for the little girls

[evesdream]

I think I might have posted this here before (?) but it's adorable.


Little Girls.

1. A little girl must always be respectful to her daddy.

2. A little girl must always be ready to do as daddy says.

3. A little girl must look tidy/nice for her daddy.

4. A little girl mustn't fidget around her daddy.

5. A little girl must be obedient and not make daddy look bad.

6. A little girl must always be prepared for daddy's needs.

7. A little girl must be thankful that daddy doesn't leave her.

8. A little girl must do her duties in a timely manner, as to not
upset her daddy.

9. A little girl must do her best to obey all of daddy's rules.

10. A little girl must always be brave for daddy.

11. A little girl must not complain or whine.

12. A little girl must not waste time.

13. A little girl must not lie.

14. A little girl must ask daddy's permission before doing things.

15. A little girl must never say no to her daddy.

16. A little girl must make sure daddy is always happy.

17. A little girl must sit near daddy with her head resting on daddy's
knees waiting daddy's commands.

18. A little girl must not hate daddy when he has to punish her.

19. A little girl must eat lots of vegetables so she will grow up big
and beautiful.

20. A little girl must NEVER ever disappoint daddy

 

[Lady_Fiona]

And then when shes done that....if shes really unlucky, her daddy will come and shit on her from a great height.....

 

[evesdream]

And then when shes done that....if shes really unlucky, her daddy will come and shit on her from a great height.....

Having a rough time?

 

[Lady_Fiona]

Having a rough time?

HAD honey, past tense. Still hurts 4 months down the road though.....Sorry babe I didn't mean to rain on your parade, just feeling a little more tender than usual today.

 

[~Haze~]

HAD honey, past tense. Still hurts 4 months down the road though.....Sorry babe I didn't mean to rain on your parade, just feeling a little more tender than usual today.

I don't know what it's like where you are right now, but here, it's cold, rainy and between the weather and your mood, it seems like a good a day as any to Try a Little Tenderness.


And here's a little something else for that mood.

 

[JMohegan]

I think I might have posted this here before (?) but it's adorable.

Some of those absolutes would be unrealistic in a relationship involving actual humans over the long haul. And #7 seems jarringly incongruous with a nurturing dynamic.

I can't tell if you posted this straight up, or were mocking D/lg. If the former, what am I missing here?

 

[evesdream]

HAD honey, past tense. Still hurts 4 months down the road though.....Sorry babe I didn't mean to rain on your parade, just feeling a little more tender than usual today.

Haze has the right prescription for you. Sweet blue harmony for a long blue day...

JM I think I read it more like a love note.
Maybe right around #6 is where it starts to heat up.

 

[JMohegan]

JM I think I read it more like a love note.

A love note from the lg to the D? Okay, thanks.

I was reading it as a list of commands, going the other way.

 

[evesdream]

A love note from the lg to the D?

Oh, either or.

 

[00Syd]

None of this is attractive to me.

 

[dark moon]

I like it. Little girls should definitely know the rules.

 

[subish2009]

A lot of this doesn't sit well with me either, but I'm not in a D/lg relationship, so I don't really expect it, too. What happened to ataxia.girl? I'd love her take on this.

 

[ultramarineblue]

A lot of this doesn't sit well with me either, but I'm not in a D/lg relationship, so I don't really expect it, too. What happened to ataxia.girl? I'd love her take on this.

I'd find her opinion interesting as well. I wonder how many little girls and daddy doms there are on here.

 

[BiBunny]

I'm a little girl, but my Owner people aren't my Mommy and Daddy. The above list doesn't resonate with me at all.

 

[evesdream]

A lot of this doesn't sit well with me either, but I'm not in a D/lg relationship, so I don't really expect it, too. What happened to ataxia.girl? I'd love her take on this.

Waaaait a minute. There used to be a time when you could post something light and sweet in this forum without needing to call in a panel of experts.

 

[ultramarineblue]

Waaaait a minute. There used to be a time when you could post something light and sweet in this forum without needing to call in a panel of experts.

But not everyone views it as light and sweet. Some may view it as restrictive and a great way to set someone up for failure if they can't comply.

 

[Lizzie_Borden]

But not everyone views it as light and sweet. Some may view it as restrictive and a great way to set someone up for failure if they can't comply.

