Phone Sex

[kittykatkate08]

I've recently been thinking about getting into phone sex.

Has anyone tried this on lit? What kind of experiences did you have?



Any tips?

 

[kaycee217]

I've had phone sex with a person I've met on Lit, but we never started talking on Lit with the intent on having phone sex.

I'm not the biggest fan of phone sex, but I do enjoy it once in a while. Some people have their own ways of having phone sex, so you need to find the right person, or be willing to try something you're not used to or expecting.

If you post a personal ad on Lit asking for phone sex, you'll get plenty of guys (I'm assuming you're only interested in having phone sex with men) to respond, so I'm sure you'll be able to experiment and learn. If you're nervous about using your telephone number, try using an instant messenger program or Skype.

 

[MasterSnatch]

Skype is definitely the way to go.

You never have to give out your real phone number and you can talk to anyone anywhere in the world for free.

What can be better.

 

[niv78]

I have Skype and I also have a phone number with Skype that I pay for, that way I can call folks so they do not have to be teethered to their computer. If you really get into it, I would suggest a wireless headset.

 

[cullowheekid]

if your interested in phone sex, ive had quite a few long distance relationships and I enjoy it from time to time so just pm me if you think you might be interested

 

[dianajh73]

Are you interested in doing it for fun or profit?
Don't know how the industry is doing in this economy - I'm gonna guess not great, but depends.

 

[LibraStud]

LOVE IT!

Are you interested in doing it for fun or profit?

I worked doing it, part time, for about a yr. I really get off on it, but I will warn you that you will have to check your personal interests at the door. I had to talk about a lot of fetishes and activities I didn't understand (balloons? smoking?) or thought repugnant (kids! Scat!). At the same time there were a lot of things that TOTALLY turned me on.

My love of phone sex started when a total stranger called my house and very politely asked if I was interested in phone sex. Being a teenager, I was all for it. He found that 2 or 3 times out of 10 he could find a taker. Had reg ph sex for several yrs with him

It is very reotic to picture exactly what you would be feeling if the person were with you or where you might be or what you might be doing. "I can feel your hands grabbing my hair, pulling it, controlling my head as you thrust your cock into my mouth". Others are into the sounds of sex, so having dildoes etc. around is helpful.

Whether it is for fun or profit, I LOVED IT!! Unfortunately I quit my "day" job for full time sexright before 9/11 and then the phone sex industry took a major hit. Ended up getting out of it because money wasn't there and my husband, boyfriend at that time, was jealous because he knew I really got off on it. Don't know how the industry is doing in this economy - I'm gonna guess not great, but depends.

Feel free to PM me

I had some wonderful experiences with women I knew. I would love to talk to you about this vs. a complete stranger. You blocked your PM so I hope you read this. PM me.

 

[blondebabydoll]

LOVE IT!

Are you interested in doing it for fun or profit?

I worked doing it, part time, for about a yr. I really get off on it, but I will warn you that you will have to check your personal interests at the door. I had to talk about a lot of fetishes and activities I didn't understand (balloons? smoking?) or thought repugnant (kids! Scat!). At the same time there were a lot of things that TOTALLY turned me on.

My love of phone sex started when a total stranger called my house and very politely asked if I was interested in phone sex. Being a teenager, I was all for it. He found that 2 or 3 times out of 10 he could find a taker. Had reg ph sex for several yrs with him

It is very reotic to picture exactly what you would be feeling if the person were with you or where you might be or what you might be doing. "I can feel your hands grabbing my hair, pulling it, controlling my head as you thrust your cock into my mouth". Others are into the sounds of sex, so having dildoes etc. around is helpful.

Whether it is for fun or profit, I LOVED IT!! Unfortunately I quit my "day" job for full time sexright before 9/11 and then the phone sex industry took a major hit. Ended up getting out of it because money wasn't there and my husband, boyfriend at that time, was jealous because he knew I really got off on it. Don't know how the industry is doing in this economy - I'm gonna guess not great, but depends.

Feel free to PM me

How do you do it for profit? I'm just curious, always have been!

