how to find other bis?

[horsie_gurl]

Okay, so I'm a girl that has been attracted to other girls for some time now. I've always had relationships with men, but I really want to try something out with a woman. I just don't know how to get it started. Its hard enough trying to find a man that is interested, flirts back, and isn't gay, but how do you find the few women that are interested, and gay/bi? I don't even know where to begin, and i wish I didn't have to go to a meeting or a group of bisexual women in order to find someone, i wish it could just be a chance meeting and i can ask someone out and she would like me too. I'm just scared, because i have this assumption that a majority of women are straight, that if i ask someone out i will get rejected and rumors and craziness.

 

[emap]

Hmmm, methinks someone needs to calm down about this.

There are lots of ways to find a bi or lesbian woman, most of them are the same way as finding a guy, just takes a little longer. Not all women are straight, I'm thinking not even half of all women are straight, alot just hide behind religion or marriage.

So do the same things you do to get a guys attention and let him know you are interested, just do it to women, alternately if you are really that scared of being turned down, go to a gay bar, or if you have any a lesbian bar and let them pounce on you. Course you may get a transsexual male to female, but heck I always liked the idea of that one anyway, has a dick, isn't a dick, acts all feminine, and doesn't have the PMS.

Well probably isn't a dick at least.

 

[FasrEddie]

There are lots of ways to find a bi or lesbian woman, most of them are the same way as finding a guy, just takes a little longer.
So do the same things you do to get a guys attention and let him know you are interested, just do it to women, :

Great advise.
Although I'm a guy.
I see women at bar's doing the same thing's I do do pick up Women.

1. Look around to see who's checking you out.

2. Make direct eye contact.

3. Watch for positive body language.
( Eye's roaming up & down your body, Licking of lip's... Ect. )

4. Flirt!!!

It wont take long to see who's interested.

 

[kiltsr4guys]

Okay, so I'm a girl that has been attracted to other girls for some time now. I've always had relationships with men, but I really want to try something out with a woman. I just don't know how to get it started. Its hard enough trying to find a man that is interested, flirts back, and isn't gay, but how do you find the few women that are interested, and gay/bi? I don't even know where to begin, and i wish I didn't have to go to a meeting or a group of bisexual women in order to find someone, i wish it could just be a chance meeting and i can ask someone out and she would like me too. I'm just scared, because i have this assumption that a majority of women are straight, that if i ask someone out i will get rejected and rumors and craziness.

You can try http://www.okcupid.com....It's free and they have a place in your bio that you can identify that you are bi....a good place to get your self out there

 

[infinity706]

Hmmm, methinks someone needs to calm down about this.

There are lots of ways to find a bi or lesbian woman, most of them are the same way as finding a guy, just takes a little longer. Not all women are straight, I'm thinking not even half of all women are straight, alot just hide behind religion or marriage.

So do the same things you do to get a guys attention and let him know you are interested, just do it to women, alternately if you are really that scared of being turned down, go to a gay bar, or if you have any a lesbian bar and let them pounce on you. Course you may get a transsexual male to female, but heck I always liked the idea of that one anyway, has a dick, isn't a dick, acts all feminine, and doesn't have the PMS.

Well probably isn't a dick at least.

Yeah, I've had tons of 'straight' guys. Many of them were even married to women.