The 'ethics' of casual 'bdsm'

[FloggingMolly]

If you still wish to pursue casual 'bdsm', well, remember who it was who tried to warn you about the abuse you will endure.

This sums it up for me. Clearly, you get off on feelng smug and superior to others. 'You didn't listen to me, you got abused, and _I_ told you so. Aren't I wonderful and so much better than you?'.

And you imply that the rest of us are the ones with self-esteem issues.

 

[DeepGreenEyes]

At what point do I need to have a certain thetan level to advance in the casual BDSM community?

And where can I get an E-Meter to chart my progress?

BDS-Meter?

 

[Homburg]

The ugly truth about “casual BDSM”

*REDACTED*

You know we have to report you now. Level Three will have to hear about this.

...

Not that there is a Level Three.

FNORD.

 

[TypicalDeviant]

You know we have to report you now. Level Three will have to hear about this.

...

Not that there is a Level Three.

FNORD.

Reported for implying the existence of Level Thr~!@#$~#$$%^$%&#^

+++Transmission Lost+++

 

[midwestyankee]

You know we have to report you now. Level Three will have to hear about this.

...

Not that there is a Level Three.

FNORD.

@Hom, we'll be meeting in the Southern Star Chamber for this, correct?

 

[FloggingMolly]

I now have visions of Doms in frilly aprons...

not sure if thats hot or not...

 

[Keroin]

You know we have to report you now. Level Three will have to hear about this.

...

Not that there is a Level Three.

FNORD.

The sparrow has left the nest.

I repeat...The sparrow has left the nest.

Over.

 

[LaRocha]

And so it has been for 46 pages.

As one can expect, no one man can be heard over the howling of a lynch mob, and casual players and their advocates don't want anyone to hear me.

If you are new to the discussion and are interested in casual 'bdsm' I highly recommend this discussion to learn about the kind of dysfunctional behaviour one should expect from casual players and their advocates.

If you still wish to pursue casual 'bdsm', well, remember who it was who tried to warn you about the abuse you will endure.

You can learn the easy way, or you will learn the hard way ... either way you will learn casual 'bdsm' is synonymous with "abuse".

...

Casual BDSM isn't synonymous with "abuse" it's synonymous with casual sex. Casual sex isn't antithetical to pair-bonded sex either, it's actually congruous.

Also, you can't give a gift if no one accepts it. Has anyone accepted your gift, AllYouNeedIsLove? I don't think so. You're a blockhead.

 

[satindesire]

A troll calling a troll, a troll?

Brrriiiing briiiiing, hello kettle? This is the pot. You're black.

 

[midwestyankee]

A troll calling a troll, a troll?

Brrriiiing briiiiing, hello kettle? This is the pot. You're black.

Actually, LaRocha isn't a troll. They threw him out of the Bridge And Tollkeepers Society of Hamburg, Innsbruck, and Torino a few years ago.

 

[WriterDom]

46 pages but what he doesn't tell you is that 331 of the posts belong to him. Which would be fine if he came up with new material.

Then he wants to play nice and talk about ribbons and oak trees. Why would anyone want to fit in with a bunch of rapists and fallen women with no self esteem?

 

[sb2009]

If I run out and let some random stranger abuse me, will Bloved shut up?

 

[chy_girl]

If I run out and let some random stranger abuse me, will Bloved shut up?

Probably not. But if it the case, I'll admit to being flogged senseless week before last by a guy I've only known a few weeks. With my People's permission. While Mistress watched...


*waits to see if it worked*

 

[Keroin]

*Insert Wolfman Jack voice*

Arrrooooo! I'm here to sock it to ya, baby, with a cut from the groovy Bee Luv to his Little Sub Riding Hood...

 

[satindesire]

Actually, LaRocha isn't a troll. They threw him out of the Bridge And Tollkeepers Society of Hamburg, Innsbruck, and Torino a few years ago.

*dies laughing*

THAT is so fail. When you're such a bad troll even the trolls won't work with you.

 

[chy_girl]

Casual BDSM isn't synonymous with "abuse" it's synonymous with casual sex. Casual sex isn't antithetical to pair-bonded sex either, it's actually congruous.

Casual BDSM is not synonymous with casual sex. It is actually possible to flog someone without having sex afterward. And some of us actually use the "Thank you, that was very nice" method of acknowledging the Top's efforts.

 

[TypicalDeviant]

Casual BDSM is not synonymous with casual sex. It is actually possible to flog someone without having sex afterward. And some of us actually use the "Thank you, that was very nice" method of acknowledging the Top's efforts.

You're SO dysfunctional.

 

[chy_girl]

You're SO dysfunctional.

Perhaps. But I'm fun and can take a beating well.

*looks innocent*

 

[00Syd]

Okay. This has been fun and all, but can we stop now?

Common! My date is coming up!

 

[zarngash]

I've always wanted to be part of something bigger and dumber than me.
Now, I've posted in this thread.

Mission accomplished.
Now where did I park Air Force 1

 

[TypicalDeviant]

I've always wanted to be part of something bigger and dumber than me.
Now, I've posted in this thread.

Mission accomplished.
Now where did I park Air Force 1

I don't know, but I hope you didn't do it "casually". Or else...




...something.

 

[Stella_Omega]

I lol'ed.

ETA: Stella, this is totally off topic, but you make a REALLY hot guy.

My mad Drag King skillz are a much better topic, don't you think?

 

[satindesire]

My mad Drag King skillz are a much better topic, don't you think?

Totally! *subtly dabs drool off chin*

 

[LaRocha]

A troll calling a troll, a troll?

Brrriiiing briiiiing, hello kettle? This is the pot. You're black.

You can read my posts, I can go read yours. Guaranteed you participate in more "trolling" activity than me, Satan's Desire. We can look at the posts just in this thread, Squishy. I entertain the topic, you don't.

 

[LaRocha]

Casual BDSM is not synonymous with casual sex. It is actually possible to flog someone without having sex afterward. And some of us actually use the "Thank you, that was very nice" method of acknowledging the Top's efforts.

Any activity that can categorically be called BDSM is a sex activity. I don't understand why people have to see penis in vag, or mouth on genitalia to consider something sex. If you meet someone, they agree to flog you, you get a nice tingling between your legs, a little high in your brain, that's still sex.

The "casual" really just means engaging in some sort of mutual masturbation ie sex where your partner is seeking their own pleasure primarily and you're seeking yours. AllYouNeedIsLove thinks that's the Devil's Work, that masturbation is self-abuse, that sex is only right when your goal is in pleasuring someone else you adore religiously.