what u think?

[Kinkybytch]

Just wondering if this sounds stupid or not obviously I had other partners prior to my husband and I was always careful as to if we're going to have sex it had to be safe of course my husband is one of two guys in my life who obviously I didnt have safe sex with ( duh,we have kids together) I was wondering lately though how it would feel or be per say to have sex with my husband with a condom even though for one i know how they feel but two wouldnt it seem kind of suspicious or out of the ordinary to use condoms with the man Im married with kids to and never used any of that with? i dont know whats your opinions...Ty

 

[Guest]

Just wondering if this sounds stupid or not obviously I had other partners prior to my husband and I was always careful as to if we're going to have sex it had to be safe of course my husband is one of two guys in my life who obviously I didnt have safe sex with ( duh,we have kids together) I was wondering lately though how it would feel or be per say to have sex with my husband with a condom even though for one i know how they feel but two wouldnt it seem kind of suspicious or out of the ordinary to use condoms with the man Im married with kids to and never used any of that with? i dont know whats your opinions...Ty

It will diminish his sensitivity (may prolong his release....that's a good reason)

Why do you "want" to use one?

 

[Kinkybytch]

It will diminish his sensitivity (may prolong his release....that's a good reason)

Why do you "want" to use one?

Obviously I know how they feel Ijust wanted to have that experiance of trying it with him theres no particular reason.

 

[85Ironman]

He may wonder why the sudden change - you'll need to let him know it's for an experiential purpose, not protection.

 

[RawHumor]

I've heard of some women forcing their husbands to wear one as a form of domination... but I'm not really sure where you're coming from after reading your posts.

 

[tkinsc]

I never used one with my wife when we were dating. We have used one on occasion when role playing. There were also times when she was not on the pill that we would use them.

Have trojan.com send him a free sample, and ask him to use it on you.

 

[Red_and_Mackie]

Bring home one of those packages of condoms that has the vibrating bullet in it. You get to try out the condoms and score a sex toy at the same time.

 

[garry]

condoms are real good fun to use sometimes for something different
they almost seem a bit naughty

 

[mitchmo]

Willing to try anal? That'd be a good excuse to use a condom and you could ask him to get it lubed first vaginally... Or, pretend - role play that he is some random stranger, a celebrety or whatever and as part of the fantasy insist he wear a condom. Or better yet, just tell him you want to know what it would be like to have him fuck you wearing a condom. What's wrong with being honest and tell him it makes you horny to think about it. Either way he gets his cookie!

 

[Cinner]

Willing to try anal? That'd be a good excuse to use a condom and you could ask him to get it lubed first vaginally... Or, pretend - role play that he is some random stranger, a celebrety or whatever and as part of the fantasy insist he wear a condom. Or better yet, just tell him you want to know what it would be like to have him fuck you wearing a condom. What's wrong with being honest and tell him it makes you horny to think about it. Either way he gets his cookie!

I agree, why not just talk to him and let him know that you want to try something new with him?