Thoughts on helping sub be a Domme for adult movies.

[Betticus]

Ok, I have this lil subbie girlie and was talking with her today. She is being recruited to do a part in an adult movie where she plays a Domme.

I'm seeing a few issues. She is very, very submissive and derives the majority of her self satisfaction and happiness from pleasing her partner. This is becoming a problem with her as she's so subbie that she's having issues with guys using her who don't know what she is and have no clue as to how to keep her safe and from getting emotional damage.

I'm planning on working on that with her.

She's excited about the movie thing and says that she really wants to be a porn actress eventually. Not gonna touch that one just yet.

Sooo, I'm wondering what would be involved in getting her prepped to pull off a Domme role for film.

Any thoughts?

 

[chy_girl]

Sooo, I'm wondering what would be involved in getting her prepped to pull off a Domme role for film.

Any thoughts?

Go straight psychological and make her being Dominant in the movie the act of submission.

That's the only way I'd ever be able to "Dom-up" with someone... If my PYL ordered me to do so and I truly believed that it would provide a source of pleasure for my PYL. It would provide the... inspiration to Dominate, so to speak, as well fulfilling and honoring my needs as a submissive (stretching outside my comfort zone to please).

I'm a little twisted though.

 

[Betticus]

Go straight psychological and make her being Dominant in the movie the act of submission.

That's the only way I'd ever be able to "Dom-up" with someone... If my PYL ordered me to do so and I truly believed that it would provide a source of pleasure for my PYL. It would provide the... inspiration to Dominate, so to speak, as well fulfilling and honoring my needs as a submissive (stretching outside my comfort zone to please).

I'm a little twisted though.

I think you may have hit the nail right on the head... this approach I think has some good merit.