married bi, how do you do it?

[ABQguy]

Hello,
I am a single bi male and not currently married. While I consider myself to be bi, almost all the sex I engage in is with woman. I never have been emotionally attached to a man and for the most part am not really attracted to men. That being said, I do like men and enjoy sex with them every now and then. Sex is good and a nice person is a nice person. When I was married I really craved sex with another person (man or woman) yet I never cheated. Are there bi couples out there in love with their partners who entertain others singly or together every now and then to spice up their lives or to satisfy what they perceive as a need?

 

[Stella_Omega]

What you're asking about is open marriage

and yes, lots of people do find a way to arrange this... It takes work, of course, but what relationship doesn't!

In mine, the main rule is; respect your primary commitment above all others. We tend to find playmates that get along with the SO-- just much easier on everybody that way.

 

[Etoile]

What you're asking about is open marriage

and yes, lots of people do find a way to arrange this... It takes work, of course, but what relationship doesn't!

In mine, the main rule is; respect your primary commitment above all others. We tend to find playmates that get along with the SO-- just much easier on everybody that way.

Absolutely. Establish the ground rules FIRST, not after you've found somebody you're interested in. Be HONEST at all times. Find a woman who loves you and understands your desire to satisfy your bi side.

 

[texharley]

Hello,
I am a single bi male and not currently married. While I consider myself to be bi, almost all the sex I engage in is with woman. I never have been emotionally attached to a man and for the most part am not really attracted to men. That being said, I do like men and enjoy sex with them every now and then. Sex is good and a nice person is a nice person. When I was married I really craved sex with another person (man or woman) yet I never cheated. Are there bi couples out there in love with their partners who entertain others singly or together every now and then to spice up their lives or to satisfy what they perceive as a need?

I am a bi man and married but my wife is the only one I have sex with. I get my bi desires out on sites like this one and cyber with men and women. I go to a local XXX theater and jacke of with the other men there and talk about my desires but I am faithful to my wife and that is as far as it goes.

 

[guy_thing60]

I am a bi man and married but my wife is the only one I have sex with. I get my bi desires out on sites like this one and cyber with men and women. I go to a local XXX theater and jacke of with the other men there and talk about my desires but I am faithful to my wife and that is as far as it goes.

yes, that is very close to where I am - Always wishing, but always, so far, backing away. I guess it is a "place" that works for me, for now. I wonder how many men there are like this? The XXX theatres suggest quite a few.

 

[Mikijl Dragon]

I love my wife, she is the most understanding woman I have ever met. We have an open marriage and even for a time had a boyfriend of ours living with us for a year. She is not bi but she understand me and allows me to indulge as long as I am safe and tell her about it afterwards.

Key rules we have are:
If either of us says someone is off limits then they are period.
Full disclosure.

If there is any sneaking about it is cheating in our book.

 

[texharley]

Hello,
I am a single bi male and not currently married. While I consider myself to be bi, almost all the sex I engage in is with woman. I never have been emotionally attached to a man and for the most part am not really attracted to men. That being said, I do like men and enjoy sex with them every now and then. Sex is good and a nice person is a nice person. When I was married I really craved sex with another person (man or woman) yet I never cheated. Are there bi couples out there in love with their partners who entertain others singly or together every now and then to spice up their lives or to satisfy what they perceive as a need?

I am married an dlove my wife very much. I have a bisexual side to me and I have in the very distant past sucked cocks. I do not have sex with anyone but my wife but I do go on sites like this one to discuss my desires and even cyber with men and women. I do not consider that cheating as no physical contact is established.
Edit sorry about the double posting. I should have looked to see if I answered yet.

 

[Missouribiguy]

I'm single, bi, and a virgin. Figure that out..

Anyway, I used to cyber/cam with married bi men, but these guys were the "have sex behind your wife's back, and not be honest about your sexual of some bullshit", so I stopped talking to them. I mean, if they doing that to their wives, what would they do with me.

 

[fishbud]

i wonder sometimes how many std wernt spread or marrages saved becouse people fullfill there fantacy orcourious sides on line. thats one of the things that make sites like lit good for a lot of us the mind is a wonderfull place to explore