Sailorboy75
Really Experienced
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- Oct 17, 2009
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I was having this conversation with a beautiful LIT woman today. So I figured I'd ask y'all what you thought. This is what kind of extras do you like if any in your sexual relationships.
Relationships can be equivocated to a cake. The way a cake tastes can be broken down into 2 primary facets, the makeup of the actual cake layer(s), and the what the cake is topped with. Similarly, the quality of a good relationship can be broken down into what you currently have and what you'd like to have. The actual cake layer needs the right ingredients, can be molded into any shape, can use single or multiple layers (and other fun things inbetween each layer to boot), or can be as thick or as thin as the chef intends it to be. But this is the foundation of the cake and really cant be ignored.
However the frosting serves as the creativity or the presentation for the cake and gives it that little extra oomph. Different kinds of icing can be applied, candles can be used, icing designs can be applied, and it can even go with scoops of icecream to set the cake off even further relationships function in the same way...what you have with your SO can be described as the cake (how well you interact with each other, the bond (thickness) between your SO, the shape of your relationship), and the things that you'd like to explore/have with your SO that you dont can be the icing (exploring sexual adventures, fantasies, travelling, doing things outside comfort zones to surprise the other person).
Remeber be as creative as you wish remember it is your cake!
So my question is: what kind of cake are you currently having...AND....what kind of cake do you REALLY want to be?"
Example: A single layer white cake with plain white frosting and loving it! I love my monogomus relationship and don't want any extras.
Relationships can be equivocated to a cake. The way a cake tastes can be broken down into 2 primary facets, the makeup of the actual cake layer(s), and the what the cake is topped with. Similarly, the quality of a good relationship can be broken down into what you currently have and what you'd like to have. The actual cake layer needs the right ingredients, can be molded into any shape, can use single or multiple layers (and other fun things inbetween each layer to boot), or can be as thick or as thin as the chef intends it to be. But this is the foundation of the cake and really cant be ignored.
However the frosting serves as the creativity or the presentation for the cake and gives it that little extra oomph. Different kinds of icing can be applied, candles can be used, icing designs can be applied, and it can even go with scoops of icecream to set the cake off even further relationships function in the same way...what you have with your SO can be described as the cake (how well you interact with each other, the bond (thickness) between your SO, the shape of your relationship), and the things that you'd like to explore/have with your SO that you dont can be the icing (exploring sexual adventures, fantasies, travelling, doing things outside comfort zones to surprise the other person).
Remeber be as creative as you wish remember it is your cake!
So my question is: what kind of cake are you currently having...AND....what kind of cake do you REALLY want to be?"
Example: A single layer white cake with plain white frosting and loving it! I love my monogomus relationship and don't want any extras.
Just an empty plate *sigh*
