What do fem subs prefer?

[deliciouslyummy]

What do you feel like right now, to be punished or to be used. You cant answer both, just one or the other?

To be bound and blindfolded on a wheel or to be gagged with a cock and used like a slut

 

[Nightfallen]

I don't think you quite get it.

It doesn't matter what the whores want, it matters what we, or more namely, I - want. Their 'desires' 'opinions' or 'preferences' are meaningless. They exist to be fucktoys, sluts, servants and slaves.

Isn't that right, whores?

 

[neighborboy]

I would imagine it depends on the sub, so it seems like kind of a silly question, if you ask me.

 

[MasterMischief]

I would imagine it depends on the sub, so it seems like kind of a silly question, if you ask me.

There are no silly questions. Only silly people.

 

[smallgirl]

What do you feel like right now, to be punished or to be used. You cant answer both, just one or the other?

To be bound and blindfolded on a wheel or to be gagged with a cock and used like a slut

definitely the second. hands down.

 

[misslil]

What do you feel like right now, to be punished or to be used. You cant answer both, just one or the other?

To be bound and blindfolded on a wheel or to be gagged with a cock and used like a slut

yea i also say second

 

[urchance]

yea i also say second

Well then misslil I have just the thing for you

 

[misslil]

Well then misslil I have just the thing for you

mmmm yea

 

[WriterDom]

Does it matter?

 

[Adakgirl]

As a submissive I seek to avoid punishment, never to purposly bring it on myself. I always seek to be used and for the last question my answer is "both".

 

[Adakgirl]

I don't think you quite get it.

It doesn't matter what the whores want, it matters what we, or more namely, I - want. Their 'desires' 'opinions' or 'preferences' are meaningless. They exist to be fucktoys, sluts, servants and slaves.

Isn't that right, whores?

No Nightfallen. As a matter of fact, in my personal opinion... that is quite wrong indeed. A seriously excellent Dominant always knows what his fucktoys, sluts desires, wants and needs are and usually keeps them in mind and under consideration.

 

[Red_Hot_Mama]

i'd say

the second also

 

[Sun Tan Guy]

definitely the second. hands down.

Have to say I would prefer to be the Dom over ya then on the second one.. mmmmm and put your nipple clamps on ya too..mmmmm
STG

 

[exiledmaster]

What do you feel like right now, to be punished or to be used. You cant answer both, just one or the other?

To be bound and blindfolded on a wheel or to be gagged with a cock and used like a slut

I don't think you quite get it.

It doesn't matter what the whores want, it matters what we, or more namely, I - want. Their 'desires' 'opinions' or 'preferences' are meaningless. They exist to be fucktoys, sluts, servants and slaves.

Isn't that right, whores?

Oooo, this question brought out one of the 'saying bad words makes me a dom' crowd didn't it?

For what it's worth, I understand the question, but I think every day of sex with 'their' dom is like Christmas Day for a sub. They know they're going to get something intended to make them happy, and they know their dom has an idea of what they would like to be on their list, but they don't know what's going to be inside the wrapper.

 

[Nightfallen]

Oooo, this question brought out one of the 'saying bad words makes me a dom' crowd didn't it?

No, what makes me a dom is the fact that I realize, from experience, that a truly submissive person doesn't want to set the rules.

They have boundaries, and it is my job as a good Dom to discover those boundaries without overtly giving them the impression that they have any control at all. But they don't get a choice like the OP is discussing, at least mine don't.

And for the record, the nine replies I've had from subs who have 'enjoyed' my response outweighs the one judgemental 'dom' and the one psuedo-sub-on-sundays. Being a sub or a dom isn't about some giggly little exploration of kink. Ideally it's at the very core nature of the parties involved. Meaning a 'real' sub will be turned off and made uncomfortable by being offered the choice in the first place.

 

[littlekumu]

I don't think you quite get it.

It doesn't matter what the whores want, it matters what we, or more namely, I - want. Their 'desires' 'opinions' or 'preferences' are meaningless. They exist to be fucktoys, sluts, servants and slaves.

Isn't that right, whores?

yes, quite right

 

[exiledmaster]

No, what makes me a dom is the fact that I realize, from experience, that a truly submissive person doesn't want to set the rules.

