I think most women are basically sluts.

[WriterDom]

By slut I don't mean that they sleep with a lot of guys. I just mean they are horny pretty much all of the time. The trick is you have to play nice until they drop their guard. A simple lesson the ASSHATs never seem to learn.

I have found this to be true my entire life. I've never seen a woman say no to anything sexual. But I have to add I've never been married either. I'm sure seeing the same asshole day after day and dealing with money and kids and life in general changes when you get married.

Flame away.

 

[CuteBrat]

By slut I don't mean that they sleep with a lot of guys. I just mean they are horny pretty much all of the time. The trick is you have to play nice until they drop their guard. A simple lesson the ASSHATs never seem to learn.

I have found this to be true my entire life. I've never seen a woman say no to anything sexual. But I have to add I've never been married either. I'm sure seeing the same asshole day after day and dealing with money and kids and life in general changes when you get married.

Flame away.

Guyz that "play nice" never get a second date with me. i like guyz who let me know whos in charge, and what they expect from teh very beginning.

 

[StrayKat]

By slut I don't mean that they sleep with a lot of guys. I just mean they are horny pretty much all of the time.

Personally, no. I am not horny *all the time*. When I am I show, but when I am not I genuinely mean what I say - no.

The trick is you have to play nice until they drop their guard. A simple lesson the ASSHATs never seem to learn.

None has to play nice with me. They have to be what they are though. If a guy I met is an ASSHAT I could even find something attractive and have (generally one night stand) sex with him. If he is pretending to be nice just to get in my panties then he has no chance with me.

I have found this to be true my entire life. I've never seen a woman say no to anything sexual.

I said no to something sexual a lot of times. Because I was not attracted to person or because I just wasnt in the mood. I said yes lot of times as well, even to the guys I could never imagine to spend more than a single night with.

I'm sure seeing the same asshole day after day and dealing with money and kids and life in general changes when you get married.

Yes, seeing the same asshole every day does tend to affect sex drive. In my case it can be in positive way too.

I suppose I could generally be called slut. I usually know what I want and how to get it. And I slept with lot of guys

 

[ownedsubgal]

just because a woman will not say no to sex, does not mean that she is particularly horny or amped up about it. i am rarely horny, and i have never said no to sex. another semantic quibble, being a "slut" has nothing to do with sexual desire.

 

[WriterDom]

just because a woman will not say no to sex, does not mean that she is particularly horny or amped up about it. i am rarely horny, and i have never said no to sex. another semantic quibble, being a "slut" has nothing to do with sexual desire.

I don't mean this in a bad way, but I've never seen or heard from anyone who is wired the way you are.

 

[gloriann]

I love the "I don't mean this in a bad way..."

There's only one person who can call me a slut and I won't take it in the wrong way, and even then, it had better be said at the right moment in time or there's hell to pay.

So, being a woman and being called a slut by a) not the right person, and b) not at the right time is something I find pretty insulting.

 

[WriterDom]

I love the "I don't mean this in a bad way..."

There's only one person who can call me a slut and I won't take it in the wrong way, and even then, it had better be said at the right moment in time or there's hell to pay.

So, being a woman and being called a slut by a) not the right person, and b) not at the right time is something I find pretty insulting.

I make the mistake of calling the lesbian a bitch one time. I swear we never made it through a day without fighting. In person she was great.

 

[StrayKat]

i am rarely horny, and i have never said no to sex.

I dont understand this part.

 

[Kikori]

ownedsubgal is unique. She can't say "no" to nearly anything. A stranger passing by could, by asking or ordering, lead her to his house and have his way with her. She wouldn't particularly enjoy it--she described it as being an "empty shell" before, by doing things without wanting to--but she would do it anyway because she was asked or told to.

 

[ownedsubgal]

I dont understand this part.

my submissive personality is wired in such a way that it would never occur to me to say no or refuse sex. beyond that, i view sex as service anyway, a way for me to please and be of use to my partner...therefore, no horniness necessary.

and while their motivations or reasons may be very different from mine, i know that most women at least in some point in life give in to sex when they are not "in the mood."

