Strap-on experiences

[jerrammed]

Spicey, that is the same way my wife is and soon as she puts that strapon
on it is a whole new her. Once we get started she really gets excited and sometimes it is more than I can handle and have to slow her down. Although it is also very exciting for me also and usually makes me come that much faster. It just may leave me a little sore, but the great sex is well worth it.

 

[HDSpicy]

Spicey, that is the same way my wife is and soon as she puts that strapon
on it is a whole new her. Once we get started she really gets excited and sometimes it is more than I can handle and have to slow her down. Although it is also very exciting for me also and usually makes me come that much faster. It just may leave me a little sore, but the great sex is well worth it.

Jerrammed - I know what you mean. As soon as I put on the strap on my husband says my who demeanor changes. I become more aggressive, which he loves by the way. There really is something that switches as soon as I put it on =)

 

[billc393]

I think that 'switch' being thrown is pretty common... I know I love the way the look in a woman's eyes changes after she's put that strapon, on... It's a wonderful transformation!

 

[HDSpicy]

Switch

I know for my husband there is a "switch" per say in his personality as well when I use the strap on. Hw takes on a more submissive body language and manner about him. It is a true switch in our roles.

 

[billc393]

I agree HDSpicy... seeing her don that strapon definitely throws a switch in me as well. I think it's all part of the "kick" this particular kink brings to sex play.

 

[trishcd]

update?

I'm looking forward to the next visit by Max (and her cousin Brie) this summer. They'll be staying for two or three weeks.[/QUOT

Let us know all about it

 

[The_Good_Sub]

just ordered this one from adam and eve. http://www.adameve.com/adult-sex-toys/strap-on-sex-toys/sp-vibrating-dual-harness-14240.aspx .

As a bonus whenever she isn't in the mood to use it on me she can make me use it on her. It makes for a nice tool since she wont let me climax anymore. With this i can do her for as long as she likes. It's also adjustable where the plug part is and can be set up to be inserted anally so she can make me wear a butt plug while doing her with a strapon while denying me any orgasm or genital stimulation at all. *headasplodes*

 

[fit2betied]

Strap on fun

Being married, but a bi male in the closet with out activeity, I have purchased a few strap on's over the years for my wife. I wanrted her to know she has the toys to pleasure her self should I be unavailble. I have had her fuck me with all of them at one time or another, but she just doesnt seem to think about it as much as I do. I do love it and need to remind her to fuck my horny ass more often!!! Sucking on a dildo is fun when I dont have any real cock to play with, so Ill take what ever she will give me.

(kneeling with my ass held high waiting for any takers!)

 

[blufreeze]

strap ons

in the case that it is a male to female situation is the female usually ok with this and is the stimulation as exciting as the real thing? i'm thinking of males with ED using a strap on as an aid.

are there strap ons that are extremely realistic and where can you preview them?

if the male is using a harness does the harness keep the dildo part in place or do you have to hold on to it with your hand also?
blufreeze

 

[fishbud]

having just tryed it

used small dildo on myself not to long ago loved it love to try to take a strap on but dont know if i can take it

 

[MissIntrigue]

I find that with either of my two harnesses that I own, if they are tightened enough to the body- then they become part of your body and you shouldn't have to use your hand other than to guide yourself into your woman (in my case, my man). They even have hollowed dildo for you to fit into if you suffer from ED. The thing with strap-ons for anyone to remember is that it isn't a body part therefore you're not able to feel resistance and you should always be aware of what your partner IS feeling.

Along with the hollowed out attachment, there are many realistic dildo attachments out there that are good quality materials. The Doc Johnson line of vac u lock products have many options for you in the realistic product line as well as the harnesses.

I cannot feedback on what level of stimulation there is for a woman, I've never been the recipient of strap-on sex. Perhaps someone else can comment/help with that one.

in the case that it is a male to female situation is the female usually ok with this and is the stimulation as exciting as the real thing? i'm thinking of males with ED using a strap on as an aid.

are there strap ons that are extremely realistic and where can you preview them?

if the male is using a harness does the harness keep the dildo part in place or do you have to hold on to it with your hand also?
blufreeze

 

[FurryFury]

I can't tell you what females are "usually" okay with because everyone is different. I can tell you that my husband and I have enjoyed double penetration scenarios without bringing in another male this way.