They have boundaries, and it is my job as a good Dom to discover those boundaries without overtly giving them the impression that they have any control at all. But they don't get a choice like the OP is discussing, at least mine don't.

And for the record, the nine replies I've had from subs who have 'enjoyed' my response outweighs the one judgemental 'dom' and the one psuedo-sub-on-sundays. Being a sub or a dom isn't about some giggly little exploration of kink. Ideally it's at the very core nature of the parties involved. Meaning a 'real' sub will be turned off and made uncomfortable by being offered the choice in the first place.

Whatever.

You think what you wish. Keep repeating the party line. Live long and prosper etc. You of course haven't judged anybody. Oh no sirreeeee...

 

[Dasja]

I have to agree. I don't want a choice, I make plenty of decisions during the day. When its time for playing I don't even want to decide what to wear or what position I'm to be pleasuring or pleasured in. I want to relinquish all control of my body to someone else.....Wish I could find someone like that for real.

 

[katiee317]

I have to agree. I don't want a choice, I make plenty of decisions during the day. When its time for playing I don't even want to decide what to wear or what position I'm to be pleasuring or pleasured in. I want to relinquish all control of my body to someone else.....Wish I could find someone like that for real.

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[StrayKat]

Wont comment on anything, just lemme drool over that ass couple of posts above

 

[neci]

No, what makes me a dom is the fact that I realize, from experience, that a truly submissive person doesn't want to set the rules.

They have boundaries, and it is my job as a good Dom to discover those boundaries without overtly giving them the impression that they have any control at all. But they don't get a choice like the OP is discussing, at least mine don't.

And for the record, the nine replies I've had from subs who have 'enjoyed' my response outweighs the one judgemental 'dom' and the one psuedo-sub-on-sundays. Being a sub or a dom isn't about some giggly little exploration of kink. Ideally it's at the very core nature of the parties involved. Meaning a 'real' sub will be turned off and made uncomfortable by being offered the choice in the first place.

hmmmm... part of me agrees with you one the core nature of being submissive, but it is quite overshadowed by the fact i find your response to be that of a complete and utter self absorbed ass. i have found, through observation and participation, that there are many variations within the personal experiences one has through domination and submission. every person has their own reaction and longings buried within them that D/s pulls out. i am a whole hearted believer in the "giggly little exploration of kink." sometimes it can lead to the awakening of energies inside you that may have gone on undiscovered. so fuck. play on.
oh. and i think number one for me tonight .

 

[thatgirl2136]

i personally don't want a choice...i like not knowing what would come next and so on...now of course there's personal thoughts such as the 2nd would turn me on more than the first.
i agree with not being comfortable with having to make the choice i make enough choices in my life that i want to step back from the choice making, though that doesn't mean my hard boundaries can be pushed....

 

[deliciouslyummy]

Lit readers

I find often that lit readers will always try to look cleverer than the others lol... The question was quite simple.... What do YOU feel like right now... TBH I feel rather patronised being taught stuff that I already know because people make the question to be what they want it to be....

Question is...What do fem subs prefer right now...

 

[FluteMaster]

I find often that lit readers will always try to look cleverer than the others lol... The question was quite simple.... What do YOU feel like right now... TBH I feel rather patronised being taught stuff that I already know because people make the question to be what they want it to be....

Question is...What do fem subs prefer right now...

I was wondering when someone would actually read the question...shame that it had to the OP who reminded everyone that this wasn't an essay on "what rights does a sub have in choosing what happens to them."

As a Dom, personally, I always like to know what my subs want/prefer...but that doesn't necessarily mean they will get it. The first is understanding, the second is control. The latter is improved by the former.

And for all the feb subs who would want to know what I want...I would rather use you than punish you.

Peace

FM

 

[DeepGreenEyes]

Sometimes discussions in BDSM threads begin to resemble fundamentalist theology:

"You have no right to call yourself [blank]. Belief in [blank], [blank] and [blank] is essential to true [blankness]. If you don't believe [blank], then you need to start examining whether you really are [blank]. Furthermore, the very fact that you would want to engage in a discussion about [blank] makes you highly suspect, and if you persist, you may well face excommunication. Or at least your posts will be ignored."



More and updated information is a good thing. So I like the question in this thread.