Mind games

[AriannaKing]

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[eastern sun]

I love mind games, but only when I enter them willingly. And the internet is an ideal environment in which to play.

For obvious reasons, they can be confusing and disorienting sometimes. I don't particularly like framing mind games with obvious "now we're playing" parameters, because I like the vulnerability I feel when the anchors that keep me grounded are cut, and I'm willingly floating in some virtual uncertain reality - but anyone who plays this way should be extremely cautious. As "real" as the feelings the games generate are, the reality of the situation is often very different than the "truth" of the game.

It's easy to believe you're going deeper into your own "truth" while you're actually moving further and further away from reality.

 

[ecstaticsub]

My PYL will sometimes take advantage of a situation and use mind games to emphasis a point of his. I don't like it when it is happening. I am a very trusting person and sometimes take thigs too seriously. These games sometimes end up feeling like tests to me. But when everything is said and done and I have recovered I have to admit that he achieves the outcome he was looking to get.

 

[jenniferbaby]

I love mind games, but only when I enter them willingly. And the internet is an ideal environment in which to play.

For obvious reasons, they can be confusing and disorienting sometimes. I don't particularly like framing mind games with obvious "now we're playing" parameters, because I like the vulnerability I feel when the anchors that keep me grounded are cut, and I'm willingly floating in some virtual uncertain reality - but anyone who plays this way should be extremely cautious. As "real" as the feelings the games generate are, the reality of the situation is often very different than the "truth" of the game.

It's easy to believe you're going deeper into your own "truth" while you're actually moving further and further away from reality.

I agree, mind games only work when you're aware that they're happening. In my limited experience, I love talking to someone about normal everyday things and all of a sudden he's turning me on and getting me to do things and I'm not sure exactly how it is I got there. Trust is definitely a key aspect to this because you have to know that the person respects you and your limits before letting your guard down enough to let them play with you.

It's interesting that games can let us in on a reality that we never knew existed.

 

[praefect]

I have a great one planned

She doesn't really speak German. But she likes the language. I figure I might give her a crash course.

Blindfolded I will explain everything I will do to her - In German
I will tell her exactly what it is I'm expecting her to do - In German
And if she doesn't... heh

I'm pretty sure she'll pick up a few basic words pretty quickly

 

[bridgeburner]

I am far too delicate a flower to do well with mind games.

 

[VelvetDarkness]

Master once had me pinned down, convinced he was about to carve his initials into my skin. He was in fact holding a key against me and I was therefore in no danger of being cut or scarred. Now I think I would be able to handle cutting but back then he had me scared shitless.

He also once orchestrated an abduction and it was some while before I knew whose hands I was in. That was also incredibly intense. Had he not revealed himself to me when he did, I could have reacted very badly. He plays hard and takes risks but he reads me so well that beneath the adrenaline, I actually have very little to fear.

 

[serendipitous2]

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[PamelaPlaisir]

I was blown away the first time I was fucked with words. He spoke into the phone and his words registered in my mind which became his surrogate and literally overwhelmed me. I was naked on the bed, my hands were placed against the headboard and my legs spread wide. He began to to tell me what he was doing. As he bit into a nipple, my nipples tightened into buds. Each step along the way I could physically feel my body respond to his words. He had me so worked up; then he told me to cum and my body obeyed. I had never had an experience like that before. Definately a mind game and I'm addicted.