Seeking Dom/me

[desertflower34]

So, after a go at this way back in the beginning of the year, I’ve decided to try things out again. I’ve had some great experiences with online D/s, as well as some not-so-great ones, but I’ve decided to stop withdrawing and ignoring my sexual needs and to put myself back out there. Also, things have finally died down a bit in my life from extremely busy to entirely manageable, so I figure what better use of my newly found free time than to find a D/s relationship?

I’m a 19-year-old bisexual female submissive. I’m looking for a Dom or Domme for a long-term relationship that will start online and go on to who knows what. While I’ve made some strides in actually approaching and embracing my own sexuality, I’m still a virgin who’s got some shyness left to combat and am looking for a mature, patient guide in my life who can help me through that. I want someone who can be by my side as I explore and push my limits and continue learning what being a true submissive is all about.

I’ll repeat my last post’s disclaimer. This is not an invitation for irrational demands or for the whims of the clinically insane. Though I am young and still rather new to this, I am not an idiot. I will not accept abuse or dishonesty or cruelty. If you send me a one-sentence e-mail full of misspellings telling me to "sUck Myy DICK naoW, biTch!", I will ignore you. If it's obvious you have no idea what you're doing, or are simply in search of tonight's jerk-off inspiration, I will ignore you. If you don't respect my limits or if you tell me you love me after an exchange of three e-mails, then guess what? I will ignore you.

If, however, you are sane and kind and intelligent, and have an interest in possibly developing a relationship with a young sub, then by all means, contact me as soon as you can.

Thanks.

 

[mcfbridge]

Hi

I would love to talk to you about this. I'd be delighted to take you on. If you want to check out my imagination, you can check out my stories here. Please PM me if you are interested.

 

[GothScotsman1]

I would be very interested in guiding you, down you own path of BDSM enlightenment. If you are interested and would like to get to know each other better send me a PM please. We have a lot to talk about.

 

[yourmissl]

You may be young....

.... but you are impressively smart, desertflower34. Terrific post - submissive doesn't mean stupid, does it?

Best of luck in your journey: should you ever feel like chatting with an older, but also inexperienced sub, please feel free to send me a pm.

Cheers,
missl :

 

[algimore]

Remember

.... but you are impressively smart, desertflower34. Terrific post - submissive doesn't mean stupid, does it?

Cheers,
missl :

Totally agree with missl, remember in your quest for a master, there is a difference between a doormat and a submissive. A submissive will not only be that way sexually but pretty much in other areas of life. A good Dom will make sure that any boundaries a sub has are honored. If he/she does not then they are looking for a slave and not a sub. There are slaves out there, in the BDSM world they are willing slaves and sadly functional slaves. Functional meaning that they have a pathological need for someone to tell them what to do. Anyaway, a good Dom will sit down/Im back and forth/skype etc. with a potential sub and find out the limits the sub will go to and if the dom is willing to go forward with the boundaries placed. Above all from an experienced dom....remember you even as a submissive in a relationship have the right to cry foul/walk away/say no, this is too far. I say this because you said you are starting out in the life, many that do start out are not aware that just because they choose to be submissive they can still say no. A true dom will love his sub even if he/she puts bounderies on how far the dom can go. Now if your a sadist/masochist chances are everything I said is out the window and if thats the case hey, whatever floats your boat.