What instrument do you have a love/hate Relationship with?

[OldGuy1026]

What instrument do you have a love/hate Relationship with?

Okay all you submissive types, especially you sodomites with your backs against the wall, what punishment instrument do you have a love/hate relationship with?
For me it my Mistress’s Riding Crop. If you go to a Le Sex Shop they can be expensive, you are paying for a fetish instrument right. Well I went to a riding shop and found some interesting ones there. I can’t believe “Flicker” is propelled by one of those riding crops with the small pink hand on the end. I actually saw one used by a couple of riders at a Rodeo. (Good thing western jeans are so tight hid my hard-on.)

So the big love/hate was when she was really pissed off with me, and decided to really punish me. I don’t know why I didn’t use the safe word, but I didn’t and I got one thousand slaps of various intensities mostly on the bottom, but also from the shoulders to the soles of my feet. At seven hundred and fifty I was crying so much she left me tied to the spanking chair in a sound-proof room to answer the phone and talk with her girlfriend. She was so turned on she wanked-off while talking to her. After the last blows were delivered I then gave her oral sex.

So the riding crop, I love it, but hate it too.

 

[MisterSir]

The drums. I mean, I blame myself at the end of the day, it was my decision to take them up and I have to bear the responsibility, but it's so frustrating. All my limbs have different ideas about how to run the show and, once I've got three of them to start collaborating, the fourth will decide "harmony? lol no" and screw the whole thing up. It makes me laugh, it makes me cry, it makes me feel lik-no, sorry, that's radio. The point stays, though, I love it and I hate it.

 

[Sayyid]

The cane. It requires finesse and control I don't have.

 

[ecstaticsub]

Butt plugs and anal probes. They may not be the kind of instrument you were referring to but i definitely have a love/hate relationship with them.

The big ones really hurt and feel uncomfortable when I have to wear them for long periods of time. But they immediately put me in the surrendered sort of mindset that I crave.

 

[the captians wench]

I have a little home made device that Jounar came up with. He loved seeing and hearing me sit on tacks, but they would spread all over the place when I stood up, so now they are glued down to a board. It made them firmer. They hurt more now than they did when they were loose.

It's a sharp pain, I don't handle sharp pain well. So I struggle with it, but a part of me craves this toy. I think it feeds my submissive cravings as much as my maso ones because it's a real fight to sit there as long as he tells me to where thuddy pain I can zone out and take all day.

 

[Homburg]

The drums. I mean, I blame myself at the end of the day, it was my decision to take them up and I have to bear the responsibility, but it's so frustrating. All my limbs have different ideas about how to run the show and, once I've got three of them to start collaborating, the fourth will decide "harmony? lol no" and screw the whole thing up. It makes me laugh, it makes me cry, it makes me feel lik-no, sorry, that's radio. The point stays, though, I love it and I hate it.

Oddly enough, this was the answer I was going to offer.

Drums + RSI = suckage

 

[Sayyid]

I'm good at drums myself, but my preferred instrument is the crop.

 

[intothewoods]

Love/hate? Probably canes, but my PYL doesn't use them. With him? Hmmm. Maybe the belt, but it's more love than hate.

 

[Corylea]

One of my favorite toys is ... bare hands. I have plenty of toys, and I do enjoy using them, but for me, there's something primal about hands and teeth.

I'm a woman, and I've never been an athlete, so even though I'm tall, male bottoms often think, "How much damage can she do without a toy?"

Damage? I do try to limit that. Sensation? Ha. Lots and lots!

My fingernails are quite thin, which makes them very sharp. Many men underestimate their nipples, poor silly dears, but I find that most men have nipples that are erotically sensitive. Combine sharp fingernails with sensitive nipples, and one needn't do anything at all damaging to have the toughest guy in the world on the verge of safeword.

One of my favorite things to do is to learn a bottom's reactions well enough that I can tell when he's ten seconds from safeword, take him to that point, back off, take him to that point, back off ... gosh, a girl can amuse herself for hours that way. And if one gets bored with nipples, well, there's an awful lot that can be done to those vulnerable male genitals, again without cauing the slightest damage but plenty of sensation.

I remember the time I had a (male) bottom screaming for most of an hour, at which point I said, "Well, I guess I'd better get out some toys, or you'll think I'm not a real sadomasochist. He laughed until he cried.

My favorite toy is ... me.

 

[subish2009]

One of my favorite toys is ... bare hands. I have plenty of toys, and I do enjoy using them, but for me, there's something primal about hands and teeth.

I'm a woman, and I've never been an athlete, so even though I'm tall, male bottoms often think, "How much damage can she do without a toy?"

Damage? I do try to limit that. Sensation? Ha. Lots and lots!

My fingernails are quite thin, which makes them very sharp. Many men underestimate their nipples, poor silly dears, but I find that most men have nipples that are erotically sensitive. Combine sharp fingernails with sensitive nipples, and one needn't do anything at all damaging to have the toughest guy in the world on the verge of safeword.