Agreed, it's not light and sweet. I find a certain menace to the tone that's rather unsettling, and I've been in a bit of a D/lg thing in the past.

 

[00Syd]

The whole thing just makes me want to give the finger to daddy. Seriously. Fuck you.

 

[evesdream]

Alright I might be the only freak in the room.

This is really interesting.

I sometimes read this list as something that a little girl might have prepared as punishment, as if Daddy told her to "make a list of 20 things a little girl should do"

There are parts of it that hit very close to home and to fears and wishes that I really do have. I think that's why I find it very open, vulnerable, and sweet.

On the other hand, as a list from Daddy to girl, it doesn't lose it's appeal for me, I think I like being pushed to please, even when the goals are romantic, hard, or unrealistic. And why wouldn't both a Daddy and a girl know the difference between the three in the context of their relationship?

I also think it's charming as a list complied by both Daddy and girl, even(especially?) in the places where it brushes raw nerves.

 

[Aquila1]

Nope *shakes head and wanders off*

This just sits in the 'creepy and manipulative' (and not in a hot way) camp to me...

 

[Crescent_Kit]

Nope *shakes head and wanders off*

This just sits in the 'creepy and manipulative' (and not in a hot way) camp to me...

<_< Must say I agree...

 

[ultramarineblue]

Alright I might be the only freak in the room.

This is really interesting.

I sometimes read this list as something that a little girl might have prepared as punishment, as if Daddy told her to "make a list of 20 things a little girl should do"

There are parts of it that hit very close to home and to fears and wishes that I really do have. I think that's why I find it very open, vulnerable, and sweet.

On the other hand, as a list from Daddy to girl, it doesn't lose it's appeal for me, I think I like being pushed to please, even when the goals are romantic, hard, or unrealistic. And why wouldn't both a Daddy and a girl know the difference between the three in the context of their relationship?

I also think it's charming as a list complied by both Daddy and girl, even(especially?) in the places where it brushes raw nerves.

No big deal if you think it's sweet. Just don't expect everyone to agree. I guess the thing that confuses me is that I don't often find things adorable that touch on fears I have. I'm definitely not saying it isn't possible but I'm just not seeing it at this point.

 

[ownedsubgal]

numbers 4 and 17 sound oddly relationship specific, and don't fit in the list, imo. otherwise it just sounds like common sense rules of life for one who is owned. i do not read anything listed as specific to Daddy/lg relationships. but then i'm a slave owned by my Father, so what do i know?

 

[JMohegan]

Alright I might be the only freak in the room.

This is really interesting.

I sometimes read this list as something that a little girl might have prepared as punishment, as if Daddy told her to "make a list of 20 things a little girl should do"

There are parts of it that hit very close to home and to fears and wishes that I really do have. I think that's why I find it very open, vulnerable, and sweet.

On the other hand, as a list from Daddy to girl, it doesn't lose it's appeal for me, I think I like being pushed to please, even when the goals are romantic, hard, or unrealistic. And why wouldn't both a Daddy and a girl know the difference between the three in the context of their relationship?

I also think it's charming as a list complied by both Daddy and girl, even(especially?) in the places where it brushes raw nerves.

I can see how the list might appeal to emotionally masochistic lg-types. That makes sense.

That aside, and label/ID issues aside, some of those commands don't suit my style because I am a very straightforward, say what you mean and mean what you say, type of D.

So, for example, #16 (you must make sure I'm always happy) is not something I would ever say. A partner could never control all the factors that have an impact on my emotional state; nor would I expect her to feel responsible for manipulating my reaction to the same. And I would not lay down rules like #10 (you must always be brave), as that is a bar that has never been reached by an actual human being.

If I give a command, I really, literally expect it to be done. That's my M.O. Someone like you would no doubt be bored to tears by it, but there you go.

As you seem sincere, I appreciate your posting of the list. You have dispelled an apparent myth I've been harboring - that D/lg is essentially a nurturing dynamic. Your flavor seems much more of a mindfuck, mentally sadomasochistic variety, which is very interesting to see.

 

[YourCaptor]

the rule

A little girl must always try her hardest, even if it's something she doesn't like.