Looking for another female sub to help satisfy my master

[Masterstoy25]

I am a sub looking to surprise my Master with a new submissive toy that is into playing with us both. We are a couple in our mid twenties that are her: curvy and Him: a big strong in charge man. If you might be interested in starting on the phone/online let me know and we can discuss more details.


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[Masterstoy25]

Bumping because I added a picture.

 

[katiee317]

It just seems to me that as a sub you are the one taking charge and making the decision to add someone new to the relationship not the "Dom" . In a “surprise” to him.
Adding someone new in the relationship? Wouldn’t that be something he as the “Dom” should decide? Why is it that you need “help” in satisfying him?

 

[dareitry]

I have to agree with katiee. I would work harder at satisfying my Dom instead of looking for someone else to "help".
And my Dom would never approve of me making such a decision for him.
I would not want to make such choices, they are better left to the one in charge.

 

[pellso27]

my lil one needs direction

 

[Masterstoy25]

First off. I don't really appreciate the suggestion that I do not satisfy my Master. I get rewarded quite generously for His satisfation. I may have not made this clear in the personal but this would just be for a one time thing.
With that said our relationship is such that as long as I am doing something to please Him then I am allowed to do things like this. I may be wrong but almost all red blooded men like being attended to by two willing submissive women.
I have been a loyal sub for 5 years and if this gets me punished then I will take it…be ashamed for displeasing Him and life will go on. I have a sneaky suspicion that I will get a fantastic reward for reaching out though.

 

[katiee317]

Well it is your title that says you want "help" to satisfy him.

Help usually means assisting in something that one cannot do alone, thus the need for assistance.

Sorry, I merely used the same wording you did - "help to satisfy him" and you say " If you might be interested in starting on the phone/online let me know" Wouldnt "starting" imply more than a one time thing???

 

[StrayKat]

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Nice smile.

 

[bethie3333]

First off. I don't really appreciate the suggestion that I do not satisfy my Master. I get rewarded quite generously for His satisfation. I may have not made this clear in the personal but this would just be for a one time thing.
With that said our relationship is such that as long as I am doing something to please Him then I am allowed to do things like this. I may be wrong but almost all red blooded men like being attended to by two willing submissive women.
I have been a loyal sub for 5 years and if this gets me punished then I will take it…be ashamed for displeasing Him and life will go on. I have a sneaky suspicion that I will get a fantastic reward for reaching out though.

Your post does say you want "help" in satisfying him and I agree that adding someone new should be the Doms decision. And it sure doesnt sound like its a "one time thing" Seems as though you are taking the dominant position.

That being said, are you doing it to please him as you state or for the reward you expect to receive???

A subs duty and purpose is to satisfy and please her Master, not doing things seeking rewards. His satisfaction and pleasure is the subs reward. Perhaps if you were not out and about seeking to do things to "earn" rewards, you would have more time to concentrate on totally pleasing him yourself instead of seeking outside help in doing so.
Perhaps the new one is more for your satisfaction than for the Dom.

 

[Masterstoy25]

I didn't really realize that people on here were so judgemental. Our relationship may be a little different (and I thought that was sort of the point of this site that "different" was accepted) I don't see that as a reason to jump all over me. Also I meant start online as a way to see if another person would be comfortable with what He would want in a meeting with someone. I'm very sorry if my wording was not perfect. I just want to do something special for Him, please Him, make Him happy and this is something He has mentioned and was not sure I would be ok with. I'm really sorry if that's something other people can't understand.

 

[neci]

I am a sub looking to surprise my Master with a new submissive toy that is into playing with us both. We are a couple in our mid twenties that are her: curvy and Him: a big strong in charge man. If you might be interested in starting on the phone/online let me know and we can discuss more details.

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looks like a sub who is bringing home a present to me.... nothing wrong with that in my book. gifts are special, and this looks like it has the possibility of being a gift he won't soon forget.

It just seems to me that as a sub you are the one taking charge and making the decision to add someone new to the relationship not the "Dom" . In a “surprise” to him.
Adding someone new in the relationship? Wouldn’t that be something he as the “Dom” should decide? Why is it that you need “help” in satisfying him?

what's wrong with a sub taking initiative in pleasing her Master? if they have been in a relationship for a while, and they have working communication, she should hopefully know by now what will make him happy and pleased.

