curiousity

[taykay21]

So I'm curious about becoming a sub. I'm 18 and bi. I've always been into being controlled but never really had anyone to help. If anyone has any advice that'd be lovely. Thanks

 

[Etoile]

Welcome

May I suggest starting with the library at the top of the forum?

 

[FungiUg]

Yeah. Whole lotta reading to do! Don't be afraid to ask questions though.

 

[Kathykitten]

Welcome to a great great life!

Just remember the Big 3 ones: Safe, Sane, Consensual. Don't jump into anything if you are offered a chance to explore, make sure you get to know the person first. Many a sub (and top) has had some really bad experiences with people they didn't know well enough.

 

[Lizzie_Borden]

Welcome to a great great life!

Just remember the Big 3 ones: Safe, Sane, Consensual. Don't jump into anything if you are offered a chance to explore, make sure you get to know the person first. Many a sub (and top) has had some really bad experiences with people they didn't know well enough.

Or, for those that have accepted that some of the things we do aren't exactly safe and/or sane, Risk Aware Consensual Kink.