Hello Reader, whoever you may be.
I have been frequenting, more accurately 'lurking', this site for around a year now. In that time I have placed one post looking for a pen-pal, and added a few threads to others posts, most of the latter being tongue in cheek comments or suggestion intended to amuse rather than inform or stimulate.
I have also approached a few of those who post on here, and been randomly approached by several others who have been encouraged by my profile.
But as yet no joy, no pen-pal.
So, this is another, and probably last attempt, to find email friendship on this site.
If you are still reading then I request you read carefully. Take your time and read what is written--not what you imagine is written.
(For the benefit of the wishful thinkers I have underlined certain key words I would hate you to miss or simply gloss over in your enthusiasm!)
I am an independent, single, late middle age woman.(For the benefit of the hard of thinking this does not mean I am an old bag who hasn't had 'it' for a long time and must therefor 'be gagging for it'. It simply means what it says. I have no need or desire for monetary or other forms of compensation, and there is no one in my life who may inadvertently stumble upon letters or stories received.)
I consider myself reasonably intelligent and articulate, highly imaginative, totally open minded, and quite creative. I enjoy reading/ writing well written fantasy scenario's and short stories, and lengthy letters of a highly sexual nature. I also enjoy email exchanges discussing all sorts of taboo topics, scenario's, desires, thoughts and experiences.
I seek a mature male, preferably of around my age or older, who also enjoys both writing and reading fantasy stories, letters, etc. A man who is imaginative and literate, and who has time and inclination to indulge on a regular basis. A man who knows what he enjoys and is not backwards about coming forwards. I would like a totally open, uninhibited, unreserved relationship. I wish to be treated as an equal in thought, fantasy and creativity, and in fantasy I place no restrictions and no limitations on myself on or my partner.
Still reading?
Ok, the following is for those who have difficulty in understanding the above.
What I don't seek:
One liners, especially those including an email address suggesting I write.
Requests for my particular interests and excitements without mention of yours.
Mention of your interests but only some of them, as though I may run away screaming were you to reveal the truth. If I do run away screaming--a highly unlikely scenario--then we are not suited in the first place, so nothing lost.
Requests to chat on line. There is a difference between IM and email though many don't appear to understand this. I do not like IM. I do not indulge in IM.
Requests for phone calls.
Requests for meetings.
Requests where the writer has no concept of the fact they have to pique my interest, my curiosity, even my arousal, in order to encourage further contact.
That basically you have to sell yourselvelf to me just as I am trying to sell myself to you here. (I may be doing so badly, but at least I consider you worth the effort.)
Requests from those who have no real intention of writing but simply respond in the hope they may receive something stimulating from me.
'Wannabe's' who like the idea of it all but know from the outset they can never hope to match the request.
All the above may seem a bit harsh and in places over stressed. I accept that's true, and that for many reading this post much mentioned is not required.
The simple fact I feel it is necessary to state my request in this way is not so much a reflection on myself, but a sad reflection on the type of man, and the occasional woman, I have frequently encountered through this site during the past few months.
To all the rest of you, I wish you the best in your personal quest.
Stella.
I have been frequenting, more accurately 'lurking', this site for around a year now. In that time I have placed one post looking for a pen-pal, and added a few threads to others posts, most of the latter being tongue in cheek comments or suggestion intended to amuse rather than inform or stimulate.
I have also approached a few of those who post on here, and been randomly approached by several others who have been encouraged by my profile.
But as yet no joy, no pen-pal.
So, this is another, and probably last attempt, to find email friendship on this site.
If you are still reading then I request you read carefully. Take your time and read what is written--not what you imagine is written.
(For the benefit of the wishful thinkers I have underlined certain key words I would hate you to miss or simply gloss over in your enthusiasm!)
I am an independent, single, late middle age woman.(For the benefit of the hard of thinking this does not mean I am an old bag who hasn't had 'it' for a long time and must therefor 'be gagging for it'. It simply means what it says. I have no need or desire for monetary or other forms of compensation, and there is no one in my life who may inadvertently stumble upon letters or stories received.)
I consider myself reasonably intelligent and articulate, highly imaginative, totally open minded, and quite creative. I enjoy reading/ writing well written fantasy scenario's and short stories, and lengthy letters of a highly sexual nature. I also enjoy email exchanges discussing all sorts of taboo topics, scenario's, desires, thoughts and experiences.
I seek a mature male, preferably of around my age or older, who also enjoys both writing and reading fantasy stories, letters, etc. A man who is imaginative and literate, and who has time and inclination to indulge on a regular basis. A man who knows what he enjoys and is not backwards about coming forwards. I would like a totally open, uninhibited, unreserved relationship. I wish to be treated as an equal in thought, fantasy and creativity, and in fantasy I place no restrictions and no limitations on myself on or my partner.
Still reading?
Ok, the following is for those who have difficulty in understanding the above.
What I don't seek:
One liners, especially those including an email address suggesting I write.
Requests for my particular interests and excitements without mention of yours.
Mention of your interests but only some of them, as though I may run away screaming were you to reveal the truth. If I do run away screaming--a highly unlikely scenario--then we are not suited in the first place, so nothing lost.
Requests to chat on line. There is a difference between IM and email though many don't appear to understand this. I do not like IM. I do not indulge in IM.
Requests for phone calls.
Requests for meetings.
Requests where the writer has no concept of the fact they have to pique my interest, my curiosity, even my arousal, in order to encourage further contact.
That basically you have to sell yourselvelf to me just as I am trying to sell myself to you here. (I may be doing so badly, but at least I consider you worth the effort.)
Requests from those who have no real intention of writing but simply respond in the hope they may receive something stimulating from me.
'Wannabe's' who like the idea of it all but know from the outset they can never hope to match the request.
All the above may seem a bit harsh and in places over stressed. I accept that's true, and that for many reading this post much mentioned is not required.
The simple fact I feel it is necessary to state my request in this way is not so much a reflection on myself, but a sad reflection on the type of man, and the occasional woman, I have frequently encountered through this site during the past few months.
To all the rest of you, I wish you the best in your personal quest.
Stella.
