Mouth, Swallowing -vs- marking my body w/his release...

[funkygreeneyedlady]

Okay, first off, I love going down on my husband, it turns me on immensely, I could spend hours sucking on his cock and feeling it in my mouth... I love the feeling it does to me to know I'm doing all that to him... the noises, the thrill of making him harder as I suck, like, kiss... just literally get lost in the moment....
I have always enjoyed and I really like the idea that when he cums he's 'marking' me, making me his in the most extremely intimate way possible... I really get off and have found myself always aroused by pleasing my man....

the problem? I have never gotten to a place where I can successfully take his cum into my mouth.... I try and I REALLY want to, but, here's the thing... I have issues with anything that reminds me of sputum, snot, boogers.... etc. (I think you get what I am saying?) I use to work in the medical field and I could handle blood, guts, you name it, but the minute someone sneezed or I had to do any kind of collection of said fluids it took everything inside me to not lose my lunch. I am sorry for being gross, but, need for you to understand where I'm coming from.

So... any ways, I really would like to find a 'happy place' or figure out a way to overcome this issue... I want to swallow... I am eager and attempt to do this for him and find myself losing nerve as he nears and trying to figure out my mind over matter B.S. and I get angry at myself... I attempt and sometimes can manage to keep my mouth wrapped around him long enough to for him to cum, however, my mind starts to take over and I have to literally fight not to gag, and it's definitely not something I want to do and my husband is kind about it all... and I excuse myself to go and spit... UGH! He's kind about it all, but, I know he would be thrilled if I could swallow...

so after that long winded post... anyone got suggestions? Comments? whatever? I would appreciate them all! thanks for reading!

 

[intothewoods]

I have similar issues with bodily fluids, although the swallowing cum isn't typically a problem. For a while (for whatever reason) it was, and I just sort of retrained my mind with happy thoughts to disassociate the swallowing with the nausea. After the first swallow you can keep down, you'll find it will get easier. However, I didn't start out with the aversion you have, so that will make it more challenging. Does drinking a little wine help? Maybe distract yourself somehow. And I would also recommend you take it all down -- there's less to taste.

 

[rosco rathbone]

If you do it right, most of it should go down the hatch without ever touching the mouth.

 

[Lizzie_Borden]

If you do it right, most of it should go down the hatch without ever touching the mouth.

There's no fun in that though, Mr Rosco!




And sorry OP, I've nothing constructive for you, except sympathy! I hope you get some good advice.

 

[rosco rathbone]

There's no fun in that though, Mr Rosco!




And sorry OP, I've nothing constructive for you, except sympathy! I hope you get some good advice.

A talented oralist swirls the cum around inside her mouth like fine wine to appreciate the bouquet...hints of tobacco, creosote, apricot and DNA, with an amino-acid nose and an ecstatic finish.

 

[johnie40uk]

Fill your mouth with saliva, that used to work for me.

 

[SirLeo]

Swallowing is great but so are other things. My wfe has/had the same problem as you. So she makes up for it by being such a hot little fucktoy cumslut in so many other ways. She is a superb felatrix. Se often indulges My desire to paint her face, breasts, thighs, (you get the picture). Never thought of it as marking specifically, but now that you mention it, I guess that is part of the intense pleasure I get from cumming all over her and then looking at her. As time has gone by she has gotten better at dealing with and now even enjoying having me cum in her mouth and then uses the cum to rub into her breasts, pussy an ass. Perhpas one day soon she'll swallow, but frankly I really don't care.

So in the end, my advice is, don't worry about it, keep hubby happy in other ways and you all will be just fine!

 

[TypicalDeviant]

Have you thought of licking his cum off of him or your fingers? That way you can control your intake...

 

[JMohegan]

A talented oralist swirls the cum around inside her mouth like fine wine to appreciate the bouquet...hints of tobacco, creosote, apricot and DNA, with an amino-acid nose and an ecstatic finish.

Creosote? Really?

so after that long winded post... anyone got suggestions? Comments? whatever? I would appreciate them all! thanks for reading!

I would treat this as a direct challenge, and devise some combination of pleasurable association and/or negative consequence to overcome your aversion. Passively accepting your refusal is just not in my nature.

Of course, I'm not your husband. So my fallback response is: If this doesn't bother him, then it shouldn't bother you. Find something else to worry about.

 

[rosco rathbone]

Creosote? Really?


I would treat this as a direct challenge, and devise some combination of pleasurable association and/or negative consequence to overcome your aversion. Passively accepting your refusal is just not in my nature.

Of course, I'm not your husband. So my fallback response is: If this doesn't bother him, then it shouldn't bother you. Find something else to worry about.

Pinching the nose shut like forcing a dog to take a pill works.

 

[JMohegan]

Pinching the nose shut like forcing a dog to take a pill works.

Sounds efficient! But does it cut the odds of repeat engagement?

 

[rosco rathbone]

Sounds efficient! But does it cut the odds of repeat engagement?

Do you want a repeat engagement with a non swallower?

 

[JMohegan]

Do you want a repeat engagement with a non swallower?

Haha, no. But if she brings sufficient positives in other areas, I'd at least try to correct the flaw. Give her a chance to mend her ways, as it were.

 

[rosco rathbone]

Haha, no. But if she brings sufficient positives in other areas, I'd at least try to correct the flaw. Give her a chance to mend her ways, as it were.

I'm real dubious about a non swallower. Accepting my essence into her body is key with me.

 

[Kikori]

Have you thought of licking his cum off of him or your fingers? That way you can control your intake...

Problem lies in that it doesn't 'mark' her mouth this way.

 

[JMohegan]

I'm real dubious about a non swallower. Accepting my essence into her body is key with me.

Dubious that the aversion is truly involuntary, or dubious as to whether the aversion could be successfully overcome?

 

[rosco rathbone]

Dubious that the aversion is truly involuntary, or dubious as to whether the aversion could be successfully overcome?

Just dubious that I'm going to get along with someone who has a hard time satisfying me in a way that's important to me.

 

[neci]

smear His dick in honey, then drink the nectar. don't think of it as sticky live sperm. it's dessert. enjoy it. savor it. just go in there and decide you are going to enjoy yourself down to the last drop. if you find yourself stalling, remember that this is what you want. what you need. drink it. let the contractions in the back of your throat milk it. relax. feel His body shake. lick clean.

 

[rosco rathbone]

sticky live sperm.

ahaha, like something you'd take home from the pet store in a ziploc bag.

drink it. let the contractions in the back of your throat milk it

Can I get a witness?!

 

[Kojote]

Trying to view sperm a different way might work.
And arguably sperm is not 'waste' like sputum or snot.
It's a special form of lifeblood.

At least you can try to convince yourself.

 

[JMohegan]

Just dubious that I'm going to get along with someone who has a hard time satisfying me in a way that's important to me.

Makes sense, though I believe that this particular skill can be taught.

She needs the right attitude, though. Without that, the whole thing's a nonstarter.

 

[neci]

ahaha, like something you'd take home from the pet store in a ziploc bag.

frog food.

 

[JMohegan]

frog food.

I don't think this is helping!

 

[TypicalDeviant]

Problem lies in that it doesn't 'mark' her mouth this way.

He can blast her across the face all well and good and messy (you know, with droplets in her eye lashes, a bit in her hair, something on and/or in her ear, then she can take her right index finger (as her left hand is still holding his cock), rub his jizz into her face a little bit and then lick her finger clean. As she gets used to it, she can lick up more and more.

 

[neci]

I don't think this is helping!

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