Listen Up: The Hymen

[lance gt]

Wouldn't this be easier with pictures?

Got any of you in action we could go by?

 

[CopperSkink]

I'm not questioning the validity of a woman says or arguing with what facts a person finds, just that the penis is bending away from the spot it's trying to hit.

 

[buxxxom]

Au contraire, REVERSEis when she's facing away from you and leans back on you. Her hips are positioned so your cock is hitting the anterior wall(front) of her vagina. She does the moving, so she has control of where your cock hits her. This I know from many years of experience and asking women what works best for them.

What works best for me are fingers, strong and tireless ones! Curved toys, too. Cocks feel nice and all that, but just not enough pressure.

 

[Stella_Omega]

Au contraire, REVERSEis when she's facing away from you and leans back on you. Her hips are positioned so your cock is hitting the anterior wall(front) of her vagina. She does the moving, so she has control of where your cock hits her. This I know from many years of experience and asking women what works best for them.

Dude. Just... Dude!

I'm not questioning the validity of a woman says or arguing with what facts a person finds, just that the penis is bending away from the spot it's trying to hit.

Well then for your cock, cowgirl unreversed.

Also, it's been my experience that g-spots are more fun after a clitoral orgasm. For many ladies, a clitoral orgasm is sharp and localised and leaves her with a feeling not unlike yours, guys-- "don't touch my cock for a minute please!" But (It's my theory) that is what drives blood into the g-spot bringing it to life.

Some women can have an orgasm that includes ejaculation. I've never done that-- but I, and many other women, get some kind of "whole body" constant orgasm from g-spot stimulation...

I have been told by someone that he gets the same kind of sensation when he gets assfucked with a cock cage on that prevents him from even getting hard. Which is kinda cool, IMO.

 

[CopperSkink]

This one night, whilst putting my woman through a pair of easy climaxes, I decided to do a bit of searching around the G-spot. Being more interested in porn than anyone I've ever met, I knew all about it of course, but she and I don't get much practice.

So I reaches in there and does my thing, and in all of ten seconds she's screaming and shaking and can't bear to be touched for another minute or so.

Nine more of those later (took me an hour with her insisting on breaks), I figured it was no accident. I put her through a few paces while the two of us share a bed, and never before have I bounced the old "in out, in out" on her in a way that made her react like that one time I fingered her (in that spot; not saying that's the only time in my life I've done that).

From that day on, I've been on a quest to discover whether the human penis can actually reach and stimulate to her satisfaction the G-spot during intercourse.

 

[Handley_Page]

Stella:

I hear you, Handley.
Quote:
And there's nothing worse than an impatient sigh when asking the questions.
It can ruin an evening.
It's a nasty feedback loop, isn't it?

I gotta say though, the impatient sigh-- if it's from me at least-- implies that I am not expecting you to listen to my answer well enough to understand it. I assume you're going to get defensive instead.


Actually, I rather wish I'd met someone like you when I was a lot younger. Given a certain mutual trust, and a reasonable time to learn, I think I might have got it right for once. It might be better said that "I was never taught", as opposed to "I never learned".

And yes, my lady used to flood when climaxing.

 

[Stella_Omega]

This one night, whilst putting my woman through a pair of easy climaxes, I decided to do a bit of searching around the G-spot. Being more interested in porn than anyone I've ever met, I knew all about it of course, but she and I don't get much practice.

So I reaches in there and does my thing, and in all of ten seconds she's screaming and shaking and can't bear to be touched for another minute or so.

Nine more of those later (took me an hour with her insisting on breaks), I figured it was no accident. I put her through a few paces while the two of us share a bed, and never before have I bounced the old "in out, in out" on her in a way that made her react like that one time I fingered her (in that spot; not saying that's the only time in my life I've done that).

From that day on, I've been on a quest to discover whether the human penis can actually reach and stimulate to her satisfaction the G-spot during intercourse.

How deep in is hers?

The one guy that really got mine good had a smaller penis-- like maybe five inches long. He didn't believe me, stupid boy.

 

[greenirisheyes]

I thought I broke my girlfriend's hymen when I fingered her the first time; my hand came out covered in blood to the wrist.

To the wrist. Were you fingering her or fisting her

 

[Stella_Omega]

Actually, I rather wish I'd met someone like you when I was a lot younger. Given a certain mutual trust, and a reasonable time to learn, I think I might have got it right for once. It might be better said that "I was never taught", as opposed to "I never learned".

And yes, my lady used to flood when climaxing.

