Being tricked?

[no_morals]

I have talking to this sub and recently some things happened the have confused me to how truthful she is. Things have happened very unusually and I am starting to thing that she is a one of the people who just leads along guys. I would like some people's opinion on this. Also, is it fine to be a dom and be caring or should I quit being one and just be normal?

 

[satindesire]

I have talking to this sub and recently some things happened the have confused me to how truthful she is. Things have happened very unusually and I am starting to thing that she is a one of the people who just leads along guys. I would like some people's opinion on this.

Well, you didn't give us a whole lot of information to go on. What's she done that's made you believe she could be lying to you?

 

[no_morals]

Well, you didn't give us a whole lot of information to go on. What's she done that's made you believe she could be lying to you?

Well, we met two days ago and already wants to be my permanent slave. She says she has a friend that now wants to be my slave as well. Today they said that they both like each other and will be in a relationship and are fine with me being their boyfriend. They suddenly got off with a message from "someone" saying that the girls were going to be fine and the "guy" and his friends were just going to use her. The man is apparently one of the girls' brother and brought his friends over. He supposedly have pictures of them and the girls have no choice in this.

 

[DeepGreenEyes]

Sounds like they're pouring you a big ol' bowl of Crazy Flakes®.

 

[no_morals]

Sounds like they're pouring you a big ol' bowl of Crazy Flakes®.

I know. I don't want to believe that they are lying as a master but the things are too sudden for the validity to not be questioned. Supposedly the original girls father overheard them while they were talking and wanted to use her with her mother when they came back at the end of the weekend.

 

[no_morals]

Is it fine to be emotional (as in caring) when you are a dom or should I stop being a dom/master because I am caring?

 

[DeepGreenEyes]

I know. I don't want to believe that they are lying as a master but the things are too sudden for the validity to not be questioned. Supposedly the original girls father overheard them while they were talking and wanted to use her with her mother when they came back at the end of the weekend.

In horror movies, this is where you die. Get out of the house. Now.

Is it fine to be emotional (as in caring) when you are a dom or should I stop being a dom/master because I am caring?

If you're aroused by dominance, and you're caring, then you're a caring dominant. Contrary to some opinion, D≠asshat. But you do need to find the right sub for your style. While one of these girls might be it, you'll never know, because they're either unstable or yanking your chain.

 

[no_morals]

Now something new to it. She supposedly talked the people out of it because she is going to suck and have sex with two animals in front of the guys and then suck them off. Its starting to sound more unbelievable.

 

[DeepGreenEyes]

Now something new to it. She supposedly talked the people out of it because she is going to suck and have sex with two animals in front of the guys and then suck them off. Its starting to sound more unbelievable.

Now you're yanking our chains. I'm getting out of the house. Now.

 

[satindesire]

Well, we met two days ago and already wants to be my permanent slave.

Two days does not a relationship make. She's either batshit crazy or putting you on, neither prospect sounds healthy for you in the long run.

Rather than being taken in by the prospect of sex and the possibility of a relationship, put your brakes on and tell this girl to come over, ALONE, to some place PUBLIC for a chat.

You need to talk to her. BADLY. Figure out what's real and what's not. And tell her that she needs to slow her roll. You probably don't even know her middle name, let alone enough about her to make your 'relationship' permanent.

Relationships, especially ones with such intricate rules and regs like D/s relationships, take time to grow. You have to get to know each other before you can just jump into something as important as a REAL-LIFE D/s relationship.

Ask her questions. Ask them multiple times, get PROOF of what she's saying. Don't let her draw you into this whirlwind of crazy without becoming aware of what's going to happen and what's going on in her life.

She says she has a friend that now wants to be my slave as well. Today they said that they both like each other and will be in a relationship and are fine with me being their boyfriend.

Have you met this friend? If you haven't, then you need to. She can't decide for you who you're in a relationship with, especially since SHE is supposed to be the submissive person in this 'relationship'. If you are okay with her dating other people, that's fine, but two days of knowing someone isn't really long enough to put down all the rules of what you expect of her. Did you TELL her that it was okay for her to date other people?! DO -you- want to date other people, or just her?

They suddenly got off with a message from "someone" saying that the girls were going to be fine and the "guy" and his friends were just going to use her.

Okay, what "guy" and what "friends" are you talking about? You need to elaborate on this.

The man is apparently one of the girls' brother and brought his friends over.

To do what? And since you're supposed to be the "Dominant" partner in your "relationship", have you okayed the girl being around other men?

He supposedly have pictures of them and the girls have no choice in this.

So blackmail is illegal, you know that, right? I am starting to get highly suspicious the more I read this "story" that your "girlfriend/slave" is making up a VERY fake and not even slightly believeable story just to cause drama or something.

