The Isolated Blurt BDSM Thread

[chy_girl]

I thought we were his new buddies...?

I think Syd was talking about IRL buddies. The one's you can get a drink with or go play pool. Or discuss the best leather for floggers and set each other on fire, in come cases.

That kind of thing.

 

[FloggingMolly]

chy_girl~ hope it all goes well and quickly!

 

[Keroin]

this fascinates me. i don't know why, but i really want to see the pictures now.

It is quite fascinating, actually. The whole culture up there is really interesting. The dead bodies look more like mummies than anything else, because of the lack of oxygen and cold temperatures. And the shifting terrain is amazing. They have to move their tents at base camp a few times during the two months they stay there because the ground beneath them is constantly moving.

I'll see if I can get a few of the photos. They're not at all gory.

 

[Bi_Kitty]

I haz interview, I haz interview, I haz interview!!!!!!!!!!! *squeals*

(Now just let me get job.)

 

[Cattypuss]

I thought I was 100% heterosexual until I saw Bi Kitty's new AV.

 

[chy_girl]

chy_girl~ hope it all goes well and quickly!

Thanks Molly. It doesn't look like it's going to be moving any faster and the scheduling conflicts are staying the same

They did offer me pain pills in exchange for my stopping the 2,000mg dosage of Tylenol.

 

[neci]

It is quite fascinating, actually. The whole culture up there is really interesting. The dead bodies look more like mummies than anything else, because of the lack of oxygen and cold temperatures. And the shifting terrain is amazing. They have to move their tents at base camp a few times during the two months they stay there because the ground beneath them is constantly moving.

I'll see if I can get a few of the photos. They're not at all gory.

oh neato. i confess, as soon as i read your post, i had to google dead bodies on mount everest. the shifting terrain sounds wild. i took a bus through guatemala once, and we got really close to active smoking volcanoes. it was oddly peaceful. there is a thread over on the GB that you might enjoy cruising through: "Because it's there."
man. my passport is getting dusty. i've been getting my travel kicks from books lately, and it makes me want more.

 

[Netzach]

It is quite fascinating, actually. The whole culture up there is really interesting. The dead bodies look more like mummies than anything else, because of the lack of oxygen and cold temperatures. And the shifting terrain is amazing. They have to move their tents at base camp a few times during the two months they stay there because the ground beneath them is constantly moving.

I'll see if I can get a few of the photos. They're not at all gory.

I vote we let the Sherpas decide for once. Jesus.

 

[Daddy2mylilgirl]

Quite aside from whether their complaints have any merit, that they collectively thought the appropriate way to deal with it was not to say anything about it but instead exclude me is rather ridiculous. And "stifled, dismissed me" is absolutely right - really, why do I want to be with people who take the piss out of me all the time and then whine I'm being insulting when I return fire?

Yeah. Fuck that.

One thing I heard a long time ago was that by the time you graduate college you'll be able to count on one hand the amount of good friends you have.

Figure out which ones have your back and you have theirs and fuck the rest.

 

[Keroin]

oh neato. i confess, as soon as i read your post, i had to google dead bodies on mount everest. the shifting terrain sounds wild. i took a bus through guatemala once, and we got really close to active smoking volcanoes. it was oddly peaceful. there is a thread over on the GB that you might enjoy cruising through: "Because it's there."
man. my passport is getting dusty. i've been getting my travel kicks from books lately, and it makes me want more.

Thanks for the link, Neci! Had a brief skim through, maybe I'll post some time down the road. Having a world class mountaineer as one of my best buddies means I get all my mountain/climbing questions answered in real time

And I'm seriously considering the trek to base camp some time in the next two years.

Get out that passport, I say! Go! Go!

I vote we let the Sherpas decide for once. Jesus.

Ah, the politics of Everest, always interesting...and confusing.

Funny story, my friend once flew one of their Sherpa's over here for a visit and she took him to a thrift store so he could shop for clothes for him and his family. While he was looking through the racks, the owner of the shop came over and started chatting with B, who told her the whole story about the Sherpa and his life and blah, blah, blah. Well, the woman was so touched that when the Sherpa brought the huge bundle of clothes to the counter she told him it was all free.

He looked at B, amazed, and said, "I see why you live in Canada, this is best kind of store ever!"

 

[MisterSir]

OK. Thanks to everybody who's come in with comments on my previous stuff, it's appreciated, but now I'm going to bury it and move on to something much more positive that I need input on.

So, there's this girl. I met her at the first munch I went to, so I've known her for about four months now, and I liked her pretty much from day 1. We emailed back and forth a fair bit and saw one another a couple more times before I made the error of suggesting we get together, on a strictly vanilla basis, and see if things went anywhere. I think I may have told this story before. Anyway, she said no, and I let it pass. No biggie. Now she's talking about meeting up before munches and doing exactly what I originally suggested we do.

