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Harastal
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True holy people (as we call them) won't ask to get paid, although it is traditional to offer them some tobacco as a gift.
Someone who asks to get paid is doing it wrong.![]()
Yup. And that's where I draw my line. Accepting a gift for doing good deed is just good manners. It's gracious to accept a gift in return for what you saved or what it meant to someone. I do prefer symbolic to monetary.
I'm vaguely concerned about the idea of karma and whether or not someone with a gift is being granted the opportunity to even some sort of score with a gift to tip the scales at certain times. I'm not convinced that's not the case.
But in the end my judgment in that direction is made mostly because someone who is expected to do something for pay will ultimately be put in a position that will put their integrity up against their bank balance. I think if someone is in the habit of having ego and bank balance win out, it gets easier and easier over time to use lies and manipulation when talent fails to keep the cash coming in.
It's possible to get a decent balance, say in the case of my husband. He does have an unnatural knack that will repair or diagnose or fix a machine faster than anyone else I've seen. He can fix things intuitively...even to the point of knowing when an operator's manual is wrong...it's cool. But he doesn't advertise himself that way. People that around him over time just know to bring him broken things and he fixes them. Always for free. Though the women where he works tend to bring him their broken computers and then bake him cookies.