Getting Kinky(er) with time

[madeinindia]

I don't know about you, but in the last year and a bit, soon after turning 40, I feel that I want to try all kinky things in sex. I've been married for 15 years and am now constantly preoccupied with strange thoughts of pee, panty sniffing, face sitting.......my wife will have none of it!
Tell me, is it just me or am I in real danger of becoming (?) a pervert?
I would love to hear your views.

Mr Friskyforever

 

[Dirtco]

live long

I feel the same way too. The older I get the kinker I want to be. I believe it is becouse I am more comfortable with my body and sexuality. I know that I cannot do this forever but while I have the ability I want to try many other things.

 

[Etoile]

You want me to move this to BDSM? Or did you mean for it to be in GLBT?

 

[millman96]

I'm in the same boat Frisky,,

Been married for 29 years. My mind has been running wild with things that I would consider kinky. I have even tried mentioning it to the mrs. but get really weird looks in return. She thinks things are just perfect and tells me that, I'm just never saticfied, no matter what she does. Well, if you consider vanilla sex as the limit, I guess all would be fine...lol. My sex drive goes a long ways past that though. So I just dropped the subject with her. I do have a couple of friends that I can talk to and that helps.

I find myself thinking more and more about other men, men and their wives or a couple of guys. To many veriations to mention on here....lol. Since I found the internet, I think that I have become a full flegged perv.....lol. All the stories and post on this site alone, are enough to keep my fantasies fueled and my cock hard....ya know what I meen??

I haven't acted on them yet for fear of being caught and 29 years of marriage going down the tubes. But at the same time the desires are getting a lot stronger too. Good luck to you.

Millman

I don't know about you, but in the last year and a bit, soon after turning 40, I feel that I want to try all kinky things in sex. I've been married for 15 years and am now constantly preoccupied with strange thoughts of pee, panty sniffing, face sitting.......my wife will have none of it!
Tell me, is it just me or am I in real danger of becoming (?) a pervert?
I would love to hear your views.

Mr Friskyforever

 

[Cabeza]

I'm in the same boat Frisky,,

Been married for 29 years. My mind has been running wild with things that I would consider kinky. I have even tried mentioning it to the mrs. but get really weird looks in return. She thinks things are just perfect and tells me that, I'm just never saticfied, no matter what she does. Well, if you consider vanilla sex as the limit, I guess all would be fine...lol. My sex drive goes a long ways past that though. So I just dropped the subject with her. I do have a couple of friends that I can talk to and that helps.

I find myself thinking more and more about other men, men and their wives or a couple of guys. To many veriations to mention on here....lol. Since I found the internet, I think that I have become a full flegged perv.....lol. All the stories and post on this site alone, are enough to keep my fantasies fueled and my cock hard....ya know what I meen??

I haven't acted on them yet for fear of being caught and 29 years of marriage going down the tubes. But at the same time the desires are getting a lot stronger too. Good luck to you.

Millman

Same here. As my sex life at home dwindles, my imagination has to come up with new and interesting ideas. First it was stories, then normal porn, then kinkier porn, and now the Lit boards - when I can get away with it. I love hearing that others have the same kinky fantasies as me - especially about being with other men.

 

[bi golly]

Same here. As my sex life at home dwindles, my imagination has to come up with new and interesting ideas. First it was stories, then normal porn, then kinkier porn, and now the Lit boards - when I can get away with it. I love hearing that others have the same kinky fantasies as me - especially about being with other men.

That's the way it was for me also. I liked the idea of gay sex, but only if I was somehow tricked into it. That was good jerk off material.

At some point, I accepted the idea of being sexual with a man as being okay and not that kinky. To me, kinky is being tied up, blindfolded and used.

 

[SilkyDave]

me too

must be something that arrives with age, my mind wants kink, my wife does not :-(

 

[greystardust]

Tell me, is it just me or am I in real danger of becoming (?) a pervert?
I would love to hear your views.

Mr Friskyforever

You're not in any danger madeinindia, you're a fully graduated perv already. Congrats, and rock on

 

[panty wearer]

must be something that arrives with age, my mind wants kink, my wife does not :-(

Same here!!

 

[madeinindia]

Thanks, guys. I feel better already.

 

[spawnofdavey]

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[bisexualsmoker]

The more you experiment and realize your fantasies, the further you want to go.
This doesn't have to include kiddie porn or bestiality, which is just a realm
for the sick minded, as far as I can see. Those are the true perverts.

 

[HDSpicy]

I was just reading this thread and thinking to myself... "Wow, I wonder what I'll be like at 40?"... considering my husband and I have an early start on exploring our kinkiness.

 

[dedk]

Oh lord, just a few years ago, I would have never, ever, in a million years imagined myself doing the things that I enjoy now. For me, it was all about getting over silly hangups and just enjoying everything that life has to offer....

 

[rjp44]

I think that later in life guys tend to quit worring so much about what others consider "normal" and want to experience their fantasies. This is based on the number of bi guys either married or recently divorced that I've met or chatted with who are in their 40's and 50's

 

[rjp44]

I was just reading this thread and thinking to myself... "Wow, I wonder what I'll be like at 40?"... considering my husband and I have an early start on exploring our kinkiness.

