Is Literotica your secret?

[Alana_]

Do friends and family know you visit here? Do they know about your writing and understand the love of erotic words?

For me, the only person I've to answer to knows..My husband. He knows all my haunts and is free to peep at my posts anytime he likes.

 

[grant_s]

Most definitely NO, not sure how they would react, but being single doesn't really matter.

Everyone knows me as a quiet, conservative and innocent guy. Family would be shocked, friends, who gives a shit?

 

[Miss Sixxy]

there are only a few people that know I come here - there is only one that knows what I post, what I write and some of my deepest darkest secrets.

 

[Lady Reiha]

Do friends and family know you visit here? Do they know about your writing and understand the love of erotic words?

For me, the only person I've to answer to knows..My husband. He knows all my haunts and is free to peep at my posts anytime he likes.

My bf and roomies= they know.
My co-workers= Not at all
My family= nope!
My cat?= Most likely.

 

[sallythescorpian]

For me, I was a sneaker to begin with, but then I got caught!! Now, I have permission. My husband is fantastic, and so open minded and indulgent, and providing that my play remains on line, I am free to do as I choose!!

As to anyone else, God no!! Most people who know me, would probably describe me as conservative. I suspect most people I know would pass out if they realised what I like!! Hubby knows, but even he was shock by the extent of it. (only temporily though!!!)

 

[Mephistophelily]

My hubby is very much aware. His thoughts on it, which a number of guys I've played with know:

"What you do online is simply online. It doesn't bother me either way. As long as a guy doesn't show up at our door and demands to take you away with him, I'm fine. But if its a woman, I demand pictures and you to be back within 3 weeks."

 

[dragonrazor]

My hubby is very much aware. His thoughts on it, which a number of guys I've played with know:

"What you do online is simply online. It doesn't bother me either way. As long as a guy doesn't show up at our door and demands to take you away with him, I'm fine. But if its a woman, I demand pictures and you to be back within 3 weeks."

Now that's funny.

 

[Alana_]

For me, I was a sneaker to begin with, but then I got caught!! Now, I have permission. My husband is fantastic, and so open minded and indulgent, and providing that my play remains on line, I am free to do as I choose!!

As to anyone else, God no!! Most people who know me, would probably describe me as conservative. I suspect most people I know would pass out if they realised what I like!! Hubby knows, but even he was shock by the extent of it. (only temporily though!!!)

Your hubby sounds just like mine. I told him as I knew I was going to get caught cause I'm clueless about computers and hiding stuff. He was stunned ...absolutely stunned that his wife could use the language needed/used in srp. And like your husband, I was told fine, but not to hide a thing or he'd want me to stop. There was to be no turning off of screens when he walked in for example. So alls good years on, and he rarely mentions it now. But he's the only one that knows..My family would literally die of shame. And if it got outside the family, I might as well sell up and move frankly. Small town mentality, and my kids would be the ones to suffer.

 

[dragonrazor]

Let's see. My closest friend not only knows, she's a member. My little brother knows (and tried to register for an account before he turned 18 *smacks little brother of three years ago*). My mother is like "Is that one of your website thingies?". That's about it.

 

[Luna_Wolf72]

Nope, not a secret at all...

I don't have any reason to hide. I don't hold an important job, I have no significant other and when I did...they posted here as well.

*shrugs*

Obviously, if I worried I wouldn't use self av's or post pics of me without touching em up.

 

[sallythescorpian]

Your hubby sounds just like mine. I told him as I knew I was going to get caught cause I'm clueless about computers and hiding stuff. He was stunned ...absolutely stunned that his wife could use the language needed/used in srp. And like your husband, I was told fine, but not to hide a thing or he'd want me to stop. There was to be no turning off of screens when he walked in for example. So alls good years on, and he rarely mentions it now. But he's the only one that knows..My family would literally die of shame. And if it got outside the family, I might as well sell up and move frankly. Small town mentality, and my kids would be the ones to suffer.

Alana, it sounds like our Irish men are out of the same mould!! Like you, if it got out, we'd be moving!!! Small town mentality all the way!!! I actually thought there was no way I'd get caught!! Doh!!! As Homer Simpson would say!!

