What Makes Someone Cybersexy?

[THROBBS]

Wit I suppose is one of the 1st attribuites that I notice...
As a visual person, hot AVs... real or otherwise.
If the person is not actually physically hot, then maintaining a "veil" is wise to saty "cybersexy"






*Thread Titles Courtesy of Dr. Mabeuse

 

[TxRad]

A brain and knowing how to use it.

 

[THROBBS]

A brain and knowing how to use it.

I believe that is even more key in the cyber-world!

 

[TxRad]

I believe that is even more key in the cyber-world!

Try being a nudist and you will find out what part of the body becomes the most important. No fancy clothes or otherwise to tell people who or what you are. Now you have to get that across verbally the same way you do on the net.

 

[THROBBS]

Try being a nudist and you will find out what part of the body becomes the most important. No fancy clothes or otherwise to tell people who or what you are. Now you have to get that across verbally the same way you do on the net.

I suppose. If a nudist, then most of the usual physical mysteries are not there. (other than how you "shake what your momma gave you")

However, in cybersexy world...you can maintain an illusion of any physical attributes that you and your " partner like., Takes a bit of intelligence/creativity to do that well.
As in real life, if that level of intellect is well matched... good times!
ie. you don't have to write as well for a partner who does not read at a high level. yes?

 

[YoursSINSerely]

I suppose. If a nudist, then most of the usual physical mysteries are not there. (other than how you "shake what your momma gave you")

However, in cybersexy world...you can maintain an illusion of any physical attributes that you and your " partner like., Takes a bit of intelligence/creativity to do that well.
As in real life, if that level of intellect is well matched... good times!
ie. you don't have to write as well for a partner who does not read at a high level. yes?

This is the same thing as the 900 phone calls for sex. Its whatever the reader or listener imagines in their mind. The 900 phone ads always have a sexy girl pictured and that's who the guy on the phone thinks he's talking to. Same with an AV on email.

 

[Andrianya]

I think the same things can work here as in real life. Do you ask questions about the other person or is it all about you? Do you give a little info without telling it all? Do you tell interesting stories?

Also typing in a readable manner is very helpful. The avatars are nice but I am much more turned on by words and thoughts than pictures. I think that is pretty typical for females.

 

[lance gt]

Being cyber-sexy comes down to what persona you project is appealling to which people enjoy it. Everyone can be 'friendly' to a point, but it's taking things to the next level and being 'intimately friendly'.
Teasing and taunting with innuendos, evoke emotional responses, which lead to a greater degree of attraction, which in turn makes the connection stronger with them.
Knowledge of yourself allows your confidence to come out and as stated by Tx, being naked makes one's confidence level increase and have the ability to draw attention to themselves without the worry of backing it up.

 

[Vermilion]

A sexy mind. I can think of at least two men who, whilst I wouldn't necessarily find their personage attractive, they feature regularly in my fantasies - masterminding intricate sexual plots for me that don't require me to picture them physically.

One especially, xxx M

x
V

 

[TxRad]

The problem with projecting persona's and not ones real self is that sooner or later the cracks appear and the false gives way. To thy own self be true, applies to the net as much as it does in real life. Cybersexy or real? some of both has to be there or nothing is sexy or real.

 

[Vermilion]

The problem with projecting persona's and not ones real self is that sooner or later the cracks appear and the false gives way. To thy own self be true, applies to the net as much as it does in real life. Cybersexy or real? some of both has to be there or nothing is sexy or real.

I think cyber space just allows one to be openly the way one wants - I'm very sexual IRL, but that has to be hidden in the day to day for a multitude of reasons. Being online allows me to express that part of myself - it's still real, but it's not real life, if you know what I mean? Perhaps that's what's sexy - being able to connect to someone's most sexual aspect directly, with none of the everyday getting in the way - physicality included.

 

[Canbe4fun]

I think cyber space just allows one to be openly the way one wants - I'm very sexual IRL, but that has to be hidden in the day to day for a multitude of reasons. Being online allows me to express that part of myself - it's still real, but it's not real life, if you know what I mean? Perhaps that's what's sexy - being able to connect to someone's most sexual aspect directly, with none of the everyday getting in the way - physicality included.

