permission from the wife to have sex with another while she watches

[dude50]

My wife told me that she would like to watch me have sex with another . She said that it would be erotic and she would masturbate while we were having sex. What would you do? What should I think?

 

[ivantheterrible]

i'd think, "JACKPOT!!!!" but expect her to one day want you to watch her have sex with someone else.

 

[popcorn2721]

i'd think, "JACKPOT!!!!" but expect her to one day want you to watch her have sex with someone else.

Yep, I would more than expect it. If you fuck someone else while shes watching (assuming shes cool like that) odds to dollars that's the trade your going to have to make, man. So how do you like dealing with the devil?

 

[jtc071]

It's a trap - proceed with caution.

 

[dude50]

That's kinda how I feel. But she seems ok.

 

[Bluespark]

Does your wife have another woman in mind? It could be she wants to do more than watch but is not sure how you would react to her with another woman. Could be she all ready has a friend in mind and she is just trying to find an easy way to let you in on their little secret.

 

[dude50]

i don't think so. I'm kinda puzzled.

 

[TypicalDeviant]

It's a trap - proceed with caution.

Quoted for fucking truth.

I'd talk to her about it for a few weeks. Get the details from her, why does she want to do it, who does she have in mind, how does she want it to go. Would she be upset after? Would she want to fuck another guy after? Would she want to join in?

That offer seems pretty fantastic, but I'd definitely "read the fine print" before accepting and proceeding.

 

[millieteases]

talk to her. Don't be suspicious, be honest. It may just be a fantasy, it may be more, but if you don't talk about it with her you'll never know.

 

[whalee]

talk to her. Don't be suspicious, be honest. It may just be a fantasy, it may be more, but if you don't talk about it with her you'll never know.

Very wise advice.

 

[Joankraig]

What, is it only guys that can have the fantasy of watching their mate have sex with someone else?

 

[dude50]

I was hoping that some ladies would say something too. Thanks for the advice and the comments.....

 

[pixxel]

What, is it only guys that can have the fantasy of watching their mate have sex with someone else?

i agree
sometimes a fantasy is just a fantasy.

i find it interesting that so many assume it's just a means of manipulation if it's a woman who expresses something outside the assumed norm of vanilla sex.