In fact, he has been fantastic. I thought there would have been a major showdown, with my laptop going in the skip (and possibly a footprint on my arse as I got kicked out the door!! But he has surprised me, incredibly good about it, and like that, no quick change to another tab etc!!!

Of course... it was a case of "oh, you like that do you....?? " evil grin, and no holds barred for him - he's reaping the benefits, if you know what I mean!!!!

 

[Dr_James]

Yes. There is only one who knows me here. I am still on the reserved side but I will open up once I find my place.

 

[Alana_]

Alana, it sounds like our Irish men are out of the same mould!! Like you, if it got out, we'd be moving!!! Small town mentality all the way!!! I actually thought there was no way I'd get caught!! Doh!!! As Homer Simpson would say!!

In fact, he has been fantastic. I thought there would have been a major showdown, with my laptop going in the skip (and possibly a footprint on my arse as I got kicked out the door!! But he has surprised me, incredibly good about it, and like that, no quick change to another tab etc!!!

Of course... it was a case of "oh, you like that do you....?? " evil grin, and no holds barred for him - he's reaping the benefits, if you know what I mean!!!!

LMAO..Ditto!...After reading some of my stuff, he comes to bed all hot and bothered and wants to know which one of my girls is he getting busy with tonight. He discovered the upside really fast.

Love the ''footprint on my arse'' btw.Definitely a fellow brother to my husband.

 

[marauder13]

Is Lit my secret?

Not in the least.

My wife knows, approves and supports my writing here. My friends know I do it, but most leave it there. My longest known friend has asked a few questions, and looked at a post or two (An Incredible Blunder) and was most surprised by both my efforts and Alana_'s too. He complimented us both, and remained stunned for about 10 minutes afterwards.

 

[Alana_]

Is Lit my secret?

Not in the least.

My wife knows, approves and supports my writing here. My friends know I do it, but most leave it there. My longest known friend has asked a few questions, and looked at a post or two (An Incredible Blunder) and was most surprised by both my efforts and Alana_'s too. He complimented us both, and remained stunned for about 10 minutes afterwards.

I don't suppose he offered money for more? No? Yes?..

Seriously, that's very flattering M.

 

[oreocookie]

My best friend knows. She's actually the only person I've ever felt comfortable telling, and I told her only a month or two after meeting her... She's checked out the site, I've even tried to get her to join...

EDIT: That's a lie... An ex or two know...

 

[monique_minx]

Ummm who doesn't know? I mean I don't advertise it *coughs mostly coughs*

But yeah, my sisters know, my dad knows, my play partners (IRL) and fuck buddies know, my friends know and hell even my sister's friends know.

It's hard to hide the fact that you can't sit down after a particularly rough night of spankings or that your nipples are so sensitive from extended and vigorous use of clothespins that the slightest brush against your top or bra makes you gasp.

Also...they have all heard me during sex (the walls ain't that thick!) and ummm yeah, you can have the music up as loud as you want, the tv screaming to the neighbours...and they'll still hear me two suburbs over having a good time

Also...stating in a tattoo parlour in front of your little sister that you want the BDSM symbol tattooed on your ass is a pretty big give away...who knew?

EDIT: Oh and most of them have checked it out, done a bit of reading, a couple have even joined here and are active from time to time. They love to read what I write and I must say that Taking Online Offline only grows in popularity, I bow to my partner on that one cause you rock Marauder!

 

[marauder13]

Ummm who doesn't know? I mean I don't advertise it *coughs mostly coughs*

But yeah, my sisters know, my dad knows, my play partners (IRL) and fuck buddies know, my friends know and hell even my sister's friends know.

It's hard to hide the fact that you can't sit down after a particularly rough night of spankings or that your nipples are so sensitive from extended and vigorous use of clothespins that the slightest brush against your top or bra makes you gasp.

Also...they have all heard me during sex (the walls ain't that thick!) and ummm yeah, you can have the music up as loud as you want, the tv screaming to the neighbours...and they'll still hear me two suburbs over having a good time

Also...stating in a tattoo parlour in front of your little sister that you want the BDSM symbol tattooed on your ass is a pretty big give away...who knew?

EDIT: Oh and most of them have checked it out, done a bit of reading, a couple have even joined here and are active from time to time. They love to read what I write and I must say that Taking Online Offline only grows in popularity, I bow to my partner on that one cause you rock Marauder!