 

[ownedsubgal]

is it really a common belief that most women only have sex when they're super eager, juices flowing, rip roaring and ready to go??

 

[Kikori]

Not really. Though if it is, I guess I'm uncommon.

 

[WriterDom]

is it really a common belief that most women only have sex when they're super eager, juices flowing, rip roaring and ready to go??

Not always but with foreplay it's fairly easy to get them there. Most anyway.

 

[mistressmaxine]

Is it me or is this really dfficult to follow? Maybe I'm just having a "thick" day....

 

[smallgirl]

By slut I don't mean that they sleep with a lot of guys. I just mean they are horny pretty much all of the time. The trick is you have to play nice until they drop their guard. A simple lesson the ASSHATs never seem to learn.

I have found this to be true my entire life. I've never seen a woman say no to anything sexual. But I have to add I've never been married either. I'm sure seeing the same asshole day after day and dealing with money and kids and life in general changes when you get married.

Flame away.

most women i know, arent horny all the time. i only know of 2(in real life) who are....and im one of them. even i have my days where i could care less about sex though. i think alot its more common for women to embrace their sexuality today, than in years past, and its more acceptable for women to say..hey, i want what i want and need to. is that a slut? no.

 

[Eroscribe67]

most women i know, arent horny all the time. i only know of 2(in real life) who are....and im one of them. even i have my days where i could care less about sex though. i think alot its more common for women to embrace their sexuality today, than in years past, and its more acceptable for women to say..hey, i want what i want and need to. is that a slut? no.

Agreed and thank goodness for that!

 

[smallgirl]

Agreed and thank goodness for that!

i also think there are alot of women who get more from sex than others? those women are very much "in touch" with their bodies, and arent afraid to ask for and get it.

 

[gloriann]

I am also having a "thick" day because I'm not sure if I was called a bitch or not.

And I think that smallgirl stated it perfectly, more eloquently than my kneejerk to the balls reaction of potentially being called a slut, or a bitch for being a lesbian... even though I am great in person...

 

[smallgirl]

I am also having a "thick" day because I'm not sure if I was called a bitch or not.

And I think that smallgirl stated it perfectly, more eloquently than my kneejerk to the balls reaction of potentially being called a slut, or a bitch for being a lesbian... even though I am great in person...

i just dont think all women are sluts. im not really sure how i would define that word really.

 

[WriterDom]

Horny might have been a better choice of words.

 

[WriterDom]

I am also having a "thick" day because I'm not sure if I was called a bitch or not.

And I think that smallgirl stated it perfectly, more eloquently than my kneejerk to the balls reaction of potentially being called a slut, or a bitch for being a lesbian... even though I am great in person...

You think I did? I was talking about someone I was seeing three years ago.

 

[mistressmaxine]

I think slut is a state of mind.
I can have slutty days when the things I would do, the things I think are definitely on that spectrum but other days are not.
On those days I would be enraged at being called a slut!

 

[gloriann]

My apologies, then.

 

[ecstaticsub]

Absolutely not. I think most women have sex far down on their list of priorities. Children, their home, work all come first. When they finally have a moment to themselves and with foreplay they crave and enjoy sex.

Most women are vanilla and the above is true. Maybe...just maybe in the kinky world most women are horny more often. But even kinky, often horny women have days where they are mentally or physically too exhausted to want sex.

I never say no to sex, whether from my PYL or husband but that doesn't mean I am always horny. They can help me get the juices going but that is different than being constantly horny.

 

[eastern sun]

By slut I don't mean that they sleep with a lot of guys. I just mean they are horny pretty much all of the time. The trick is you have to play nice until they drop their guard. A simple lesson the ASSHATs never seem to learn.

I have found this to be true my entire life. I've never seen a woman say no to anything sexual. But I have to add I've never been married either. I'm sure seeing the same asshole day after day and dealing with money and kids and life in general changes when you get married.

Flame away.

I think it's the way you play them.