot of good here.

 

[CuteBrat]

seriously some of you need some help. I came here to talk about sex, not grammar. so far I am seriously disappointed in this place. Who the f cares if I think I am handsome or not? Grammar is ridiculous anyway. Sex is way better. Go practice your grammar then brat... ; )

HEY WAIT A MINUTE!!! Are you really Sarah Palin????