One of my favorite things to do is to learn a bottom's reactions well enough that I can tell when he's ten seconds from safeword, take him to that point, back off, take him to that point, back off ... gosh, a girl can amuse herself for hours that way. And if one gets bored with nipples, well, there's an awful lot that can be done to those vulnerable male genitals, again without cauing the slightest damage but plenty of sensation.

I remember the time I had a (male) bottom screaming for most of an hour, at which point I said, "Well, I guess I'd better get out some toys, or you'll think I'm not a real sadomasochist. He laughed until he cried.

My favorite toy is ... me.

Nice answer!

 

[Homburg]

I'm good at drums myself, but my preferred instrument is the crop.

Y'know, a long bat is much like a cane, and the shaft can be used as such. The only way to learn precision control is by practising it.

 

[rida]

The belt. His belt.

The crop, flogger, cane, single tail, shoehorn, they all hurt and I hate them all.
The belt thou ... it hurts, I hate the pain but I've found myself craving it too, for it is an intimate instrument that, to me, is very intimate.

 

[OldGuy1026]

Butt plugs and anal probes. They may not be the kind of instrument you were referring to but i definitely have a love/hate relationship with them.

The big ones really hurt and feel uncomfortable when I have to wear them for long periods of time. But they immediately put me in the surrendered sort of mindset that I crave.

Found this site, only way to pass the pictures:
http://www.extremerestraints.com/butt-plugs_1/extreme-anal-jewelry_257.html

Now that is interesting.

 

[Corylea]

Found this site, only way to pass the pictures:
http://www.extremerestraints.com/butt-plugs_1/extreme-anal-jewelry_257.html
Now that is interesting.

No sapphires? No amethysts? Aww, I'm disappointed.

 

[Sayyid]

Y'know, a long bat is much like a cane, and the shaft can be used as such. The only way to learn precision control is by practising it.

Bat? Huh?

 

[bigdaddymackman]

Stockades,

I love to use them but they are too hard to take to work with you.

 

[ecstaticsub]

Found this site, only way to pass the pictures:
http://www.extremerestraints.com/butt-plugs_1/extreme-anal-jewelry_257.html

Now that is interesting.

I had one. The medium sized one with the blue stone. It slipped out of my hand one day and the stone shattered on the tile floor. Very pretty but really somewhat useless. It wasn't very good at staying in for long periods of time. Very expensive toy that in my opinion was not worth it at all.

 

[00Syd]

clothespins (or any other sort of clip or clamp), specifically when they are on my nipples. They hurt like a bitch and I hate them when they're on but seriously nothing turns me on faster.

 

[missginger2177]

Not exactly a toy, but my answer is a good piece of rope. Sorry, Homburg.

There isn't a thing in the world that gets my blood pumping like being tied just enough as to be helpless. And nothing that turns me off faster than some elaborate knotwork. Love it/Hate it

Oh and to all you Rope Tops out there, I have a serious question. How do you tie someone that has trick thumbs and can get out of handcuffs and traditional knots? My bf would be most happy if I could supply him with that information.

 

[missy_me]

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[nh23]

I was thinking about this and trying to decide. The cane..nope love it. Same for clamps, floggers, crops.. So I'll have to say his hand, but only when he slaps my face. When he slaps me across the face in play, or because I'm smarting off either way my first reaction is anger. It pisses me off beyond belief, but another part of me loves it in play, and respects him for doing it when needed.

 

[Cattypuss]

The cane.

 

[PamelaPlaisir]

The clock

The time I'm with Him is filled with so much pain/pleasure and leaves me so satisfied and fulfilled. Yet waiting for the next time is a torture that pushes this one's limits of sanity. I might add that we are still working on my total lack of patience.

 

[Corylea]

The clock

The time I'm with Him is filled with so much pain/pleasure and leaves me so satisfied and fulfilled. Yet waiting for the next time is a torture that pushes this one's limits of sanity. I might add that we are still working on my total lack of patience.

Clever yet oh-so-true interpretation of the question!

 

[Homburg]

Bat? Huh?

Bat is another term for the crop. A long bat is a longer crop, and a short bat is a shorter one.

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Not exactly a toy, but my answer is a good piece of rope. Sorry, Homburg.

There isn't a thing in the world that gets my blood pumping like being tied just enough as to be helpless. And nothing that turns me off faster than some elaborate knotwork. Love it/Hate it

Oh and to all you Rope Tops out there, I have a serious question. How do you tie someone that has trick thumbs and can get out of handcuffs and traditional knots? My bf would be most happy if I could supply him with that information.

No need to apologise

As to the trick thumbs thing, have him research "eel play" and hojojutsu. Eel play is when the bottom specifically tries to escape, and the top tries to prevent it with ropework. Hojojutsu is the art of using rope for martial and law enforcement standards in feudal Japan. Both useful areas of research.