Unfortunately, you would have had to meet me now-- in my fifties. Maybe, ten years ago, in my forties-- because it took me this long to learn a lot of it myself!

 

[CopperSkink]

First, I got blood all over my hand because of a good deal of "in out".

Second, the other girlfriend's G-spot was just about three to four inches inside, right under my fingers.

 

[Handley_Page]

First, I got blood all over my hand because of a good deal of "in out".

Second, the other girlfriend's G-spot was just about three to four inches inside, right under my fingers.

Aint you got long fingers !

 

[Handley_Page]

Unfortunately, you would have had to meet me now-- in my fifties. Maybe, ten years ago, in my forties-- because it took me this long to learn a lot of it myself!

That's OK. I got ten years on you anyway.

 

[Stella_Omega]

That's OK. I got ten years on you anyway.

Twenty-year-old men generally don't look at fifty-year-old women, is what I'm saying. And they mostly won't get answers to their questions from twenty-year-old women, because those ladies don't yet have the answers.

Although that's improved a lot, thanks to the internet.

 

[Handley_Page]

Twenty-year-old men generally don't look at fifty-year-old women, is what I'm saying. And they mostly won't get answers to their questions from twenty-year-old women, because those ladies don't yet have the answers.

Although that's improved a lot, thanks to the internet.

I rather suspect that a simple discussion over dinner would be most illuminating; almost refreshing. I'd need a new suit.

 

[stephen55]

Yes Virginia, there is a Hymen (but it doesn't need to be capitalized).

Well, for nearly all women there was one, or some such thing.

It's amazing how human embryogenesis actually unfolds. When I went to medical school, back in the 1900's, embryology was a required course. In most medical schools today it is not which is a pity because an understanding of human embryology helps one to figure out all kinds of things, such as hernias and hymens.

No, I'm not suggesting that the two are related. Wait a minute, yes I am. There are not identical but then, few things are.

In the normal course of events, those of us blessed to be conceived with two X chromosomes (I'm not one of them) end up female. Not always, but that's another story. Part of the process involves the separate development of the (roughly) outer one third of the female genitalia, to whit, the labia, clitoris and (roughly) outer one third of the vagina. Along with this goes the development of the inner parts, as in the uterus with it's associated Fallopian tubes and cervix, along with the inner (roughly) two thirds of the vagina.

The hymen is the embryological remnant of the layer of tissue that separated the two developing sets of genital tissues. It almost always partially breaks down before birth. As with all things biological, the usual process of development can go awry. Thankfully, it usually doesn't.

In most women there isn't much left by the time of first intercourse. Some, but not much, usually because various other things have gone there before the first penis crosses the threshold.

If there is a reasonably intact hymen present and by all means, decide for yourself just what that means, yes, I suppose first intercourse could be a tad uncomfortable. I've long suspected there are other reasons as well. A very clumsy, inexperienced guy, with two heads, but only enough blood to fill one at a time is the usual culprit.

Does the hymen actually have a purpose in sexually experienced women? It does. During a vaginal delivery, despite best attempts to keep a woman's perineum from injury, sometimes a tear occurs. Occasionally, an episiotomy is made to try and prevent more extensive injury if the baby is a tad too big and mom looks like she has stretched about as far as she is able. (No one said childbirth is easy.) When it comes to repairing a tear or an episiotomy, the remnants of the hymen are excellent landmarks for making sure everything goes back together the way it should.

Now, aren't you glad you read this? Your next work of erotic fiction will read so much better when you use prose such as..."Brock Hardwood felt a tidal wave of pure portentous passion as his turgid, throbbing, massive man meat missile plunged into and through the embryological remnant that separated her...

 

[joelafayette]

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[Handley_Page]

Some writers haven't quite got the hang of research. . . .

 

[Athalia]

It seems that the hymen is after all flexible, and the penetrating penis can push it inward a good amount along with the surrounding tissue before any final stretching/tearing or whatever occurs.

My, my. Is this Old Threads Week?

I dunno about this. Maybe a person trained in gynecology could enlighten us. But I, for one, was never Elastigirl. My memory is hazy at this late date, but I don't think my hymen could have deflected more than half an inch or so.

I do concede that the guy, having torn the hymen, might be three inches or so inside a gal before he realizes (or she realizes) that something just gave.

 

[joelafayette]

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[Handley_Page]

No problem having a Medical refresher course, I s'pose,
although I'd have thought Wiki would have enough technical info. . . .

 

[sr71plt]

Yeah, a quick google search came up with enough information for story research.