 

[dianajh73]

To be honest I just used google to find phone sex operations that offered employment. Found one that gave a number to call. They had me do a call with someone as "interview". After that they would call me with the particulars (name, ph. number, basic likes/dislikes). I had my number blocked so caller ID didn't give them my no. Then I called back employer with # of min. and at end of month I sent a log with all the calls and minutes. I also ended up doing work for another company that used PayPal.

It's been a while and I don't have their info any more.

Good Luck

 

[dianajh73]

I had some wonderful experiences with women I knew. I would love to talk to you about this vs. a complete stranger. You blocked your PM so I hope you read this. PM me.

Sorry about that, I PMed you and turned on my PM. Still figuring this out

 

[whynotjustsayit]

I'd like to know what's the best (and least expensive) company to go with for getting a pay-as-you-go cell phone to use for phone sex. An untraceable phone you can use only for phone sex and nothing else.

 

[mmm_elliemae]

i personally love it! however, i have had a few times where the guy i met through lit turned out to be a little much...akward...but i would recommend at least trying it.

 

[niv78]

I'd like to know what's the best (and least expensive) company to go with for getting a pay-as-you-go cell phone to use for phone sex. An untraceable phone you can use only for phone sex and nothing else.

If that is what you are after then I would suggest stopping by your local Wal-Mart, they tend to have pre-paid phones there for around 30 dollars, and you just buy a phone card when you need to.

Like I said though, a Skype phone number (60 dollars for the number and then 19 dollars a month for unlimited calling just about anywhere) and a wireless headset will be cheaper for you in the long run.

 

[mdrobin26]

I never do it..but i want to do....any1 want to do with me...please let me know..if you are interest.

 

[DirtyPrettyOne]

I have not tried it yet, but I think it would be exciting with the right partner!

 

[whynotjustsayit]

If that is what you are after then I would suggest stopping by your local Wal-Mart, they tend to have pre-paid phones there for around 30 dollars, and you just buy a phone card when you need to.

Like I said though, a Skype phone number (60 dollars for the number and then 19 dollars a month for unlimited calling just about anywhere) and a wireless headset will be cheaper for you in the long run.

Yes, I did read your original suggestion and it is a good idea if you do the phone sex thing a lot. I'm looking for a cheaper option because I would not be using this phone very much at all. I need the most inexpensive plan possible. I already have paid cell and home phone services additionally that I would not be using for phone sex.

 

[StrayKat]

Beats typing and even voice chat by far. Nothing like being able to go to bed with a sexy phone
That said, I am certainly not giving my phone number to just everyone. I have to trust the person to call me when I say and not call me anymore when I decide its over. I gave my number to 3 people only so far, with one its still going on.

Its ok but I prefer real thing to be honest.

 

[kaycee217]

Beats typing and even voice chat by far. Nothing like being able to go to bed with a sexy phone
That said, I am certainly not giving my phone number to just everyone. I have to trust the person to call me when I say and not call me anymore when I decide its over. I gave my number to 3 people only so far, with one its still going on.

Its ok but I prefer real thing to be honest.

Don't we all?

 

[69sexytime69]

give me a number :]

 

[SassySheDevil]

LOVE IT!

Are you interested in doing it for fun or profit?

I worked doing it, part time, for about a yr. I really get off on it, but I will warn you that you will have to check your personal interests at the door. I had to talk about a lot of fetishes and activities I didn't understand (balloons? smoking?) or thought repugnant (kids! Scat!). At the same time there were a lot of things that TOTALLY turned me on.

My love of phone sex started when a total stranger called my house and very politely asked if I was interested in phone sex. Being a teenager, I was all for it. He found that 2 or 3 times out of 10 he could find a taker. Had reg ph sex for several yrs with him

It is very reotic to picture exactly what you would be feeling if the person were with you or where you might be or what you might be doing. "I can feel your hands grabbing my hair, pulling it, controlling my head as you thrust your cock into my mouth". Others are into the sounds of sex, so having dildoes etc. around is helpful.