Analysis. Thoughts. Trenchant comments. I'll take anything at this point, this girl confuses me.

 

[ultramarineblue]

OK. Thanks to everybody who's come in with comments on my previous stuff, it's appreciated, but now I'm going to bury it and move on to something much more positive that I need input on.

So, there's this girl. I met her at the first munch I went to, so I've known her for about four months now, and I liked her pretty much from day 1. We emailed back and forth a fair bit and saw one another a couple more times before I made the error of suggesting we get together, on a strictly vanilla basis, and see if things went anywhere. I think I may have told this story before. Anyway, she said no, and I let it pass. No biggie. Now she's talking about meeting up before munches and doing exactly what I originally suggested we do.

Analysis. Thoughts. Trenchant comments. I'll take anything at this point, this girl confuses me.

How long has she been going to munches? Long before you or starting around the same time? She may have been getting to know you some more. If she is new to the whole scene, it may just be that everything was pretty overwhelming and she needed time to adjust to it all. Enjoy and don't have expectations. Expectations often lead to disappointment.

 

[Evil_Geoff]

So, there's this girl. I met her at the first munch I went to, so I've known her for about four months now, ... Now she's talking about meeting up before munches and doing exactly what I originally suggested we do.

Analysis. Thoughts. Trenchant comments. I'll take anything at this point, this girl confuses me.

Dude, it's called "scoping the guy out." You know, like checking out what your buds say about you, watching you and how you treat people (over time) on the sly so you don't know you are being watched (and therefore won't be putting on a show). It's spending enough time around you to get a feel for how you are as a person.

It's a good thing, usually.

Either that or she found a pic of your dick somewhere and she wants it. You can go with the option that suits you.

 

[Keroin]

OK. Thanks to everybody who's come in with comments on my previous stuff, it's appreciated, but now I'm going to bury it and move on to something much more positive that I need input on.

So, there's this girl. I met her at the first munch I went to, so I've known her for about four months now, and I liked her pretty much from day 1. We emailed back and forth a fair bit and saw one another a couple more times before I made the error of suggesting we get together, on a strictly vanilla basis, and see if things went anywhere. I think I may have told this story before. Anyway, she said no, and I let it pass. No biggie. Now she's talking about meeting up before munches and doing exactly what I originally suggested we do.

Analysis. Thoughts. Trenchant comments. I'll take anything at this point, this girl confuses me.

Well, my first thought when I read this was that this girl was probably a communist spy. Your advances would have compromised her very important and dangerous mission, so she waved you off. Now, however, her lust cannot be contained and, mission be damned, she is willing to risk it all to be with you. Heck, you might even convince her to become a double agent.

For the good of democracy and the free world, I say go for it.

 

[Homburg]

OK. Thanks to everybody who's come in with comments on my previous stuff, it's appreciated, but now I'm going to bury it and move on to something much more positive that I need input on.

So, there's this girl. I met her at the first munch I went to, so I've known her for about four months now, and I liked her pretty much from day 1. We emailed back and forth a fair bit and saw one another a couple more times before I made the error of suggesting we get together, on a strictly vanilla basis, and see if things went anywhere. I think I may have told this story before. Anyway, she said no, and I let it pass. No biggie. Now she's talking about meeting up before munches and doing exactly what I originally suggested we do.

Analysis. Thoughts. Trenchant comments. I'll take anything at this point, this girl confuses me.

How long has she been going to munches? Long before you or starting around the same time? She may have been getting to know you some more. If she is new to the whole scene, it may just be that everything was pretty overwhelming and she needed time to adjust to it all. Enjoy and don't have expectations. Expectations often lead to disappointment.

What UMB said, with more words.

And what Evil_Geoff said too.

People move at their own pace sometimes. Honestly, all of the best relationships that I've had started out after a solid period of friendship.

 

[MisterSir]

Either that or she found a pic of your dick somewhere and she wants it. You can go with the option that suits you.

I'm told it has girth. Not really sure what to make of that. So long as nobody ever tells me it's a good size, I'm cool. It may just have been that she saw me suiting up and decided she must have me. Which is also cool.

How long has she been going to munches? Long before you or starting around the same time?

Longer than I have. I think at least six months now, probably more.

For the good of democracy and the free world, I say go for it.

If that be the case, Commander, I say this: Get me an ushanka. I'm going in.

Dude, it's called "scoping the guy out." You know, like checking out what your buds say about you, watching you and how you treat people (over time) on the sly so you don't know you are being watched (and therefore won't be putting on a show). It's spending enough time around you to get a feel for how you are as a person.

This is what I'm hoping.

