paganangel
born wrong
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- Oct 10, 2001
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i didn't want to have to do this here but...
i see where everyone's comming from. i do. she's a really nice person as far as i can tell. but i feel there's a few things i should point out.
we've all met people in real life from our little cyber worlds and been seriously disappointed. i understand the attraction, but as someone who has met her, i have to say...um.. well... just don't get too hyped up.
look, she's a nice person but, well look guys, she's boring. like, borrrrrrring. and not nearly as cute in r/l. now, i'm not putting her down, i'm not. but we all know she's an amateur photographer, and the fact is she IS a wiz with that camera. i just hate to see anyone upset and think maybe you'd do well to cool your jets. there's plenty of others out there.
god, i feel like a tool , but i've been there guys, i know she's seductive (not a tease, she really is nice.) but you're gonna get all pumped up and then just be... really let down.
and frankly, you're probably getting her hopes up too. if you really like her, you'll continue to be nice, cordial, even complimentary. but put any thoughts of anything more than the cyber life out of your mind. for your sake AND hers! you'll hurt her too after all.
finally, and i don't know how to put this but... well she's got a record. now i don't want to defame her in any way so i won't go into details as my intent is to protect and not harm. trust me, i've held back on a lot of other stuff too. suffice it to say, she's just not real life material.
i hope all understand and take heed. and morgy, if you see this, i especially hope you understand. you seem like a good person (in spite of the arrest) but i think you know my intentions come from a good place. i've even changed my av in suppport of you.
i see where everyone's comming from. i do. she's a really nice person as far as i can tell. but i feel there's a few things i should point out.
we've all met people in real life from our little cyber worlds and been seriously disappointed. i understand the attraction, but as someone who has met her, i have to say...um.. well... just don't get too hyped up.
look, she's a nice person but, well look guys, she's boring. like, borrrrrrring. and not nearly as cute in r/l. now, i'm not putting her down, i'm not. but we all know she's an amateur photographer, and the fact is she IS a wiz with that camera. i just hate to see anyone upset and think maybe you'd do well to cool your jets. there's plenty of others out there.
god, i feel like a tool , but i've been there guys, i know she's seductive (not a tease, she really is nice.) but you're gonna get all pumped up and then just be... really let down.
and frankly, you're probably getting her hopes up too. if you really like her, you'll continue to be nice, cordial, even complimentary. but put any thoughts of anything more than the cyber life out of your mind. for your sake AND hers! you'll hurt her too after all.
finally, and i don't know how to put this but... well she's got a record. now i don't want to defame her in any way so i won't go into details as my intent is to protect and not harm. trust me, i've held back on a lot of other stuff too. suffice it to say, she's just not real life material.
i hope all understand and take heed. and morgy, if you see this, i especially hope you understand. you seem like a good person (in spite of the arrest) but i think you know my intentions come from a good place. i've even changed my av in suppport of you.
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