Strap On Use for First Time

[sydneys]

Hello all I wanted to share my first experience with a strap on with my husband. I hope this is the place to post I always seem to post in the wrong places.

I have always wanted to try and do this and decided to try this week. I am trying to be a mistress and be a little more dom than the submissive I am.

I cannot express how much it turned me on. My husband was so hard. I did it doggie and wanked his cock from the front. I was nice and used lube, but this morning he still complained of a sore bottom. poor baby.

I really really did not think this whole thing would make ME so hot. I cannot wait to do it again.

Thank you for sharing with me. Sydney

 

[bristogie]

Sydney, that's very hot! How did you feel when you were done with him? More dominant and in control? Did it make you want to do more the next time? How did he like being submissive?

For me, I think that's one if the ultimate forms of submission- to have a woman fuck me in the ass with a strap-on. I'm submissive (of course) and even thinking about it makes me hard and yearn to obey and please my Mistress. It's totally erotic.

 

[sydneys]

Sydney, that's very hot! How did you feel when you were done with him? More dominant and in control? Did it make you want to do more the next time? How did he like being submissive?

For me, I think that's one if the ultimate forms of submission- to have a woman fuck me in the ass with a strap-on. I'm submissive (of course) and even thinking about it makes me hard and yearn to obey and please my Mistress. It's totally erotic.

I am trying to think of an adjective to even explain it. It was almost a release of some sort for me. I enjoyed bringing him pleasure but I also liked seeing him wince. He was so hard. I mean real hard. I think it was a little diconcerting for him though...the power thing and all. He looked at me and said afterwards, "do not forget little one I will have my turn." And, my feeling not voiced was hey dude you have had a turn for a long time...lol I need to go real slow with this. I know he loved it, the guy has not kept his cock in his pants all day long and my response, has been "just put your guy away."

 

[sydneys]

I just walked outside and hubby approaches me, "you know we will be taking turns right?"

"With what? I said."

"Do not play dumb with me Sydney you know what I am talking about." He then grabs me by the neck and says, "you will be taking turns."

I smile, remove his hands and walk into the house and he returns to his work.

 

[BadGirlsRule]

That was all really hot. Thank you for sharing. (I especially liked how he re-asserted his position of being in control when he grabbed you by the neck!)

I'm experiencing the same sort of situation...only He's played on the submissive side before with His ex. Although she was submissive, she had that Dominant side in her naturally. I don't. I am, in His words, "the most naturally submissive woman He's ever met". But I'm also really, really new to this lifestyle. I didn't know what submissive meant in a sexual or relationship context until 6 months ago.

I was quite intrigued with the power I felt when I fucked Him with the strapon. I just wish I could get into the role a little better. I can fantasize the hell out of different scenarios in my head, I mean...REALLY HOT scenes. All day long. But when it comes time to act them out I feel so self-conscious.

Did you experience this at all? Is it difficult for you to get that Dominant mentality or does it feel natural to you?

 

[sydneys]

In my marriage I think we are 50-50 but most people think I am in control. My hubby is easy going but if pushed too far he will push back. I am a natural submissive, but doing quite well with this right now...feeling my oats if you will.

I am having a good time messing with him and he with me. When he returned to his work I knocked on the door to get his attention. I told him he better pick a safe word because he was going to need it. He smiled, opened the door, grabbed me by jaw and made direct eye contact and said, "baby, if I need a safe word you will need a safe paragraph." It turned me a lot but I did not let on. He cannot even walk by me without a hard cock.

He is in the shower now and hoping I am sure. Prior to his shower he said to me with a smile, "how about 60-40" with you having 60 and me 40?" After the shower he cannot find his robe belt. He says, kind of sternly, "do you have my belt?" "A little nervous I say." And he replies, "not at all baby as he whips out his cock. "Kinda tired I say and hand him the belt."

I am taking this slow and having fun to boot. I can push him pretty far because of our trust. Any suggestions on my next move?

 

[Eager2TRYRU]

That was all really hot. Thank you for sharing. (I especially liked how he re-asserted his position of being in control when he grabbed you by the neck!)

I'm experiencing the same sort of situation...only He's played on the submissive side before with His ex. Although she was submissive, she had that Dominant side in her naturally. I don't. I am, in His words, "the most naturally submissive woman He's ever met". But I'm also really, really new to this lifestyle. I didn't know what submissive meant in a sexual or relationship context until 6 months ago.

I was quite intrigued with the power I felt when I fucked Him with the strapon. I just wish I could get into the role a little better. I can fantasize the hell out of different scenarios in my head, I mean...REALLY HOT scenes. All day long. But when it comes time to act them out I feel so self-conscious.

Did you experience this at all? Is it difficult for you to get that Dominant mentality or does it feel natural to you?

The first few times we used a strapon she enjoyed it, and came several times, but she wasn't very verbal or in control. Over time (I believe she got more comfortable) she got much more dominant. Give yourself time... and of course... practice, practice, practice

 

[Etoile]

I just walked outside and hubby approaches me, "you know we will be taking turns right?"

"With what? I said."

"Do not play dumb with me Sydney you know what I am talking about." He then grabs me by the neck and says, "you will be taking turns."

I smile, remove his hands and walk into the house and he returns to his work.

Excuse me for playing dumb, but what IS he talking about? It could be many different things.

 

[oldkinky]

Hello all I wanted to share my first experience with a strap on with my husband. I hope this is the place to post I always seem to post in the wrong places.