Whether it is for fun or profit, I LOVED IT!! Unfortunately I quit my "day" job for full time sexright before 9/11 and then the phone sex industry took a major hit. Ended up getting out of it because money wasn't there and my husband, boyfriend at that time, was jealous because he knew I really got off on it. Don't know how the industry is doing in this economy - I'm gonna guess not great, but depends.

Feel free to PM me

X2, I did it for about 3 years for profit/fun. It was one of the first jobs that I truely could say I got paid to play and really enjoyed. But like was said. Your personal enjoyments aren't always what the caller wants to talk about.

 

[Kamz]

I had a long distance relationship...
my GF and i LOVED phone sex a lot....

hoping to find sum girl to start agin...

PM me if ur interested...I m 23/m

BTW i m straight... so WOMEN only!!!!

 

[Granprincipe]

Interesting

LOVE IT!

Are you interested in doing it for fun or profit?

I worked doing it, part time, for about a yr. I really get off on it, but I will warn you that you will have to check your personal interests at the door. I had to talk about a lot of fetishes and activities I didn't understand (balloons? smoking?) or thought repugnant (kids! Scat!). At the same time there were a lot of things that TOTALLY turned me on.

My love of phone sex started when a total stranger called my house and very politely asked if I was interested in phone sex. Being a teenager, I was all for it. He found that 2 or 3 times out of 10 he could find a taker. Had reg ph sex for several yrs with him

It is very reotic to picture exactly what you would be feeling if the person were with you or where you might be or what you might be doing. "I can feel your hands grabbing my hair, pulling it, controlling my head as you thrust your cock into my mouth". Others are into the sounds of sex, so having dildoes etc. around is helpful.

Whether it is for fun or profit, I LOVED IT!! Unfortunately I quit my "day" job for full time sexright before 9/11 and then the phone sex industry took a major hit. Ended up getting out of it because money wasn't there and my husband, boyfriend at that time, was jealous because he knew I really got off on it. Don't know how the industry is doing in this economy - I'm gonna guess not great, but depends.

Feel free to PM me

What I found interesting about this post was the reference to 9/11 being a pivotal point in the phone sex industry. I totally believe that, although my experiences have nothing to do with a phone sex job, per se. I am married but had very successfully carried on internet relationships with many women prior to 9/11 - some were phone sex relationships, webcam meetings, even real life meetings. I am very discreet and insisted that my partners were too. I was really having a ball. After 9/11 things almost completely dried up!

After a while I tried to analyze this phenomenon and couldn't come up with anything more than that the terrorists won as far as I was concerned. People became more cautious and even paranoid about talking on the computer and definitely about meeting. I am just starting to feel things loosen up a bit lately but I doubt that any of this will ever be like it was pre 9/11.

Sad but true.

Gran

 

[kaycee217]

What I found interesting about this post was the reference to 9/11 being a pivotal point in the phone sex industry. I totally believe that, although my experiences have nothing to do with a phone sex job, per se. I am married but had very successfully carried on internet relationships with many women prior to 9/11 - some were phone sex relationships, webcam meetings, even real life meetings. I am very discreet and insisted that my partners were too. I was really having a ball. After 9/11 things almost completely dried up!

After a while I tried to analyze this phenomenon and couldn't come up with anything more than that the terrorists won as far as I was concerned. People became more cautious and even paranoid about talking on the computer and definitely about meeting. I am just starting to feel things loosen up a bit lately but I doubt that any of this will ever be like it was pre 9/11.

Sad but true.

Gran

I never knew of this "phenomenon." Do you really think people (or women in particular) became paranoid? Did they really think some guy they met on Lit or AFF was some terrorist? Or were they afraid the Federal government was now monitoring everything?

 

[StrayKat]

Don't we all?

No, I knew few guys who were all hot about phone sex but didnt have guts to meet for real.

 

[kaycee217]

No, I knew few guys who were all hot about phone sex but didnt have guts to meet for real.

Excluding marriage, do you have any theories as to why this might be?