I'm sure you'll be fretting over all the smile lines and also very satisfied with llife.

 

[albertaboy]

Years ago we would have bought little red sports cars, now withthe internet and the availability of Kink we explore new fantasies instead.


Mid-Life crisis

 

[Duco]

I'm livin the same shit with my wife of 19 years.

She's ok in the sack but doesn't try real hard. Kinky is out. She's done a few kinky things for me in the past but she never wanted to talk about it after.

I can see myself going somewhere and doing something with another man, but it would have to be pretty spontaneus, and after a few vodkas.

I still have the internet

 

[meflash]

being single after 28yrs married, i started to live out my kinky side, i have had bi sex & like it, now iam CD for fun I also cam with afew guys who like me dressed up. sex with men is very differant from sex with women, i can enjoy both, i never would have thought i would suck cock dressed as a woman & like it a few yrs ago

 

[sterculius]

Wow! And I thought that I was the only one. I used to love sucking off my friend in high school. I felt very guilty about it afterward but I still wanted to keep blowing him. I was his personal daily cocksucker for over two years until graduation. I have always been primarily attracted to women, but for the longest time I felt bad that I would often fantasize and masturbate to the memory of sucking my friends very big cock and remembering how much I enjoyed doing it. As I got older and wiser, I began to feel less guilty for those desires and decided to allow myself to indulge in them again. Now I feel like a jerk for having wasted so much time in self recrimination when I could have been the proud cocksucker I am today. Even ten years ago I would never have dreamed that I would allow my wife of thirty years to fuck me in my ass with a strap on dildo, much less enjoy it the way I do now. I told her about my early cocksucking experiences with my friend in high school but she's unaware that I occasionally still do it.

 

[meflash]

Wow! And I thought that I was the only one. I used to love sucking off my friend in high school. I felt very guilty about it afterward but I still wanted to keep blowing him. I was his personal daily cocksucker for over two years until graduation. I have always been primarily attracted to women, but for the longest time I felt bad that I would often fantasize and masturbate to the memory of sucking my friends very big cock and remembering how much I enjoyed doing it. As I got older and wiser, I began to feel less guilty for those desires and decided to allow myself to indulge in them again. Now I feel like a jerk for having wasted so much time in self recrimination when I could have been the proud cocksucker I am today. Even ten years ago I would never have dreamed that I would allow my wife of thirty years to fuck me in my ass with a strap on dildo, much less enjoy it the way I do now. I told her about my early cocksucking experiences with my friend in high school but she's unaware that I occasionally still do it.

when i was still with my wife i got her to use her dildoe on me a few times, & sometimes as i would be fucking her i would say how hot it would be to eat her as another guy was fucking her, she always came but never said yes lets do it, iam sure she would have filped out if i told her i want to suck a cock. since your wife didnt react bad to your confession about past cock sucking you might get her open to your desire to suck again. good luck sterclius

 

[BBC4WMILFnCPLS]

When I was still with my wife I got her to use her dildo on me a few times, & sometimes as I would be fucking her I would say how hot it would be to eat her as another guy was fucking her, she always came but never said yes lets do it, I am sure she would have flipped out if i told her i want to suck a cock. since your wife didn't react bad to your confession about past cock sucking you might get her open to your desire to suck again. good luck sterclius

I want to do that so badly.

My wife will have none of it. Her version of sex is going through the same motions we've going through for almost 10 years.

She was more adventurous a few years ago, now the kinkiest thing she;ll do is buy some edible stuff to rub on your body. I'm looking like "Damn, is that it?"

Plus we only do it once a week, if that.

 

[debycha1968]

My wife is about the same> I have also started exploring that adventurous side. I find it extremely satisfying and liberating. I agree that as we get older we worry less about stigmas are are concerned more with just getting the most enjoyment out of life.

 

[george51]

I think its something that happens to most people, myself included. Up until I got married I'd have been happy for plain old vanilla sex. These days I find myself thinking about trying to make my wife squirt, anal (her on me that is) and other 'kinky' stuff. So you're not alone at all.

I agree. You're not alone.

 

[mebiyou]

I'm in the same boat Frisky,,

Been married for 29 years. My mind has been running wild with things that I would consider kinky. I have even tried mentioning it to the mrs. but get really weird looks in return. She thinks things are just perfect and tells me that, I'm just never saticfied, no matter what she does. Well, if you consider vanilla sex as the limit, I guess all would be fine...lol. My sex drive goes a long ways past that though. So I just dropped the subject with her. I do have a couple of friends that I can talk to and that helps.

I find myself thinking more and more about other men, men and their wives or a couple of guys. To many veriations to mention on here....lol. Since I found the internet, I think that I have become a full flegged perv.....lol. All the stories and post on this site alone, are enough to keep my fantasies fueled and my cock hard....ya know what I meen??

I haven't acted on them yet for fear of being caught and 29 years of marriage going down the tubes. But at the same time the desires are getting a lot stronger too. Good luck to you.

Millman

that is EXACTLY how it is here. I have gone with my buddy a number of times and it is great. He is safe and clean and so am I. both have been married 27 years and both of us have the same sex drive and desires. But "more" is always just a click away....either on Lit. or someother chatroom....