I have always wanted to try and do this and decided to try this week. I am trying to be a mistress and be a little more dom than the submissive I am.

I cannot express how much it turned me on. My husband was so hard. I did it doggie and wanked his cock from the front. I was nice and used lube, but this morning he still complained of a sore bottom. poor baby.

I really really did not think this whole thing would make ME so hot. I cannot wait to do it again.

Thank you for sharing with me. Sydney

My wife fucks me with our strap on about once a week. She puts on our Buzz Me Tender Harness with a realistic dildo. She rubs lube on the dildo and talks dirty about her dick. She slowly inserts the lubed dildo in me as she rubs lube on my rock hard dick. She strokes my dick as she fucks me. Fantastic orgasm-cum everywhere.

We have several different dildos. The maximum diameter that is comfortable for me is 1.25 inches, but I love our 7 inch long dildo.

We also have a couple of double dildos-Nexus Jr. and Feeldoe Slim. It is fantastic to fuck each other with the Nexus Jr. in our Buzz Me Tender harness. She lubes my dick and gives me a handjob while we fuck. She had her first squirting orgasm while fucking with this.

PM me if you would like more details of our strap on fucking.

 

[sydneys]

Excuse me for playing dumb, but what IS he talking about? It could be many different things.

It is quite simple really. My husband has always been in control sexually and he was letting me know he always would be. He can physically dominate me this is for sure. However, maybe, just maybe, he was a little taken back thinking about how he was not when I was using the strap on. Just deducing.

This morning I woke at 6 and sat on his face. He brought me to orgasm and then wanted release himself. I smiled and I said no. He went back under the covers and said, "we will see about that." This is not just about the strap on. This is about he letting go and me dominating. Not sure how far I can push this.

 

[escriterra]

You hot and your man hard -- delicious!

Hello all I wanted to share my first experience with a strap on with my husband. I hope this is the place to post I always seem to post in the wrong places.

I have always wanted to try and do this and decided to try this week. I am trying to be a mistress and be a little more dom than the submissive I am.

I cannot express how much it turned me on. My husband was so hard. I did it doggie and wanked his cock from the front. I was nice and used lube, but this morning he still complained of a sore bottom. poor baby.

I really really did not think this whole thing would make ME so hot. I cannot wait to do it again.

Thank you for sharing with me. Sydney

At this point, just savoring the pleasure is its own reward. Things will progress as the two of you decide to explore your roles when he is being taken as you ride him with your strapon.

It is such fun to discover the eroticism of the act -- the fact that you got so hot during the experience is probably a combination of emotional, psychological, and physical pleasure. Have you amped up the psychological thrills of being the one doing the penetrating by telling him how very hot it is to watch your strapon slide deep inside him, knowing that he is opening up for you? That he WILL open and take all of it inside him? Sexy talk that emphasizes your control can be such a huge turn-on, especially during the act.

And there is also much to be said for the sexy talk that comes before -- all the naughty descriptions of how inviting his naked ass looks, how much you're going to like penetrating him, using him as a sextoy to give yourself a satisfying climax. Trail your fingers over his upturned butt as you tease him, purring your description of what is to come and how enjoyable it will be for you to plunge into his surrendered hole, bottoming out inside him and squirming against him, all for the purpose of your own sexual high. Make him open up for you before you take him -- it emphasizes his total surrender -- and then tell him how very nasty he looks in that pose, his asshole exposed and flexed open because he knows you are going inside. If his cock is hard at that point (and how could it not?), tell him that he seems very eager to be taken and used.

Ask him if he's going to come when you fuck him. No matter the answer, tell him that YOU certainly will, and isn't that the entire point?

Then touch his naked asshole with your finger and ask, "Are you ready to take what I'm going to give you, right here where my finger is? Are you ready?" (Pushing inside at that point is a delight.)

Moans and begging on his part are so very hot!

Give yourself and your man the joy of the verbal tease.

 

[Shadow Thief]

He's a lucky guy. I've been wanting to try something like that myself for quiet sometime. I've been sort of seeing this woman who is very open-minded and has tried all sorts of things I didn't think she ever would, anal and 3-way sex just to name a couple things. She knows I like her to play with my ass, but I haven't worked up the courage to run this one by her.

 

[Hardon4u21]

My wife fucks me with our strap on about once a week. She puts on our Buzz Me Tender Harness with a realistic dildo. She rubs lube on the dildo and talks dirty about her dick. She slowly inserts the lubed dildo in me as she rubs lube on my rock hard dick. She strokes my dick as she fucks me. Fantastic orgasm-cum everywhere.

We have several different dildos. The maximum diameter that is comfortable for me is 1.25 inches, but I love our 7 inch long dildo.

We also have a couple of double dildos-Nexus Jr. and Feeldoe Slim. It is fantastic to fuck each other with the Nexus Jr. in our Buzz Me Tender harness. She lubes my dick and gives me a handjob while we fuck. She had her first squirting orgasm while fucking with this.

PM me if you would like more details of our strap on fucking.

The first few times we used a strapon she enjoyed it, and came several times, but she wasn't very verbal or in control. Over time (I believe she got more comfortable) she got much more dominant. Give yourself time... and of course... practice, practice, practice

Lucky - It has been a fantasy of mine to be dominated by a beautiful woman with a strap on. My wife would never do such a thing. I want to be spanked and fucked by a woman with a strap on.

 

[tmock]

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I'd love to be taken with a strapon, but female doms are hard to find in N.C.