Calling submissive women....help me make a choice?

[kimuk]

I'm a 50 yr old, married, BBW. I read the submission stories on this site and find myself more and more aroused and seeking them out.

So please tell me how you got into submission. What was your first experiance of it.

What does he ask of you? How do you please him? What is expected of you?

How does he control you? What do you get out of it? Either on line experiances or in the flesh meetings.

Personal message or here is fine. I thirst for knowlege.

Please help me make a chioce..........

 

[eroticardr]

Huh...

Figured you would have gotten some feedback from ladies already.... Now go to my rrom and let me teach you

 

[kimuk]

lol not many replies...the train of thought appears to be you cant be taught submission its the way your made ....what do you think?

 

[Primalex]

I'm a 50 yr old, married, BBW. I read the submission stories on this site and find myself more and more aroused and seeking them out.

So please tell me how you got into submission. What was your first experiance of it.

What does he ask of you? How do you please him? What is expected of you?

To lose weight.

 

[CallieW]

For me it was finding the right person I could trust to help teach me. Alot of things turned me on in stories but I wasn't sure what I would like done to and with me. It's experimenting. The feeling of letting go of control and letting your partner decide how you will be touched , kissed, fucked and even spanked. It's having the kind of partner that cares and is in tune with your reactions. Someone open to pushing you to the edge with new sensations but always ready to back off when it becomes to intense. Soon things that seems taboo or scary become pleasurable. It's different for each person I believe. For me, being new to this world..it's trusting and opening up and sharing my fantasies and making them a reality.

 

[TheLeanansidhe]

I'm in process of posting an autobiographical story on my blog (link below) on my introduction to the scene. Parts 1-4 are up, part 5 (the conclusion) will be posted tomorrow most likely. You're welcome to take a look at it, and if you need futher clarification you can PM or email me.

 

[kimuk]

thanks ....have read it .... atruely complete realationship

 

[kimuk]

To lose weight.

if all the candy in the store was the same size and tasted the same it would be a boring life lol

 

[Charlotte1975]

I'm a 50 yr old, married, BBW. I read the submission stories on this site and find myself more and more aroused and seeking them out.

So please tell me how you got into submission. What was your first experiance of it.

What does he ask of you? How do you please him? What is expected of you?

How does he control you? What do you get out of it? Either on line experiances or in the flesh meetings.

Personal message or here is fine. I thirst for knowlege.

Please help me make a chioce..........

Am still trying to get into it!

 

[Charlotte1975]

if all the candy in the store was the same size and tasted the same it would be a boring life lol

That's weird, 'kimuk' - in Britain we would actually say 'sweets in the shop'.

Just what part of the UK do you claim to be in, then..?

 

[Guest]

That's weird, 'kimuk' - in Britain we would actually say 'sweets in the shop'.

Just what part of the UK do you claim to be in, then..?

Is there a death penalty for not using the suppossed british words if one lives in the uk?

 

[Scotsman69]

Nope, but there are a lot of strange fakes on Lit and sometimes they give themselves away by their language use. Most folk in the UK do NOT use US-style English.

 

[Charlotte1975]

Nope, but there are a lot of strange fakes on Lit and sometimes they give themselves away by their language use. Most folk in the UK do NOT use US-style English.

More to the point, they are not clever enough to realise their own gaffes.

They would probably think there was nothing strange with an Englishman going along the sidewalk, choosing the right color pants to wear, receiving an invite and visiting the neighborhood drugstore.

I have nothing against the Yanks... I'm even going there to live, so help me... but, sadly, by their crapspeak shall ye know them...

 

[petcindy]

I started when I was 18. My b/f was training to be a Master with an old guard master so I was his sub then slave now married to him for 37 years and still his slave/pet. I also have been trained to Domme others.

 

[kimuk]

if all the candy in the store was the same size and tasted the same it would be a boring life lol

lol.....so sorry i didn't realise that there wud be so much discussion between the word "candy" and "sweets" ....yer i'm a brit and a happy one to ....my search has been answered and my Dom is challenging, sweet, intelligent, sensual , erotic and sooooo much more .....so discus my termonology as u wish ....i'm now a happy and newly appointed "sub"

mu journey has begun........