First off. I don't really appreciate the suggestion that I do not satisfy my Master. I get rewarded quite generously for His satisfation. I may have not made this clear in the personal but this would just be for a one time thing.
With that said our relationship is such that as long as I am doing something to please Him then I am allowed to do things like this. I may be wrong but almost all red blooded men like being attended to by two willing submissive women.
I have been a loyal sub for 5 years and if this gets me punished then I will take it…be ashamed for displeasing Him and life will go on. I have a sneaky suspicion that I will get a fantastic reward for reaching out though.

wow... she is allowed to do things like be creative as long as she is pleasing Him. Sounds like a dynamic that works for them. If her Master has a fantasy about another woman, and this is something she wants to explore, why not?!?!

Well it is your title that says you want "help" to satisfy him.

Help usually means assisting in something that one cannot do alone, thus the need for assistance.

Sorry, I merely used the same wording you did - "help to satisfy him" and you say " If you might be interested in starting on the phone/online let me know" Wouldnt "starting" imply more than a one time thing???

help in this context makes sense. two women helping and working together to bring Him satisfaction. a joint collaboration. if they didn't start online or by phone, i would be worried! it sounds like she wants to make sure she does a thorough screening to ensure the right fit, for all parties involved. a cautious person would take these measures (may i throw in a background check ) starting the process of adding someone new into the bedroom is a good idea. unless you want a crack ho to show up at the door with no teeth.

Your post does say you want "help" in satisfying him and I agree that adding someone new should be the Dom's decision. And it sure doesn't sound like its a "one time thing" Seems as though you are taking the dominant position.

That being said, are you doing it to please him as you state or for the reward you expect to receive???

A subs duty and purpose is to satisfy and please her Master, not doing things seeking rewards. His satisfaction and pleasure is the subs reward. Perhaps if you were not out and about seeking to do things to "earn" rewards, you would have more time to concentrate on totally pleasing him yourself instead of seeking outside help in doing so.
Perhaps the new one is more for your satisfaction than for the Dom.

every relationship has different dynamics! it looks like you are reading your own insecurities into this request. hmmmm... ever consider that totally pleasing him includes a MFF?

I didn't really realize that people on here were so judgmental. Our relationship may be a little different (and I thought that was sort of the point of this site that "different" was accepted) I don't see that as a reason to jump all over me. Also I meant start online as a way to see if another person would be comfortable with what He would want in a meeting with someone. I'm very sorry if my wording was not perfect. I just want to do something special for Him, please Him, make Him happy and this is something He has mentioned and was not sure I would be ok with. I'm really sorry if that's something other people can't understand.

welcome to the boards. i hope that you have discussed the possibility of this with your partner/master. best of luck in finding a wonderful and fulfilling gift - for all involved. the BDSM sites can be very judgmental at times. there was a thread not too long ago on personality types of subs, and it was interesting to see how low the average emotional stability was among the subs who responded to the study. i would like to say thank you for showing people that subs can take the "dominate" foot in pleasing their Masters. if it works for the two of you, kudos. good luck!

 

[Masterstoy25]

neci thank you for the support. I really appreciate it.

 

[katiee317]

I wasnt being judgmental of you. I was merely wondering if that isnt something a Dom would decide. In your post you said "surprise" him as though he knew nothing of it and as though it was entirely your idea and decision - in your later post you say it is something he has mentioned he might want. Hey whatever does it for you. To each his own

No need to take offense.

 

[neci]

neci thank you for the support. I really appreciate it.

anytime! good luck in the process of finding someone. even for a one night occasion, it sounds like something special. i have never added anyone into my bedroom (although it is something that has always been one of those - back in the mind - fantasies and not something i know if i could do in my real life,) but i think that the idea and action of it will be a journey in and of their own. just make sure you do the leg work into finding the right person, and make sure that they are as interested in the security side as you are. there can be very interesting people out there who jump at the possibility of an online encounter, and some people can end up being a basket case handful - whether only online or in person! have fun!

I wasn't being judgmental of you. I was merely wondering if that isn't something a Dom would decide. In your post you said "surprise" him as though he knew nothing of it and as though it was entirely your idea and decision - in your later post you say it is something he has mentioned he might want. Hey whatever does it for you. To each his own

No need to take offense.

thanks katiee. i didn't mean to offend you either. one of the reasons i like the forums is that people have the opportunity to discuss certain sides of issues and requests - making it a thinking and learning experience for the people that are reading the posts. i read into posts with my own shaded glasses, colored with my personal experiences and thoughts. sometimes questioning someone about why they are engaging in an activity, or belief, can reveal a lot about human nature and the differences in individual's thought processes. maybe i took one too many psychology classes in college - who knows! sometimes my perception of what a person posts is the result of just not having enough coffee or sex! thank you for sharing and asking questions.