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No it makes you dominant and liking to see submission in a different way? maybe?
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I am having recurring fantasies about my female Mistress using her man-like strength to bend me over and violate my asshole.
In my fantasy, my lady has a fleshy strap-on with testicle attachment and lifelike cum squirting action. Also she has no boobs and a hairy chest.
Does this make me gay?
In my fantasy, my lady has a fleshy strap-on with testicle attachment and lifelike cum squirting action. Also she has no boobs and a hairy chest.
Does this make me gay?
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Does it?
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I can't believe people actually ask this question. I'm not talking about this thread, of course, but we sure get a lot of people asking it in GLBT. Well, at least the question in the other thread - does liking anal in general make a man gay. It's like, DUDE. Are you having sex with a man? No? THEN YOU'RE NOT GAY. I mean jesus, gay men are just SMART ENOUGH to know that playing with the prostate feels REALLY GOOD. So for a straight man to figure that out too doesn't make him gay, it makes him ENLIGHTENED. Like oh my god, here is this fabulous playground I never knew about! Now if only I could shed the societally imposed taboo and make peace with the fact that LIKING ASS PLAY means that I LIKE ASS PLAY! What the hell does being gay have to do with it AT ALL? It's BIOLOGY. I mean, fucking christ!
Dan Savage needs to write about this. He wrote about "pegging" and it is now the accepted term for it, now he just needs to write about how it DOESN'T MAKE YOU GAY.
Dan Savage needs to write about this. He wrote about "pegging" and it is now the accepted term for it, now he just needs to write about how it DOESN'T MAKE YOU GAY.
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You're making some fair points here Etoile, but I'm not yet convinced.
I invite further debate on the subject.
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Liking anal sex does not make you gay.
[sarcasm] Whining like a little bitch because you're afraid of your sexuality, that makes you an idiot. And just maybe a gay one at that.[/sarcasm]
Though I do wonder- is a woman who likes anal sex gay? We don't have a prostate, but it feels orgasmically lovely if done right.
On the other side of things- are you on the penetration side or the receiving end? Does that make a difference? Is anally fucking someone less gay then enjoying being anally fucked?
[sarcasm] Whining like a little bitch because you're afraid of your sexuality, that makes you an idiot. And just maybe a gay one at that.[/sarcasm]
Though I do wonder- is a woman who likes anal sex gay? We don't have a prostate, but it feels orgasmically lovely if done right.
On the other side of things- are you on the penetration side or the receiving end? Does that make a difference? Is anally fucking someone less gay then enjoying being anally fucked?
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God, I hope so.
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Does that mean that getting anally fucked by a strap-on wielding domme would make me gay cos I'm a girl?
Maybe ur just like me I like all aspects of sex and at the end of it all it's all about enjoying urself and making the best of a situation if this involves eating a womans pussy or being ridden like a bitch till u cum then it's all good and this doesn't make u gay it just makes u a dirty bastard just like me my friends allways tell me I'm greedy cos noone is safe well it's not my fault I enjoy sex and making people cum is it lol
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Thought provoking question. How closely do you relate being gay to being submissive?
When you say gay, do you mean gay? Or are you secretly behind the scenes thinking submissive?
Another question: Do you think its entirely possible to have sex with a person of the same sex purely for the domination/submission aspect of it, and not be gay?
When you say gay, do you mean gay? Or are you secretly behind the scenes thinking submissive?
Another question: Do you think its entirely possible to have sex with a person of the same sex purely for the domination/submission aspect of it, and not be gay?
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I have never fucked a guy, but I do fantasize about it from time to time. Never equated it to being gay, just enjoy the Dominant aspect. Seems like fucking a guy's ass or mouth has an even stronger Dom flavor than w a woman. Wouldn't think of "making love" with guy, just using him as a toy for my pleasure. To each his own and to each enjoy.
I have never fucked a guy, but I do fantasize about it from time to time. Never equated it to being gay, just enjoy the Dominant aspect. Seems like fucking a guy's ass or mouth has an even stronger Dom flavor than w a woman. Wouldn't think of "making love" with guy, just using him as a toy for my pleasure. To each his own and to each enjoy.
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penetratee=s; penetrator=D.
That's my intuitive impression of the act, not the orientation.
There's always 'Mistress made me.' And the prison bitch thing.
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Wow, I just had the most interesting image of slapping an equality sticker over Tim Gunn's mouth and buggering him backstage at an opera. And it is more interesting because his voice is what I like most about him.
I blame you, Netzach, and your evil, tempting queer memes.
Netzach
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THAT = gay.
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Can I engage in some tranference and just blame you? Is that not working? Is that gay too?!?
DAMMIT!
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I like the whole package. Sighhh.
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What would having straight sex mean to a gay guy?
Obviously there's no uniform, monolithic perspective. But more often than not, do gay men consider other gay men having sex with females (as long as their heart's not in it) to be perfectly normal and no big deal?
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Depends.
Some gay men are ewwwwww about it.
My husband's bf self ID's as gay, but was married, sometimes thinks women are hot, but his much stronger preference is for men.
I guess you can do this whole "if I'd set up house with one gender and not the other gender I'm that orientation" thing, but in some ways, I think all this does is marginalize and freakify the overwhelmingly common phenomenon of bisexuality.I realize there's a ton of backlash against that term and concept, but I think it covers a lot of ground.
I considered myself MUCH better off KNOWING my fiancee needs cock in his life rather than not, because he's "straight"
If you were to ask me, it's a series of factors. One experimental drunk night in college you don't go back to? You're pretty straight. One experimental drunk night in college you *can't stop thinking about* - hello.
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