Am I bi or just submissive?

[pcarp]

I love to suck other guys because my girlfriend is wild about it. I have had them cum in my mouth and on my face because she wants to see it. I have eaten their cum out of her also but I have never had any m/m contact without her. That situation has never arisen but I am not sure if I would or not.

 

[Hitchiker69]

When you start doing men because YOU want to, then you'll be truly bi. Now you're just acting the part. Next step is to start living the part.

 

[Etoile]

If you like doing it at all, then you're bisexual. If you like doing it because your gf tells you to, you're submissive. If both, then...both.

 

[meflash]

Iam bi but I can live without the male contact if I meet a woman who is not willing to share or be in a bi relatonship. Right now i enjoy both men & woman because I not in a comitted relationship & want to stay free for now

 

[Stella_Omega]

When you start doing men because YOU want to, then you'll be truly bi. Now you're just acting the part. Next step is to start living the part.

He's bi, because he's doing it-- men who don't want to have sex with other men simply don't. They dump their girlfriends, or beat them up, for suggesting it.

 

[Experiencedguy]

OMG --Stella and Etoile: Although I love you both (Stella particularly because her words just come out so funny), you totally missed the point.

Quote: "I love".

Any guys who loves sucking on another guys cocks, swallowing their cum, having it splashed all over their face, and eats its out of their girlfriend, has to be totally bi. For whatever reason.

Unless he is using the girl only for MtM Sex, in which case he is gay. If he was totally submissive, his girlfriend would insist he get fucked. Whether or not he goes for this still doesn't confirm he is submissive, if he says he loves that also.

 

[Etoile]

OMG --Stella and Etoile: Although I love you both (Stella particularly because her words just come out so funny), you totally missed the point.

Quote: "I love".

Any guys who loves sucking on another guys cocks, swallowing their cum, having it splashed all over their face, and eats its out of their girlfriend, has to be totally bi. For whatever reason.

Unless he is using the girl only for MtM Sex, in which case he is gay. If he was totally submissive, his girlfriend would insist he get fucked. Whether or not he goes for this still doesn't confirm he is submissive, if he says he loves that also.

Did you miss the part about "I love...because..." ? Life is more complicated than black and white. Conditionals are everywhere.

 

[Stella_Omega]

OMG --Stella and Etoile: Although I love you both (Stella particularly because her words just come out so funny), you totally missed the point.

Quote: "I love".

Any guys who loves sucking on another guys cocks, swallowing their cum, having it splashed all over their face, and eats its out of their girlfriend, has to be totally bi. For whatever reason.

Unless he is using the girl only for MtM Sex, in which case he is gay. If he was totally submissive, his girlfriend would insist he get fucked. Whether or not he goes for this still doesn't confirm he is submissive, if he says he loves that also.

That's pretty much what I said.

If he wasn't bisexual, he would not have sex with men, no matter what his GF wanted.

If he wanted a Top GF, he'd find one that didn't want to whore his ass out to men. There are plenty of them around.

 

[infinity706]

He's bi, because he's doing it-- men who don't want to have sex with other men simply don't. They dump their girlfriends, or beat them up, for suggesting it.

That's quite a bit exaggerated, though. I don't know of one single case where a guy has ever beaten or dumped his girlfriend for suggesting that he fuck guys. I'm sure it's happened at some point, but more likely he just wouldn't do it.

Now, as for being bi, it's pretty likely unless we're talking about D/s where his girlfriend orders him to fuck guys or something.