Public (cyber) sex

[THROBBS]

Are you experienced?

Because I am.

It was pretty hot...and hard (in both ways). Without using a cam, just typing in a café, we had some amazing virtual sex. She was elsewhere. I felt conspicuous with my erection pressing against my jeans while I sat at a tall table. I did my best to keep a semi-neutral expression as I became dizzy with desire.

I'll have to figure a way to illustrate this one. Also need to finish what was started!

Or...the partner with privacy uses a web cam.
That would be a test of my... restraint.

Or... two in the same café... same table or across the room. <That would be killer foreplay!

Yes, that could be totally hot (for me)...
getting written feed-back/descriptions, a cam view and an across-the-room view!
Some "inadvertent" flashing.... dropped spoon> look down blouse.
a wink, a grin, a lip lick.

hmmmm she could wear a loose sundress... (with nipple flash)
or a tight topped/plunging sundress... (with cleavage flash)
difficult to choose. Seems like a multi-day experiment.


(1st posted on the General Board. I think it isn't acidic enough)

(Sunday, April 28, 2024) I was reminded of this subject and thought, "ah! I had a thread on that topic!"

 

[THROBBS]

Well, at least the response was not snide.

(A case of; Momma always said, "if you can't say anything nice, don't say anything at all" ?)

 

[TheMysticMan]

Haha. Well I was going to reply. But it would have been something like:

"Haha, interesting ideas." Which is a bit lacking.

Erm. But yeah, it was an amusing read for sure, and it would be pretty hot. Somewhat lame for forplay, but still really sexy.

Personally I wouldn't be able to handle it when someone read a snippet of my dirty talking over my shoulder, I hate moments like that. No excuses, just shame.

 

[THROBBS]

Hahaha! I appreciate SOME response.

There IS the risk of someone reading, true..I suppose that is part of the thrill of being in public....yet not so risky as physical sex.

"lame" as foreplay? Perhaps, if that was ALL there was, but many women at least claim that if you stimulate their minds first... the rest follows. I have found there is truth to that.

 

[TheMysticMan]

Indeed. I do too, but I also believe they'd rather we didn't do it through some cyber wires.
You can stimulate the mind in the physical reality too.

And yeah, I don't really get risky sex. But I think that's just because I'm a pussy.

 

[THROBBS]

Indeed. I do too, but I also believe they'd rather we didn't do it through some cyber wires.
You can stimulate the mind in the physical reality too.

And yeah, I don't really get risky sex. But I think that's just because I'm a pussy.

Sure, most women would maybe rather it was done in person... I am not suggesting that this concept if the end all or for every time.

I think it just makes for an interesting option.

Imagine she is at the café, by herself, and perhaps you walk by and see her through the window.... so you surreptitiously enter the café and take a table where you can watch her, but she does not see you... right away. THEN begin the flirtation.. escalating the content and raising the temperature.

Internet, text, phones, snail mail, bulletin boards (cork ones), post-it notes all can be tools to arousal.


I'm not big into seriously risky sex... just added concept of risk. I certainly do not want to frighten the horses, little old ladies or young children.
Or get arrested!

 

[TheMysticMan]

Haha yeah. No I'd love to try it for sure. Would be hot.

 

[Raindear816]

Haha yeah. No I'd love to try it for sure. Would be hot.

I agree

 

[THROBBS]

it was good for me.

I will be happy exploring variations of the same theme.

 

[TheJestersAdvocate]

Something that is definitely erotic when you think about it and depending on the relationship, could be used to help bring back some spice into it.

And what to do when things get too hot and bothersome for the cafe? Don't forget your power cords.

 

[THROBBS]

Something that is definitely erotic when you think about it and depending on the relationship, could be used to help bring back some spice into it.

And what to do when things get too hot and bothersome for the cafe? Don't forget your power cords.

PowerBook outa there!

 

[TheJestersAdvocate]

PowerBook outa there!

Just don't poke anyone or trip over anything on the way out.

 

[cookiejar]

It's all fun and games till someone puts an eye out!

 

[THROBBS]

Just don't poke anyone or trip over anything on the way out.

Yes, of course! That would be rude (poking)! And potentially embarrassing (either).
Luckily, my laptop goes in an aluminum case.. to be carried in front of any offending members.

 

[TheJestersAdvocate]

It's all fun and games till someone puts an eye out!

And in some cases, it's also indecent exposure.

Yes, of course! That would be rude (poking)! And potentially embarrassing (either).
Luckily, my laptop goes in an aluminum case.. to be carried in front of any offending members.

Fancy schmany case man.

That's all I got there.

 

[THROBBS]

And in some cases, it's also indecent exposure.

Fancy schmany case man.

That's all I got there.

Hmmm.. I dunno... *looking down* I think it's pretty decent!

I cum prepared!

(actually, I NEED a heavy duty, nearly "bullet proof" case... As I am hard-on my tools)

 

[bcbigbadwolf]

I would love to try this at a coffee shop. It would be amazing foreplay. I don't think I would care who was watching us or looking over my shoulder. All my attention would be on her and only her until we both could not take anymore and had to sneak off to the bathroom of the coffee shop.

 

[THROBBS]

GENIUS, Big Bad!
The bathroom! duh.

And in the café that I was in.... that could work pretty well, they are clean and men's and women's are tucked back in the same area behind the "bar". Sweet.

 

[TheMysticMan]

Hehe, it seems people often don't post until someone else gets the ball rolling. Someone's gotta take the initiative, then all the sheep follow. Haha, oh, what a leader I am!

THROBBS: Sounds like you need to find a horny vixen to take along, do some sexy semi-public cyber teasing, and then fuck her silly in the toilets. Good luck my friend.

 

[MarkSand]

Starbuck's would never be the same. Sidelong glances across a crowded room...

 

[PostEroticLusts]

I always wonder what they're doing when I see people with their laptops in the coffee shop at my local Barnes & Noble. Now I know

 

[corks25]

That sounds like soooo much fun. I need to go get myself a laptop....

 

[THROBBS]

Related to this topic—

Is (for me) creating erotic drawings in public, like a café.

I have not done this in quite a while, but the thrill would be a bit of "exhibitionism", by selectively allowing someone (a woman I might fancy) to catch a peek of the image. This is, of course less risky (or illegal) as flashing.

To have the right circumstances and a willing participant is extremely unlikely.

One can hope.

 

[LWulf]

*gives award for most revived dead threads to Throbbs*

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Maybe its the way I'm jaded, but chatting in a public place via text wouldnt embarrass me. Nor would it really bother me to be seen with a stiffy (unless it was by a child). If someone looks over and spies on what I was writing, then this wouldnt upset me too much, aside from their being excessively nosy.

That said, I've never done texting in a coffee shop, but I have written (part of) a book in a bar, and while the servers were curious to what I was writing, they didnt peek over my shoulder, though one asked if she could read it when I was done.

I kind of like the idea of doing a drawing in a public place. I knew a guy who used to do (sexual) caricatures in public and even hawked their services at the establishment. Doing such would be rather obvious, so perhaps a digital drawing with a wacom would be a little more personable???

 

[THROBBS]

Speaking of — reviving dead threads!

I have not had "the pleasure in ages"... maybe since I first posted this. hmmmm...


Not soliciting. Just remembering. I need to have a good connection, and a good connection (wifi) for everything to click.