Something I didn't mention before because I didn't think it was relevant: my mentor/fuckbuddy/really quite good friend (medium-length story for another time), about a month or so into things, got in touch with this girl - they obviously knew one another before I came into the picture - and asked her whether she'd be cool being a rope bunny for me to learn some ropework on. Apparently, this girl's answer was a pretty flat "no". Now, I didn't learn this until a few weeks ago, but it cemented what I'd originally been thinking. How does this fit into the picture?

 

[FungiUg]

So I always wondered with blood tests. Is it pass/fail depending on whether you actually have blood?

And I remember a nurse telling me (over the phone) about the results of one of my tests... "You have really good haemoglobin." Dammit, did I miss an opportunity there? She might have been y'know, a hot horny kinky nurse...

 

[ultramarineblue]

Something I didn't mention before because I didn't think it was relevant: my mentor/fuckbuddy/really quite good friend (medium-length story for another time), about a month or so into things, got in touch with this girl - they obviously knew one another before I came into the picture - and asked her whether she'd be cool being a rope bunny for me to learn some ropework on. Apparently, this girl's answer was a pretty flat "no". Now, I didn't learn this until a few weeks ago, but it cemented what I'd originally been thinking. How does this fit into the picture?

Ummmm.... she doesn't like rope or she didn't want someone she didn't know tying her up especially if it wasn't at a play party or with other people she knew around.

Besides her answer may be different now.

 

[neci]

a communist spy who found the dick pictures. i like her already.

 

[graceanne]

OK. Thanks to everybody who's come in with comments on my previous stuff, it's appreciated, but now I'm going to bury it and move on to something much more positive that I need input on.

So, there's this girl. I met her at the first munch I went to, so I've known her for about four months now, and I liked her pretty much from day 1. We emailed back and forth a fair bit and saw one another a couple more times before I made the error of suggesting we get together, on a strictly vanilla basis, and see if things went anywhere. I think I may have told this story before. Anyway, she said no, and I let it pass. No biggie. Now she's talking about meeting up before munches and doing exactly what I originally suggested we do.

Analysis. Thoughts. Trenchant comments. I'll take anything at this point, this girl confuses me.

I was gonna say something along the lines of what EG said, but I like Keroin's answer better.

 

[graceanne]

a communist spy who found the dick pictures. i like her already.

She'd fit in around here really well, doncha think.

 

[Keroin]

I was gonna say something along the lines of what EG said, but I like Keroin's answer better.

See, what reads as my unrestrained self-confidence is actually, in fact, my ability to create and believe in fantastical-yet-compelling delusions.

"It's not that he didn't like me, it's just that he is in the witness protection program and doesn't want to draw me into the sordid mess of a life he has created. Poor guy."

Welcome to K's happy world!

 

[Daddy2mylilgirl]

So, there's this girl. I met her at the first munch I went to, so I've known her for about four months now, and I liked her pretty much from day 1. We emailed back and forth a fair bit and saw one another a couple more times before I made the error of suggesting we get together, on a strictly vanilla basis, and see if things went anywhere. I think I may have told this story before. Anyway, she said no, and I let it pass. No biggie. Now she's talking about meeting up before munches and doing exactly what I originally suggested we do.

Analysis. Thoughts. Trenchant comments. I'll take anything at this point, this girl confuses me.

Something I didn't mention before because I didn't think it was relevant: my mentor/fuckbuddy/really quite good friend (medium-length story for another time), about a month or so into things, got in touch with this girl - they obviously knew one another before I came into the picture - and asked her whether she'd be cool being a rope bunny for me to learn some ropework on. Apparently, this girl's answer was a pretty flat "no". Now, I didn't learn this until a few weeks ago, but it cemented what I'd originally been thinking. How does this fit into the picture?

I would say she sounds like a cautious girl. Maybe that's why she didn't want to be your rope bunny or be in a relationship with you. Maybe also she didn't want a vanilla relationship at the time but wanted to explore a BDSM relationship instead. (not specifically with you but in general)

She could have noticed how you've grown as a Dom over the past few months and liked what she saw. (you never know ) Also, getting to know you better might have helped too.

I would say don't drive yourself crazy over-analyzing everything. Just hang out, have fun, get to know her better, and whatever happens, happens.

If you two are meant to be then hopefully it will happen. Otherwise just have fun.

 

[chy_girl]

*sigh*
Outlining every insecurity in the subbie journal is not something I look forward to. It is, however, a "have to" that is becoming increasingly clear.

Frankly, I'd much rather just curl up at their feet in that little bubble of safe that they make and have a good long cry.

 

[ultramarineblue]

There is a difference between hear and here. Someone with a high school diploma should at least know the difference. Sadly, it isn't always so.