Hi A/all!
I didn't really know how to name this thread, so I apologize if the title is mis-leading. I have been with my partner for 5½ years now and lifestyle has been a part of our life. For the last two years my partner has been going through some personal stuff and has not been interested in anything relating to lifestyle. We had almost 1½ years period when we had nothing sexual in our relationship either.
I've gone through a rainbow of feelings many times over in the past two years, but I think the biggest emotional turmoil has started to pass and I'm seeing the situation a bit more clearly now. I understand that when we chose to be together, I made a commitment to my partner and I wished her path to be mine in this life. I still wish to serve her, but I don't know how. Ive been trying to find the answer from inside, but it seems to be hard. I feel at loss without her direction in our relationship.
Has anyone been in a similiar situation? How have you supported your dominant partner and your relationship in a situation like this?
I didn't really know how to name this thread, so I apologize if the title is mis-leading. I have been with my partner for 5½ years now and lifestyle has been a part of our life. For the last two years my partner has been going through some personal stuff and has not been interested in anything relating to lifestyle. We had almost 1½ years period when we had nothing sexual in our relationship either.
I've gone through a rainbow of feelings many times over in the past two years, but I think the biggest emotional turmoil has started to pass and I'm seeing the situation a bit more clearly now. I understand that when we chose to be together, I made a commitment to my partner and I wished her path to be mine in this life. I still wish to serve her, but I don't know how. Ive been trying to find the answer from inside, but it seems to be hard. I feel at loss without her direction in our relationship.
Has anyone been in a similiar situation? How have you supported your dominant partner and your relationship in a situation like this?