Our third strap on which we have both used on each other the dildo is vacuum locked and doesn't have to be held on. I don't think any of them had to be held on. I'm be more concerned with keeping it inside me. That goes for a real penis too though. I'm just so slippery.

Nothing is as realistic as a real penis. Plastic just doesn't feel the same. That being said, some dildos are bigger or thicker or angled just right for different sensations which can be fun.

in the case that it is a male to female situation is the female usually ok with this and is the stimulation as exciting as the real thing? i'm thinking of males with ED using a strap on as an aid.

are there strap ons that are extremely realistic and where can you preview them?

if the male is using a harness does the harness keep the dildo part in place or do you have to hold on to it with your hand also?
blufreeze

 

[FurryFury]

You just have to remember the ass hole isn't a vagina. You have to open it slowly with lube and care. Eventually, it can take a lot in.

used small dildo on myself not to long ago loved it love to try to take a strap on but dont know if i can take it

 

[ArnoldMicron]

I remember the first time she fucked me with her strap-on. It was in her TA office at college. She had me get down on my knees and and then she pulled it out. We had talked about doing this, but I didn't think it would happen. I got so hard the moment she grabbed the back of my head and glided my mouth onto her cock, at that point I became addicted to the cock. After taking it as deep as I could for a few minutes she brought me back up and bent me over her desk. She grabbed my hands and cuffed them behind me and inserted a ball-gag in my mouth. It was one of the best experiences of my life, I felt so helpless and aroused at the same time, but the best part was about to cum. She rubbed it around my asshole for a minute and then started to slowly put it in. After a few minutes she had it all the way in my ass getting off to me whimpering. She pounded me for atleast 20 minutes until I came in her hand which she proceed to make me taste. From that point on I have become addicted to the strap-on and now want the real thing. Unfortunately I moved away and we haven't been able to arrange for me to take the real thing, but I'm hopeful for a winter trip to see her and try.

 

[Triggerfoot]

Here's a plug [HA!] for some "equipment" we just switched to.

For years we're rocked with a Doc Johnson Val U lock....not perfect and we've tried others. The DJ says in place but doesn't do much for her and the variety/quality of attachments is limited.

The other day we order and just tried out an Annie-O harness with a Tantus 02 Niagara and Maximus lube, all new to us.

Holy hell, that's the best lube we've ever used......stays slick for a looooong time and doesn't dry tacky. In fact we haven't had it dry out in the first place yet.

The 02 Niagara rocks. Period. It has a soft squishy outer with a firm inner core. Slips in easier but still gives you that filled up feeling.

The SO was rocking like a bandit because the Annie-O places the Niagara right over here clit...oh, did I mention the Niagara has a bullet vibe at the base? Well, with the new positioning and bullet humming, she was enthusiastic to say the least!

No, I don't work for anyone, just thought y'all mite like to give that combo a try.

We are giving it 6 ****** out of a possible 5.

 

[Naughty_Neko]

Strap-on experience with only one previous boyfriend, sadly. Though another boyfriend did occasionally request some anal stimulation. But the strap-on experience...

Normally, I'm the submissive one. And he was great at dominating me... But he definitely has a submissive side, and that submissive side is VERY feminine and VERY submissive-- incidentally, I have named this side of his personality "Kayla" (his name starts with the letter K, it seemed logical) (And yes, he and I still talk, hang out, etc) ("Kayla" drunkenly hit on me recently. It was fun).

It all began with a shy request to explore my dominant side. As I bit him hard enough to draw blood (we both like biting), I noticed his... "happy noises"... starting to become increasingly feminine. When I commented on the change, he shyly looked down, then murmured something about his being bi, having a feminine side, etc. After a bit more prodding, he admitted to really, really wanting to be "used like a girl." He asked me to make him my bitch.

And so I did.

