Wife is away five days Phone sex?
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HarlotMinx
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......You know it's funny, I think cheating tends to bother people who practice polyamory more than your average person. I always get annoyed as hell when I see it.
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You want phone sex for FIVE days? Damn thats one hell of a phone bill 
HarlotMinx
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So you'd be okay with whoever is having phone sex with you calling your wife to confirm that she's okay with you having phone sex with them?
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Annnnnnd that would answer my question. It's funny how many married men are open to sex and swear it's okay but when it comes down to asking their wives... the tune changes. Enjoy your free time.hidden_self
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I have to say, I don't understand the point of hating on other people online.
People can ask for what they want. I am entitled to say either "yes, please!" or "hm, maybe?" or "no, thank you!"
Forty-one years is not as long a time as I once would have thought, but it's long enough that I try to avoid saying the words "always" and "never."
Just my two cents.
People can ask for what they want. I am entitled to say either "yes, please!" or "hm, maybe?" or "no, thank you!"
Forty-one years is not as long a time as I once would have thought, but it's long enough that I try to avoid saying the words "always" and "never."
Just my two cents.
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Oh I don't hate him at all, I just have next to no respect for people who cheat. It shows a lack of respect for your partner and a lack of trust. And while he's fully entitled to ask for anything he wants (though technically he should be asking in the personals forum and not the GLBT) I'm equally entitled to voice my opinion even though it's really not worth anything in the grand scheme. *shrugs*
I'm not sure who said always or never though...
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ditto
I don't hate her at all... I just have next to no respect for anyone who feels obliged to flog every passerby with her sanctimonious, self-satisfied smugness.
by the by, one assumes that the "solution" to the insight-riddled riddle (ooh! Is that a play on words?) is "secret"... let's try to see if we can apply this to real life... perhaps keep one's narcissistic desires to preach at others a deep, well-hidden secret (or, conversely, one could go all the way and join the Presbyterian Church... your choice)
I don't hate her at all... I just have next to no respect for anyone who feels obliged to flog every passerby with her sanctimonious, self-satisfied smugness.
by the by, one assumes that the "solution" to the insight-riddled riddle (ooh! Is that a play on words?) is "secret"... let's try to see if we can apply this to real life... perhaps keep one's narcissistic desires to preach at others a deep, well-hidden secret (or, conversely, one could go all the way and join the Presbyterian Church... your choice)
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Oh, there waaaay too many passerby's here to flog and I'm reasonably sure it's not in smugness, disdain maybe but not smugness.
Congratulations, that one was up for a while with some odd answers.
Oh my, aren't we one for ad hominems, I feel myself humbled already. I really don't think however that it's unfair to call someone on cheating when they're asking you to facilitate them. Finally, someone posts on a public space and they make themselves open to criticisms, just as I've made myself open to yours by posting my opinion. The main difference being however that I didn't have to resort to personal attacks in the process.
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Is phone sex cheating?
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I'm just a queer faggot slut who wants cock.
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I would ask the same question. How is phone sex cheating when neither person touches the other? That would be quite a stretch by any reasonable standard.
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I just want dick.
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LOL...
If you feel the need to conceal it from your spouse I'd say that answers the question.
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DING DING DING!!!
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I kind of abandoned the thread but yeah that's exactly why. Seriously, I couldn't care less if he's having sex with 5 midgets and a clown. Just pointing out that if you have to hide a sexual relationship, it's cheating. I honestly don't even care if he's cheating, except that it showed up here and not the personals.
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By the time I got here, the discussion was pretty lively. I was originally going to move it, but when I read beyond the first post, I realized that it might as well stay.
