Caution

[bi2rivers]

Just a note to the bi curious out there. It's wonderful your thinking about making the move to see how it is with another man. It can be awesome when your both into what the other is but take this to heart. Be very careful when talking to someone. Get to know the person as much as you can. Sadly there are those out there who prey on others and the news is full of people who have been hurt through others who have nothing better to do. I have come close a couple of times. At the last minute they tipped their hand before the meeting took place. I was taught by a very close friend a few years back and have met one other online but only after we chatted for quite some time. Hope this helps in some way and not frightens you off. We only have one life so lets do it right and get some great times out of it.

 

[sixstring199]

I could not agree more. Thanks for the help you may have given others.

 

[bi2rivers]

your welcome sixstring. I like to help where and when I can. I think we all should make it as safe as possible when we can

 

[tuxgurl]

Thank you for your words of caution, there are unbelievably sick people in the world, who love causing harm to others.


Aimee

 

[bi2rivers]

yes there are and they seem to get bolder all the time. We cannot be too careful. but sure is nice when we find one that isn't

 

[tuxgurl]

yes there are and they seem to get bolder all the time. We cannot be too careful. but sure is nice when we find one that isn't

That hasn't happened for me yet. Though I'm a little different than most. Sort of precariously balanced between two genders. Not a comfortable place. I'm tired of being alone though, so that's forcing me out of my shell a little, dangerous as that may be.

 

[bi2rivers]

i can see where being between would be hard. Though comming out no doubt is dangerous. Extra caution is always needed. Even for someone not going thru what u are it doesn't matter to some. there are those out there look for a target no matter what

 

[tuxgurl]

i can see where being between would be hard. Though comming out no doubt is dangerous. Extra caution is always needed. Even for someone not going thru what u are it doesn't matter to some. there are those out there look for a target no matter what

Yeah, some people are very insecure with their sexuality and are very threatened by those of us that are different. You be safe as well.

 

[ravenholm]

Certainly a good point and a word of caution I take to heart.


... however my issue is finding people at all lol.

 

[tuxgurl]

Certainly a good point and a word of caution I take to heart.


... however my issue is finding people at all lol.

I know how you feel. It's frightening how lonely I can feel sometimes. I'm making a few friends here though, and being able to talk to someone helps, about anything.

 

[Jander1]

I know how you feel. It's frightening how lonely I can feel sometimes. I'm making a few friends here though, and being able to talk to someone helps, about anything.

Hey tux gurl, We all need friends who we can talk to and they will not be so judgemental. Like just cause I want to experiement with guys does not make me a wimp or somehow less manly. This is particularly true here in the bible belt "Hoosier" state. Hope u got my e-mail.

 

[bi2rivers]

Your right jander1. Only you can make yourself feel less manly. Less manly has nothing to do with being bi, gay, lez, tg or cd. When a person knows what they enjoy and no one gets hurt then there is no issue except by those who stand on the sidelines and judge everyone they consider lower then themselves.

 

[tuxgurl]

I have and thank you. You are very sweet. I'd say you're more of a man than you can imagine.

Hey tux gurl, We all need friends who we can talk to and they will not be so judgemental. Like just cause I want to experiement with guys does not make me a wimp or somehow less manly. This is particularly true here in the bible belt "Hoosier" state. Hope u got my e-mail.