Monique - we're talking about Lit here, not your sexlife. They do happen to be different, you know ( chuckles and runs like hell )

 

[Ahren]

No one knows and I'd prefer they not.

 

[monique_minx]

Monique - we're talking about Lit here, not your sexlife. They do happen to be different, you know ( chuckles and runs like hell )

Oi! *Throws a ball at his head* Gawd you're pesky on Monday mornings ya know that?!

I'm gonna do a drive by egging of you if I ever see you! Just to get you back for being such a meany to me!

*pouts*

 

[dragonrazor]

Oi! *Throws a ball at his head* Gawd you're pesky on Monday mornings ya know that?!

I'm gonna do a drive by egging of you if I ever see you! Just to get you back for being such a meany to me!

*pouts*

psst. Golfballs. Then you can join the ranks of the saddest town in human history (I was heading to the store for my mother shortly after my 21st...a group of high school punks drove by and threw golfballs at me o.o I knew then that Dubuque was doomed)

 

[Powerdog16]

Do friends and family know you visit here? Do they know about your writing and understand the love of erotic words?

For me, the only person I've to answer to knows..My husband. He knows all my haunts and is free to peep at my posts anytime he likes.

Going back to this question... This is my little secret. No one but a good personal friend of mine knows of this site or my enjoyment in erotica. Such is the life I guess...

 

[Alana_]

Going back to this question... This is my little secret. No one but a good personal friend of mine knows of this site or my enjoyment in erotica. Such is the life I guess...

''Such is life'' indeed.

 

[fuckmeat]

My family have no idea. I am just as uninterested in their sexlives. It works.

My RL Mistress knows. From the moment I joined she had my login details and could check on me whenever she wanted to. She also has my YIM and all my conversations with fellow litsters are logged there. When I joined I was seeking a RL play partner (with Mistress's blessing, for complex reasons that I won't go into here) but I decided it wasn't something I really wanted or needed to do. Now I have an online dynamic with Leopald that I cherish and enjoy very much, one that Mistress approves of.

Aside from that... my brother has recently discovered I post here. He read a few of my posts (I was unconscious at the time or I'd have told him it was a bad idea) and basically traumatised himself. He's staying with me atm but still can't look me in the eye. I guess he doesn't like knowing just how depraved I am. We had a brief chat. I clarified Leo's place in my life and also pointed out that though I write a lot of violence and nonconsent, those are not things I actually want to experience IRL. (though I crossed my fingers and neglected to point out that these things can be explored IRL with a trusted partner ) So now he knows my girlfriend of four years is in fact my Mistress and I am her l'il slavebitch. Poor boy's going to have to become a totally deviant, bisexual slut before he regains 'worldly big brother' status. Oh well.

My friends are split into 3 factions: -

1. Hetero vanilla friends, who would be disturbed and concerned.
2. Bi/gay scene friends, who either don't know about or don't 'get' the M/s dynamic.
3. My oldest, bestest friend, who was my safecall when I was getting to know Mistress.

So group 1 have no idea, group 2 are mostly clueless but some have either picked up on power exchange vibes or been confided in. The local bi/gay scene isn't really a kink friendly zone though. They feel that all 'that stuff' gives 'em a bad name. I thought it was all the slutting around myself. Go figure.

Group 3. I've been best friends with this girl since we were both 5 and started primary school together. We were the two smallest kids in our year and basically clung to each other until we went to secondary school at 11, when we weren't quite the tiniest kids in the whole primary school any more. She's hetero and sexually repressed (I'm not saying that from my depraved slutty perspective, she really is, bless her) so she's supportive but quietly uncomprehending of my bisexuality and sub/masochism. She's on a need to know basis, which works fine for us. I am slowly corrupting her though... softly softly.

Oh yeah... and now the poor girl who just bought my iPhone. Total stranger who responded to a Gumtree ad. She couldn't get the network settings right for Safari so she called me and I talked her through it. First thing that came up was my Lit CP.

 

[sassylass66]

This is my guilty pleasure that I get to keep to myself however, as I explore and open up to my desires it is helping me to be more open at home. Hubby knows I read the stories but doesn't know I post.
As far as anyone else, I am not interested in their sex lives. Other than my parents, if someone in another area of my life brought up the subject I wouldn't feel like I had to hide it.