Red Flags for Abuse

[denverdream]

Hi! I've been lurking here for months. A few months ago - I'm sorry to say, I think it was in one of Bloved's threads *shudder*- someone posted two links to potential red flags for abuse. I tried searching, but couldn't find it easily, so I thought I'd just ask if someone knows what I'm talking about and if so, could they please re-post the links? I'm especially interested in the bits about emotional manipulation.

Thanks!

Am posting here, because this and the cafe are the only boards I really read.

 

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[denverdream]

Thanks! These weren't quite what I was looking for, but I will browse through them and see if I can't find something insightful.

Also...sorry I haven't introduced myself...I never planned to start posting with such an unhappy subject. Grrr....

 

[Daddy2mylilgirl]

This?

http://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=703401&page=90

Or possibly this?

http://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=712254&page=2

 

[denverdream]

YES! Thank you! Those were related to what I was looking for, and then I found another link I was looking for in one of Netzach's posts on the Ethics thread.

I'd forgotten just how creepy he was! I'm going to wash the scuzz off now.

Again, thank you!!!

 

[MisterRar]

So I'm new here. (This is my first post: Hi!) I followed a couple of the links above and wondered why everyone was being so mean to Bloved.

Then I started to read the Ethics thread. Oh, lordy, lordy. First he's pontificating about True Love and the evils of "casual BDSM" and bragging about finding his eternal beloved after knowing her a month. Then a few weeks later she leaves him (gosh, who could have seen that coming?), and he starts posting even more. Then he brings up every possible topic he can that will allow him to attack people here. Then he goes on and on and on about BDSM clubs allowing in 16 year olds, despite the fact that they don't, and keeps posting links to articles about people getting shot in clubs that aren't even BDSM clubs. Then it turns out he's Wulf, a creepy would-be predator who spammed the hell out of usenet back in the day and had some really really creepy notions about TPE that raise every red flag for abuse you can think of and then some, and that might have involved the idea of having children sleep in kennels along with his harem of slaves.

I know none of this is news for anyone here, but OMFG, that dude is a world-class creepazoid. I wonder how many personality disorders he could be diagnosed with on the basis of his postings alone? I wonder what message boards he's plaguing these days? I wonder if he's actually found himself a new "beloved" (scary thought). I wonder why I kept reading and reading his threads here.

So, anyway, hello everyone!

 

[FungiUg]

I know none of this is news for anyone here, but OMFG, that dude is a world-class creepazoid. I wonder how many personality disorders he could be diagnosed with on the basis of his postings alone? I wonder what message boards he's plaguing these days? I wonder if he's actually found himself a new "beloved" (scary thought). I wonder why I kept reading and reading his threads here.

I think it's quite apt to have that comment here, because this is a thread about abuse. I consider trolling to be a form of abuse in a way, because it's forcing an opinion or effect on people who do not want it.