 

[no_morals]

Now you're yanking our chains. I'm getting out of the house. Now.

I'm not joking. None of that was a lie on my part.

 

[no_morals]

Two days does not a relationship make. She's either batshit crazy or putting you on, neither prospect sounds healthy for you in the long run.

Rather than being taken in by the prospect of sex and the possibility of a relationship, put your brakes on and tell this girl to come over, ALONE, to some place PUBLIC for a chat.

You need to talk to her. BADLY. Figure out what's real and what's not. And tell her that she needs to slow her roll. You probably don't even know her middle name, let alone enough about her to make your 'relationship' permanent.

Relationships, especially ones with such intricate rules and regs like D/s relationships, take time to grow. You have to get to know each other before you can just jump into something as important as a REAL-LIFE D/s relationship.

Ask her questions. Ask them multiple times, get PROOF of what she's saying. Don't let her draw you into this whirlwind of crazy without becoming aware of what's going to happen and what's going on in her life.

Thank you for your response. The thing is that I don't know her as we live states apart. I was trying to have this over the internet first and then maybe meet her. I know that I need to talk to her but I doubt that she will be truthful now if she has been lying.

 

[satindesire]

Thank you for your response. The thing is that I don't know her as we live states apart. I was trying to have this over the internet first and then maybe meet her. I know that I need to talk to her but I doubt that she will be truthful now if she has been lying.

Not only can I tell you that NO sane and emotionally healthy girl would actually allow what's supposedly taking place, to actually take place, but I can also tell you that even if it DID happen, you need to remove yourself from talking to this crazy bitch ASAP.

From experience, I can promise you that you will get nothing but drama and gray hair from this "relationship" and as soon as she's bored with you, she'll vanish forever and you'll never get the chance to even know why.

 

[no_morals]

I will say this now. None of the things I have said have been lies on my part. I am thoroughly confused about what is happening because I have been involved in this for two days and it seems I have the greatest curse ever because as soon as I meet her all this shit happens. I haven't met her in real life nor do I know her before hand. I met her online her on lit and all that I have posted has been real and truthful on my part.

 

[satindesire]

I will say this now. None of the things I have said have been lies on my part. I am thoroughly confused about what is happening because I have been involved in this for two days and it seems I have the greatest curse ever because as soon as I meet her all this shit happens. I haven't met her in real life nor do I know her before hand. I met her online her on lit and all that I have posted has been real and truthful on my part.

None of us here are questioning your truthfulness. But being suspicious of her insane story is a wise choice on your part.

Please just remove yourself from this situation as soon as you possibly can. Fake submissives online can severely damage a Dom's self esteem and...You don't need this fake drama.

 

[BiBunny]

I will say this now. None of the things I have said have been lies on my part. I am thoroughly confused about what is happening because I have been involved in this for two days and it seems I have the greatest curse ever because as soon as I meet her all this shit happens. I haven't met her in real life nor do I know her before hand. I met her online her on lit and all that I have posted has been real and truthful on my part.

So stop talking to her. What's the big fucking deal?

 

[satindesire]

So stop talking to her. What's the big fucking deal?

Bunny. Was that really necessary?

 

[no_morals]

I think that I will end it. As a guy, I will not deal with this shit. I know that I should have just shut up as soon as I heard some of the things that I will not share but I decided to accept it and not think less of her.

 

[satindesire]

I think that I will run. As a guy, I will not deal with this shit. I know that I should have just shut up as soon as I heard some of the things that I will not share but I decided to accept it and not think less of her.

There you go. Good on you, son.

 

[BiBunny]

Bunny. Was that really necessary?

Yes. It was.

 

[no_morals]

There you go. Good on you, son.

Now I just need to remember how to block someone on Yahoo...

 

[satindesire]

Yes. It was.

Negativity breeds negativity, Bunny. Remember the Golden Rule. *hugs*

Now I just need to remember how to block someone on Yahoo...

Take them off your friend's list and put them on ignore. Then block her number off your phone, if you gave her your phone number. If she has your email, remember to block her there, too.

 

[DeepGreenEyes]

I'm not joking. None of that was a lie on my part.

None of us here are questioning your truthfulness.

Well, I was, actually.

But if you're really not joking, morals, then you can either ignore her, or (and this would be my preference) play her (or him, or them, or it) and see just how fucked up this will get. Even if it's fictitious (and I'm betting you twelve free posts that it is), it would be amusing to play the idiot and see where they take this. But then, I'm a little warped.

 

[satindesire]

Well, I was, actually.

Oh. I thought you were kidding.

 

[DeepGreenEyes]

Oh. I thought you were kidding.

I know. It's rare. But it does happen about every 25 posts.