I had "her" demonstrate what a good little cocksucker "she" could be by sucking on my fingers, teased his entrance with my fingers, penetrated with fingers. And then, lo and behold, he brings out the strap-on. I made "her" beg, tell me what a naughty little slut "she" was, then pounded "her" ass. He whimpered, moaned, and came harder than I'd ever seen. He thanked me afterward.

Though the relationship ended, he and I still talk, and we have agreed that, if he and his current girlfriend break up, I get another chance to play with "Kayla."


I hope the description was at least somewhat enjoyable.

 

[pgsmith68]

Strap-on experience with only one previous boyfriend, sadly. Though another boyfriend did occasionally request some anal stimulation. But the strap-on experience...

Normally, I'm the submissive one. And he was great at dominating me... But he definitely has a submissive side, and that submissive side is VERY feminine and VERY submissive-- incidentally, I have named this side of his personality "Kayla" (his name starts with the letter K, it seemed logical) (And yes, he and I still talk, hang out, etc) ("Kayla" drunkenly hit on me recently. It was fun).

It all began with a shy request to explore my dominant side. As I bit him hard enough to draw blood (we both like biting), I noticed his... "happy noises"... starting to become increasingly feminine. When I commented on the change, he shyly looked down, then murmured something about his being bi, having a feminine side, etc. After a bit more prodding, he admitted to really, really wanting to be "used like a girl." He asked me to make him my bitch.

And so I did.

I had "her" demonstrate what a good little cocksucker "she" could be by sucking on my fingers, teased his entrance with my fingers, penetrated with fingers. And then, lo and behold, he brings out the strap-on. I made "her" beg, tell me what a naughty little slut "she" was, then pounded "her" ass. He whimpered, moaned, and came harder than I'd ever seen. He thanked me afterward.

Though the relationship ended, he and I still talk, and we have agreed that, if he and his current girlfriend break up, I get another chance to play with "Kayla."


I hope the description was at least somewhat enjoyable.

WOW....... That was hot!!!

 

[billc393]

Triggerfoot... any suggestions on who carries those items? They sound great!

 

[billc393]

Strap-on experience with only one previous boyfriend, sadly. Though another boyfriend did occasionally request some anal stimulation. But the strap-on experience...

It all began with a shy request to explore my dominant side. .......

After a bit more prodding, he admitted to really, really wanting to be "used like a girl." He asked me to make him my bitch. .... And so I did.

I made "her" beg, tell me what a naughty little slut "she" was, then pounded "her" ass. He whimpered, moaned, and came harder than I'd ever seen. He thanked me afterward.

Wonderful!! I wonder if folks really understand that so much of this type of play, starts just like you've described?

Things are explored, and desires revealed... leading to wonderful experiences like the one you've related here. So often folks think they have to find a person already into this... when the reality is, if both partners are having fun exploring their sexuality, this simply becomes another avenue of exploration!!

I hope you get another shot at "Kayla"... and/or another partner to enjoy this with!

 

[Triggerfoot]

Triggerfoot... any suggestions on who carries those items? They sound great!

Eden Fantasy is where we got ours. It's a very good web store with neat features, a great selection and customer reviews.

Our order placed on Mon. was here on Tues. regular UPS ground and we're a couple states from where it shipped.

 

[billc393]

Thanks! I'll definitely check them out.

 

[fencingsub]

its definitely something i'd love to try one day! have had countless fantasies of being dominated but only recently started to enjoy fingering myself and so on .

 

[timreh]

The thing with strap-ons for anyone to remember is that it isn't a body part therefore you're not able to feel resistance and you should always be aware of what your partner IS feeling.

Very true.

btw, cute AV!

 

[MissIntrigue]

Very true.

btw, cute AV!

Thank you for the compliment!

 

[MissIntrigue]

its definitely something i'd love to try one day! have had countless fantasies of being dominated but only recently started to enjoy fingering myself and so on .

Strap on is not about being dominated, however, it may seem that is the flavor of most erotic photography built around the act.

It is very intimate when had just between lovers/partners as pure enjoyment without the role play involved as well.