I do like the disconnect from reality if you will. It is nice to be in a room where people’s senses are heightened and they enjoy the sensuality of each other. It is hard to go to a bar and find that same vibe. What makes people cybersexy is their ability to release their inhibitions. Its nice when they are eloquent about it, but that is not a pre-requisite...

 

[THROBBS]

I think cyber space just allows one to be openly the way one wants - I'm very sexual IRL, but that has to be hidden in the day to day for a multitude of reasons. Being online allows me to express that part of myself - it's still real, but it's not real life, if you know what I mean? Perhaps that's what's sexy - being able to connect to someone's most sexual aspect directly, with none of the everyday getting in the way - physicality included.

I do like the disconnect from reality if you will. It is nice to be in a room where people’s senses are heightened and they enjoy the sensuality of each other. It is hard to go to a bar and find that same vibe. What makes people cybersexy is their ability to release their inhibitions. Its nice when they are eloquent about it, but that is not a pre-requisite...

it is a bit like a masquerade ball...

 

[Vermilion]

it is a bit like a masquerade ball...

totally.... ooh - that would be *fun*
x
V

 

[THROBBS]

totally.... ooh - that would be *fun*
x
V

Totally!
I went to one... sadly my "date" was not as intrigued by the "possibilities" as I
The Masked Dance

 

[lance gt]

it is a bit like a masquerade ball...

just disguising your personality instead for the occassion. Playing on-line allows us to explore areas of ourselves we're unable or afraid to do in RL. It's safe, fun and gives us the chance to be who we'd really like to be. Inhibitions are lost when there's no reality to face, or condemnation for our foilbles as real people.

 

[JAMESBJOHNSON]

Oh! Please!

Walk thru the mall some time; the odds of finding anyone on the planet who's sexy is about 100,000,000 to 1. They dont make paperbags strong enough to contain the ugly mugs on LIT.

 

[lesbiaphrodite]

What makes someone cybersexy? It's a simple recipe. You take two people who are easily deluded, one or both of these people lying like dogs about who and what they are, add private messaging capacity and you have "cybersexy."

 

[Vermilion]

What makes someone cybersexy? It's a simple recipe. You take two people who are easily deluded, one or both of these people lying like dogs about who and what they are, add private messaging capacity and you have "cybersexy."

Nah, that's cybersex, it's different I think.

 

[The_Fool]

Oh shit. I feel a blurt coming on.

 

[Huckleman2000]

Oh shit. I feel a blurt coming on.

...aaand, we have a winner! The_Fool cuts right to the cheese!

 

[The_Fool]

Don’t add to my delusion.
Or is that an illusion that you make
for me to dispel
with my lack of desire.

Lack of desire.
There is no lack
although I aspire
to more than my body can give

any more.
Any less than what is required
becomes a frustration,
a failure.
Alluding to my age.

I really don’t care
Except when it gets in the way
and I can no longer see the fine print,
but can still find your switch.

Even in the dark
With the lights off,
I can find a moan
When you least expect it.

But we were talking of my delusions.
Or maybe not.
Let’s start this conversation once again,
I have lost track.

 

[lesbiaphrodite]

Don’t add to my delusion.
Or is that an illusion that you make
for me to dispel
with my lack of desire.

Lack of desire.
There is no lack
although I aspire
to more than my body can give

any more.
Any less than what is required
becomes a frustration,
a failure.
Alluding to my age.

I really don’t care
Except when it gets in the way
and I can no longer see the fine print,
but can still find your switch.

Even in the dark
With the lights off,
I can find a moan
When you least expect it.

But we were talking of my delusions.
Or maybe not.
Let’s start this conversation once again,
I have lost track.

That is reallllly good.

 

[TxRad]

That is reallllly good.

And quick too. A whole hour and a half.

 

[Freefall_mc]

And quick too. A whole hour and a half.

Geez Rad...I thought anything worthwhile, was worth the time it took.
oh...my...gawwwd! You ARE 21! I knew it.