I think I'm Bi-curious

[getacktive]

I think I'm Bi-curious and I would really like to talk to some people who have experienced and gone through this.
I have this fantasy that I dont have to guts to tell my girlfriend about. It starts out with us going to a gay club and getting a guy to hit on me. After some talking with a guy that both she and I approve of we would bring him home. Then she would proceed to orchestrate us in gay sex every single step we took would be her telling us what to do. Allowing him to fuck me the way he wanted to but still directing all the action. I would want everyone to be completely naked and completely waxed, not a single hair from the neck down. The whole point of the fantasy is for her to get off on me getting another dude off. I basically want to be used by the guy, suck his dick and take it in the ass have him cum in me on me basically just be his slut, and for her to be turned on by me doing all this. Also if she wanted I would eat her out as well and fuck her too but no contact with the guy and her.
I have been with my girl friend for almost 3 years and I have acquired this desire more recently I'm scared to tell her because I'm afraid of her reaction. She has a few gay friends and they have told her that when they started coming out they first came out as bi. I genuinely love girls like eating pussy is amazing an I find the female body soo hot and arousing so I really do not believe that this is just a stepping stone to coming out as gay. So basically I just would really like some feedback on those who have experienced something similar anyone guys or girls from either side. I would really appreciate any help.

 

[SilkyDave]

what you describe sounds like my description of how i felt at first...i've never told my wife as i figure she would ahve none of it and it isn't worth losing her...but that said, the desire is overpowering and i must say that your fantasy, right down to the waxed bodies is incredibly hot and kinky.....you are certainly bi-curious in my opinion, enjoy your sexuality, drop some hints to her and see if she goes for them, who knows, she might have some feeling about it already...feel free to PM if it helps

 

[mandoscot]

what you describe sounds like my description of how i felt at first...i've never told my wife as i figure she would ahve none of it and it isn't worth losing her...but that said, the desire is overpowering and i must say that your fantasy, right down to the waxed bodies is incredibly hot and kinky.....you are certainly bi-curious in my opinion, enjoy your sexuality, drop some hints to her and see if she goes for them, who knows, she might have some feeling about it already...feel free to PM if it helps

Way past curious - my first time was with a friend a few hours after we'd both fucked my GF. We were just lazing around and talking, got stroking and then I sucked him off. Never been into anal but everything else is fine by me. You need to explore and enjoy - hope you resolve your issue.

 

[getacktive]

what you describe sounds like my description of how i felt at first...i've never told my wife as i figure she would ahve none of it and it isn't worth losing her...but that said, the desire is overpowering and i must say that your fantasy, right down to the waxed bodies is incredibly hot and kinky.....you are certainly bi-curious in my opinion, enjoy your sexuality, drop some hints to her and see if she goes for them, who knows, she might have some feeling about it already...feel free to PM if it helps

So you never told her how you felt did you explore your fantasies without her or did you just never explore at all. If you did explore with out her didn't you feel guilty afterwards like you were cheating on her. If you didn't explore at all do you still think about it often does it bug you to know that your not getting that experience? As for the hints I really don't even know what to say how do I start dropping hints what would the hints be?

 

[getacktive]

Way past curious - my first time was with a friend a few hours after we'd both fucked my GF. We were just lazing around and talking, got stroking and then I sucked him off. Never been into anal but everything else is fine by me. You need to explore and enjoy - hope you resolve your issue.

Its not as easy as just explore and enjoy and Im really not down to have another guy having sex with her so I cant just do it the way you did. I think I need to tell her but i do not know how to even start

 

[getacktive]

Damn I thought I'd get a little more comments and help or suggestions from people with this. I really would like some advise or at least other people's experiences in a similar situation so I could maybe learn from your experience. It could be girls or guys I don't care just some advise would help e greatly please. :-/

 

[flex58]

I am bi-curious. Anyone in my area?

 

[bob7272]

me too horny and dying to suck cock

 

[lustatopia]

I always found it really hot, if scary to come out to a girlfriend that I'm bi. I've never had many bad experiences, although I did travel in a pretty wild circle and chose my lovers with discrimination. For instance, I'm naturally attracted to wild or bad women. The kind your friends warn you about.

Once I took a promising first date to a local theatre production where in the play two guys actual performed a gay make out scene on stage. I was as surprised as her. I didn't find it erotic at all. But she couldn't stop talking about it all evening. So I whispered to her at the appropriate moment on the couch, "I once tongue kissed a guy." It was the beginning of a very intimate, if short, relationship.

Of course, I tended to come out a bit earlier than after three years, but we all blossom in our own time. Start off slow. Be creative. Do you ever watch porn together? If not, maybe you should start. If she'll get into porn with you, it's all easy from there.

Another good trick is to let her find MFM magazines or porn on your computer...shocking at first...but they're always curious. You simply tell the truth: You were just masturbating and having kinky secret fantasies. Just harmless fantasies. Go ahead blush with shame. You'll be surprised how liberated you'll feel afterwards. It's good for the relationship too. (If things go poorly and she's utterly disgusted. Take a break, drop the topic for a week or more. I am assuming the relation is worth more than your bi fantasies. If not, then you'll have to eventually transition out of the relationship.)

This leads to the obvious question to ask her "what are her wildest most secret sexual fantasies?" A good time to get into a discussion about secret sexual fantasies is naked in bed during foreplay. Believe me you'll hear some things that will make your bi fantasies seem utterly pedestrian. After all most fantasies are just what they seem: fantasy. For instance if her secret fantasy involves sex with her big brother or dad, that's strictly fantasy. If she has fantasies about having sex with another couple or with two men, that can be arranged. Although she might want to keep it strictly fantasy. Fair enough.

Stick with the strictly bi-curious angle. After all your not all that sure what you want either. Lead her on. It's fun to tease them on, until they are practically begging you to bring home a guy.

 

[amigayorbi]

ye si am

and i love the thought of a cock in my mouth..so juicy so tasty so full....some one give it to me ..im from india...i live big cocks..and yes

i love playing with my ass...its so sensitive out there..

 

[SilkyDave]

So you never told her how you felt did you explore your fantasies without her or did you just never explore at all. If you did explore with out her didn't you feel guilty afterwards like you were cheating on her. If you didn't explore at all do you still think about it often does it bug you to know that your not getting that experience? As for the hints I really don't even know what to say how do I start dropping hints what would the hints be?

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sometimes even trolling for gay porn on the net i feel guilty, i feel bad she doesn't know but i believe she would be crushed to know i have kept this from her obviously...one friend knows and questions how it is possible that she does not suspect, i wear a hemp anklet, shave my body, and am very open about my desire for more kinky play...but she does not take those hints... i want to explore, should've before marriage of course (duh), but the feelings got so much more intense as i neared age 40. wish i didn't have regrets but alas i do